Now, I am sure some of you or even all of you have heard of the saying "If you think badly, it will be badly" or something along those lines. Now, I am not hating on the people, I am hating on their outlook of life. Just about everyone I know always thinks on the bad side of anything they can think of. Im not lying when I say YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR EMOTIONS!!! Sometimes it may not feel like it, but YOU ARE. If you say "Im sad" you're going to be sad. No matter what. If you want to feel sad YOU WILL feel sad. If you say "Im happy" you WILL feel happy. Now, there are some situations that can and will be exempt from this, but I am totally serious. I can sit here all day and tell myself that I am "depressed" and that I won't ever be happy. And guess what. I will sit there all day and be depressed and I won't ever be capable of being happy, because that is what I am manipulating myself to do. If I go to work or school and say "This is going to be a bad day"....it usually is going to be a bad day. By saying this kind of negative stuff you will just expect it to happen so you don't even TRY to make it better or to make it fun and awesome. It's just that simple. It's okay to have a bad day. It's okay to feel sad. It's okay! BUT, it's not okay to keep brooding in those negative emotions because it will only get worse. If you've seen my last post, I said I have such a great outlook on life but yet I am still sad. Even though I felt/feel sad, doesn't mean Im going to focus on feeling sad. It's okay to cry and okay to think about it, but it isn't okay to tell yourself it won't ever get better because you will stay in that mind set and it REALLY won't ever get better. I am going through a hard time with some social predicaments at school and what-not, but I am trying to make it better. I am trying to get passed it, because I am so much more than the petty drama. And for all of you guys who get pissed off at your parent(s) just because they ask you to do something....all I have to ask is "ARE YOU DUMB?!". THEY GAVE BIRTH TO YOU! THEY FEED YOU! THEY GIVE YOU SHELTER AND THEY DO WHAT THEY CAN TO MAKE YOU HAPPY! SO DON'T COMPLAIN ABOUT SOME STUPID CHORES! A LITTLE WORK WON'T KILL YOU! IT BUILDS CHARACTER!! I will admit for getting mad at my mom for making me do something, but Im not going to let it ruin my day and I am not going to say "Oh I hate my mom she's a b****." <--- That's just stupidity and ignorance RIGHT THERE. Unless your mom and/or dad are really sh***y parents (And I mean REALLY bad.), then you have NO excuse to act that way. *Sigh*. Is it SO hard to try and be happy? You can atleast try.