FRIEND
What is the meaning by friend? In Malay, friend can be two meaning, 'kawan' or 'sahabat'. Best friend in Malay 'kawan baik', different meaning from 'sahabat'. 'Sahabat' can be interpret as very good friend, maybe like best friend forever (BFF). I think, in Japanese, 'sahabat' is the meaning of 'nakama'. As for me, 'sahabat' or 'nakama' is the best word for the friends that understand each other and friends that can laugh and cry together.
MY 'SAHABAT'
I have a nakama and we already being friend for 22 years old (same age like us). I know her when her mother babysitting my brother, sister and me. She has very nice eyes that could give me some strength to protect her. When I was 9 years old, my family had to move to another place and that makes we never seen each other for a long time. But luckily, we never ever lost contact and we decide to meet again some day. Currently, both of us continue our study at different university and college.
Yesterday, she told me that she want to share with me some story. I guess, this must be related with her friends at her college and I instinct was right. She told me about her good friend (male friend) misunderstood about their friendship. He thought think that my friend is his girlfriend (in special relationship) but my friend never ever think about that kind if relationship. What's wrong with him??? Maybe he felt that my friend's kindness is a confession of love to him...
SOLUTION
My friend ask for advice or any solution that I can give to her to overcome this problems...and I ask her to break the friendship. Am I a bad person, asking someone to break the friendship?? I dunno.. but I feel that the best solution is that: break up the friendship or else...
I feel sorry for my friend, because she love the friendship. Not only the friendship with him, but with other friend too... That is why I always pray to Allah swt to keep this friendship alive because I know I have to become stronger and stronger to protect her and to become her shoulder for her to cry.
By the way, the solution. She quite disagree with me when I told her to break up the friendship. She told me that she will feel awkward because both of them in the same class. I told her, if she doesn't want to do that, then it's okay and I will support any of her decision. And I know, she will overcome this problem someday...
Okay then, jaa mata.
'do not regret what happened yesterday, because yesterday will make you stronger for the next day'