i had to call the RM on duty last night because my roommate keeps disrespecting my boundaries and breaking our roommate agreement contract, as she never asked me if i was cool with her girlfriend being over all the time. so, i talked to housing and they told me to call the duty phone to get her caught so there would be a record of it happening.

flash forward to last night, i called the duty phone, my roommate was way more upset than her girlfriend was. she talked crap about me to the rm, told lies and made it seem like i was an irresponsible party girl (i came home really late twice over the long weekend, classes were cancelled because of the hurricane and i was hanging out with friends to not worry so much) even though she regularly disturbs my sleep with her behaviors, etc

i saw her girlfriend like an hour ago and talked to her, told her i didnt intend for her to feel unwelcome, my roommate just never talked to me about things beforehand. her girlfriend was way more understanding and told me she tried to calm her down and explain where i was coming from. she literally is so nice and i told her i think shes a cool person and i dont mind her being there at all, and totally understood that i did what i did because that was the only way i knew how to handle it.

weird. also my counselor basically told me "next year you should think about getting a single because you've had so many roommate problems" which made me mad because none of them are my fault. like. theyre all buttholes who cant be decent people even after asking them to nicely be decent people. how is that my fault