Here is the bit of the log:

dark flame master: 1. nothing in this room leaves this room
dark flame master: 2. no running off to a mod, and no logs will be saved
dark flame master: 3. once a dare is issued, changes must be made before the dare is conducted
dark flame master: 4. to help with earlier discresion and help keep players. we will keep no holds for those who want it. if not, mention during the dare and it shall be switched

Now as you can see they were clearly trying to hide what they were doing from the moderators. There would be no need for this if what they were doing was allowed. Since this degraded into sexual dares it clearly wasn't allowed at all.

So please, don't do something that requires me to ban you from the site. Also keep in mind that I have the option in chat to go from room to room without being visible and if necessary I can set the chat software to log everything that happens, even private conversations.

It's not worth losing your account over something like this. Not when you have other options available to you on the Internet. And there is no reason why other members should have to put up with someone who refuses to abide by the site terms.