Thank you so much, Kels! I'm always afraid of talking to you about this kindda thing just because I know you're friends with them, too. But I did send you a nice long message about what's going on (I hope that's ok?).
I wish you'd come to me when you wanna rant and get some advice. Really. You know I'm here for you. :( But totally up to you.
Sorry that all happened...and I know hypocrites all too well...I have to deal with someone like that all the time, and it's terrible. If you gotta vent, you gotta vent, and it's not like they don't do the same thing. It's funny how people can dish it out but not take it. Like it's ok for them to rant "behind your back" (not really), but if you do it...then it's OMGWTFAREYOUDOINGIHATEYOUSOMUCH. *rolls eyes* I really hope things get better, and again, feel free to PM me if you want some help.
I forgot to say how much I love the card. >> The simplicity is gorgeous. I looooove the typoraphy. <3
Last edited by Angel Zakuro at 10:48:06 AM CST on December 15, 2011.
August? Whoa, an STD would've dropped it faster. I don't know, I just hope she doesn't damage your reputation, it's not cool when people believe everything they're told and the next day weird rumors surround you. It's complicated, but it needs to end for the sake of your sanity.
Hypocrites are one of the most annoying things to deal with, though I won't deny being one myself in some cases, since everyone is. I'm sorry that you've been having to go through such useless drama. Sometimes it's just not worth our efforts to make amends of the other person isn't willing to do so as well. It's better to just leave it be and move on because if this person isn't going to stop being rude, then there's no point. I don't mean to offend either you, OR the person you've been arguing with, since I believe I'm friends with you both.
At least one good thing came out of this, right? Your amazing card <3
I totally agree with you that ending an argument is better, but the thing is this argument has been going on since August, and I'm just getting sick and tired of it. Especially since this person isn't letting it die.
And I'm the exact same way as you are. I keep thinking of things I could say to the person, but I know I can't because I don't want to lower myself to their level, y'know? Better to keep some of the stuff you think to yourself or vent it to a close friend.
You'd make the best gossip partner in the world. Glad to see you're strong, although I think ending an argument is better. Don't know how you react to them, but for me, they stay stuck in my head for days and I just keep on thinking lines I could tell them to shut their mouths.
Either way, good luck ^3^
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 12/15/11 | Reply
I hate hypocritical people. They irritate me so much. So I can understand your frustration.
Lovely card also. It really expresses your feelings.
Kaerlyn
Tea pixie (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 12/15/11 | Reply
I don't know what has been going on, so... Eh.
But I like the card! I hope that something works out for the both of you :3
Ritona
Hunter (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 12/15/11 | Reply
@Angel Zakuro:
Thank you so much, Kels! I'm always afraid of talking to you about this kindda thing just because I know you're friends with them, too. But I did send you a nice long message about what's going on (I hope that's ok?).
"You won't like me when I'm psychoanalyzed."
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 12/15/11 | Reply
@Ritona:
I'm glad I didn't offend you *hugs back* I hope things work out for the best with you two. c:
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
Angel Zakuro
bird nerd. (Otaku Angel) | Posted 12/15/11 | Reply
I wish you'd come to me when you wanna rant and get some advice. Really. You know I'm here for you. :( But totally up to you.
Sorry that all happened...and I know hypocrites all too well...I have to deal with someone like that all the time, and it's terrible. If you gotta vent, you gotta vent, and it's not like they don't do the same thing. It's funny how people can dish it out but not take it. Like it's ok for them to rant "behind your back" (not really), but if you do it...then it's OMGWTFAREYOUDOINGIHATEYOUSOMUCH. *rolls eyes* I really hope things get better, and again, feel free to PM me if you want some help.
I forgot to say how much I love the card. >> The simplicity is gorgeous. I looooove the typoraphy. <3
Last edited by Angel Zakuro at 10:48:06 AM CST on December 15, 2011.
Ritona
Hunter (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 12/15/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
Don't worry, Miku, you didn't offend me at all. Really, thank you for your kind and understanding words. *hugs*
"You won't like me when I'm psychoanalyzed."
SakuraDust
Moderator | Posted 12/15/11 | Reply
@Ritona:
August? Whoa, an STD would've dropped it faster. I don't know, I just hope she doesn't damage your reputation, it's not cool when people believe everything they're told and the next day weird rumors surround you. It's complicated, but it needs to end for the sake of your sanity.
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 12/15/11 | Reply
Hypocrites are one of the most annoying things to deal with, though I won't deny being one myself in some cases, since everyone is. I'm sorry that you've been having to go through such useless drama. Sometimes it's just not worth our efforts to make amends of the other person isn't willing to do so as well. It's better to just leave it be and move on because if this person isn't going to stop being rude, then there's no point. I don't mean to offend either you, OR the person you've been arguing with, since I believe I'm friends with you both.
At least one good thing came out of this, right? Your amazing card <3
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
Ritona
Hunter (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 12/15/11 | Reply
@SakuraDust:
I totally agree with you that ending an argument is better, but the thing is this argument has been going on since August, and I'm just getting sick and tired of it. Especially since this person isn't letting it die.
And I'm the exact same way as you are. I keep thinking of things I could say to the person, but I know I can't because I don't want to lower myself to their level, y'know? Better to keep some of the stuff you think to yourself or vent it to a close friend.
"You won't like me when I'm psychoanalyzed."
SakuraDust
Moderator | Posted 12/15/11 | Reply
You'd make the best gossip partner in the world. Glad to see you're strong, although I think ending an argument is better. Don't know how you react to them, but for me, they stay stuck in my head for days and I just keep on thinking lines I could tell them to shut their mouths.
Either way, good luck ^3^