CONFUSED!!!!!!D:

im so confused right now! i tried to join TH.com, but i have to find the "spam" folder for it, but i dont know how to access the spam folder!!!!!ack!!!!!! * spazzes out* im having a mental day today, dont ask.....-.-U so now im trying to understand how to find it, and failing epicly.......this is just annoying. i hate this..........-______________________________________________________-U
........but outside of that WINTER BREAK IS FINALLY HERE!NO SCHOOL FOR TWO WEEKS!!!!!but this thing is still really confusing.........why wont it show up???????? *is hoping someone will have the brilliant solution* cuz here's what it says:

Welcome, you are now a Tokio Hotel Backstage member!

NEXT STEP 1:
Please check your email NOW for a confirmation-email and follow the included instructions.
Tip: Watch your Spamfolder to legitimate this email.

NEXT STEP 2:
You can now edit your PROFILE

.........................but how can i watch it, if i cant even FIND it??

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