I thought I might as well post some questions my friends have asked me a few times. These are questions you should not ask your boyfriend/significant other as they never lead to anythin positive. Also, they're quite annoyin. Most people tend to ask these questions often without realizin it, so self awareness is a concept too!
1. Does this look bad on me? Do I look fat in this?
First of all, what do you EXPECT him to say X)? The only possible answer here is “no.” Do you really think he’s going to tell you that you’re a fatty and need to lose some weight? Ummmm of course not. So what is the point of this question? Seriously XD? Have you ever asked yourself that? Because aside from giving the impression that you are super insecure, there is no point in bringin this up.
TIPPY TIP: A guy will give you a compliment if he wants to. Forcing one out of him only makes it meaningless. :(
2. Do you think she’s pretty? Are there any pretty girls at your work?
-Sigh- This is a trick question because in reality, if he tells you the truth and says, “Yea, there are a few” — which I guarantee you there ARE — then you will be upset. And if he lies and says there aren’t any, you won’t believe him. The fact of the matter is there are pretty people EVERYWHERE. We will always find others attractive, there is no way around it. You must come to the point where you are secure in yourself and your relationship enough not to be threatened by it.
3. What are you thinkin'? Why are you quiet? Is somethin' wrong?
AHHHHH! Is nothin' sacred? Why does he have to tell you what he’s THINKIN'?! I promise you that you don’t want to know the real answer to this because it most likely has somethin' to do with sports (sorry sterotype), food or how much he doesn’t want to have this conversation right now. I don’t think I’ve ever told someone the truth when they’ve asked me what I was thinkin' because let’s face it, most thoughts are just random. They don’t make sense, at least not to other people XD. Just because someone is quiet or having a thought doesn’t mean somethin' is wrong! If you keep askin' him these types of questions there WILL be somethin' wrong very quickly. So just relax and give each other space.
So that's it for now. If you found this useful or interestin' to say the least, let me know! The survival of this world is based on reader's input. 8)
