after some hours of hanging out in the chat room, i managed to find quite a bunch of efriends.
i guess it's not as bad as i thought it was, although i still believe that people are still closing themselves off. seriously, why must you password chat rooms, esp. when the topic is truth or dare? i thought truth or dare is supposed to be an icebreaker between people, not a means of separating them more. (although i hate internet truth or dare sometimes)
i must say that the structure works just like any other community place in reality. you find the people that you really have a common interest with and stick with them. sticking with them will bring you towards new experiences and new friends as well.
i seriously should post something about that in the sherlife section about links and relations.
so yeah. the chat won't kill you, neither will society.