when your a single lady/girl a big world and u used to have a boyfriend....I find that when u and your BF aren't together any more u want to be left alone! U don't want anyone looking at u in "hey there" kinda way....u just wanna be left alone! I dated 1 boy for 8 years..and then we broke up from personal reasons....but it's true that u wanna be alone....but....."do we really wanna die alnoe"!?