Most of the time, I would tolerate them. But when a 12 year old, cries like a 2 year old over doing the dishes. That is what gets me. I know I am being rude. But to me, it's being blunt about a topic. But seriously, crying over dishes. I know we were all like that sometimes. BUT, it does get annoying. Once, I told her to grow up, she threw a fork at me. Which was VERY UNCALLED FOR......How rude! I wish there was a way to get through to her. If there was, I would take that any day. But sadly there isn't. But maybe some day, she will see for herself. Like we all did once in our lifetimes.