well, then this doesn't really apply to you, there are some deeper things that you and your parents deal with than what I'm talking about withe the types of kids addressed in this.
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i probably shouldn't be posting a reply to this, especially if its an i agree with you but at the same time i dont type thing, but i just had a fight with my parents and its still fresh in my mind.
and there were a lot of things i wanted to tell my parents that i just didn't.
i think the biggest thing i wanted to say to this/at my parents is because parents try to be a good parent and do all these things for their kids, when a fight occurs its very hurtful for the kid. i've never felt as worthless as i did last night. or this weekend. and idk, i think that its like when kids say " i hate my parents" its not really because its just full on hatred for their parents, or even annoyance(because i still strongly believe no one could ever hate their parents, even with abuse&such). i really think its just anger that the parents make them feel like they suck, and they cant do anything right.
and i also feel like parents assume too much. a big part of my fight yesterday was because my mom said that im only friends with people who invite me places. and maybe its because im a teenager that i interpretted that wrong, but i saw it as really offensive.
with the "same belief system" part, well i also have a problem with that. my parents are usually good with allowing me to choose what i believe in//they are supportive with whatever religion/not-religion i choose to believe/not believe in. and thats awesome and all.
but then we get to gay rights/marriage laws and how gays are not natural to this world. and i do get angry at them when they say that or show disgust to a person JUST BECAUSE they're homosexual.
it hurts a lot more because i'm gay, and they make me feel ashamed. and once again back to the "im more angry because they make me feel like i shouldnt be what i am. especially now because i have no control over it.
i get where you're coming from and i do mostly agree with you... its just, well. yeah.
idk if im coming from the right place seeing how my parents did call me spoiled rotten and ungrateful,too. but, hey. thats my own two cents.
SG Creations
Otaku Legend | Posted 05/30/11 | Reply
@Lizinator03:
well, then this doesn't really apply to you, there are some deeper things that you and your parents deal with than what I'm talking about withe the types of kids addressed in this.
Last edited by SG Creations at 5:36:39 PM CDT on May 30, 2011.
Lizinator03
Otaku Legend | Posted 05/30/11 | Reply
i probably shouldn't be posting a reply to this, especially if its an i agree with you but at the same time i dont type thing, but i just had a fight with my parents and its still fresh in my mind.
and there were a lot of things i wanted to tell my parents that i just didn't.
i think the biggest thing i wanted to say to this/at my parents is because parents try to be a good parent and do all these things for their kids, when a fight occurs its very hurtful for the kid. i've never felt as worthless as i did last night. or this weekend. and idk, i think that its like when kids say " i hate my parents" its not really because its just full on hatred for their parents, or even annoyance(because i still strongly believe no one could ever hate their parents, even with abuse&such). i really think its just anger that the parents make them feel like they suck, and they cant do anything right.
and i also feel like parents assume too much. a big part of my fight yesterday was because my mom said that im only friends with people who invite me places. and maybe its because im a teenager that i interpretted that wrong, but i saw it as really offensive.
with the "same belief system" part, well i also have a problem with that. my parents are usually good with allowing me to choose what i believe in//they are supportive with whatever religion/not-religion i choose to believe/not believe in. and thats awesome and all.
but then we get to gay rights/marriage laws and how gays are not natural to this world. and i do get angry at them when they say that or show disgust to a person JUST BECAUSE they're homosexual.
it hurts a lot more because i'm gay, and they make me feel ashamed. and once again back to the "im more angry because they make me feel like i shouldnt be what i am. especially now because i have no control over it.
i get where you're coming from and i do mostly agree with you... its just, well. yeah.
idk if im coming from the right place seeing how my parents did call me spoiled rotten and ungrateful,too. but, hey. thats my own two cents.