… For a girl and a guy to be friends if they are in love?
I have a guy in my life that I care very much for and truly do love. Does he love me? Yes, I believe he does. We have been dating for a little over a year or so, but I thought ‘I'm young I still have a lot of things I want to do before I settle down’. Also he is the first guy I have felt this deeply for. It’s rather scary. It’s not like he wants to get married or anything (at least not yet). So it is nothing like that. I guess I just want to live a little before I settle down. Is that so wrong of me? Also I just want to make sure he is the right guy. I feel he is, however, there is still that doubt. I think I know what love is. Even though I am sure everyone has their own idea of what love is.
I have seen love in many people around me. My parents, a girlfriend of mine, family members, even on TV and movies (don’t think their too far off on the truth of love, and what it is like). Sure there are the ups and downs that come with it, but even with all that, you can still see in the person eyes that no matter how much crap there is. Their love out shines all of it.
LOL! It’s like my girlfriend and her boyfriend. I have never seen two people so opposite of each other. She don’t get him, he don’t get her. Their humor clashes. The way their parents raised them clashes. Some of their beliefs clash. Their relationship reminds me of the song from Eminem (feat Rihanna) ‘Love the Way You Lie’. Now don’t get me wrong here. He doesn’t beat her and she doesn’t beat him, but their verbal fights are rough. Like in the song where Eminem says,
‘Maybe that’s what happens when a tornado meets a volcano.’
Yep. That’s them. Though, when the fights over they step away for a bit; somewhat agitated and annoyed, but there is no doubt in anyone’s mind about them breaking up. They love one another. Even when their mad at one another you can see it in their eyes and actions, and don’t you dare side with one of them either. Because they will defend the other with crazy comments like, ‘No he/she is right.’ They don’t fight all the time, its just stupid things that sets one of them off, and it’s all because their so different or because of something that has happened in the past (been together for 4 years). Not sure though, if their love was created in heaven or hell - lmao.
There is no doubt that love does not exist. Those two have proved that love is strong and can withstand a lot of stuff. But… WOW! Sorry. I just looked at what I typed I did not mean to get that crazy with this post. Anyway, what do you guys think?
Can me and my ex boyfriend be friends? Am I being selfish about wanting to live out my life a little more before I settle with him? I don’t want to lose him, but if it was meant to be it will happen if I do this or not.
Feed back please.
