Akia Aoi

Otakuite++ | Posted 03/07/12 | Reply

Great challenge mummy! Maybe I'll submit one! :D

Ah I just want to let you know that I'm working on my entry right now but I'll probably not be able to post it til tomorrow, which is one day before the deadline (sorry for being so late!) If all goes well, I'll get it entered on time^^ Thanks for the invite and the great challenge! :D

neko Misty kitten

Grand Otaku | Posted 02/21/12 | Reply

yeah, sure, go ahead and PM me. we can talk about what a trip the meds are (side effects, I mean)-- been there and done that, lol. :p I agree, it sounds like we do have things in common.

Last edited by neko Misty kitten at 3:09:14 AM CST on February 21, 2012.

neko Misty kitten

Grand Otaku | Posted 02/20/12 | Reply

really glad you're turning it into something positive and helping ppl! yeah, sometimes ppl say thoughtless things without even realizing they're hurting someone. I've been bullied and I've also been one of those types of bullies who does it without realizing... I sure do regret it now. I've seen both sides of it, and it doesn't look good from any angle. but you learn from your mistakes.
so sorry you've had so much to deal with... it sounds like you got it coming and going, with the bullying and the situation with your father. sometimes other ppl are having their issues and it spills over onto you but it's not your fault. it's like being in the wrong place at the wrong time. it's especially difficult when you're related to the person and there's noplace else to go. I've dealt with that situation too, unfortunately. I've been in so many dark places in my life that now I love the light. that's what you have to do-- rise above into the light.

Pikamama

Otakuite++ | Posted 02/16/12 | Reply

I'll like to join this :o
I want to make an anti bully wallpaper

neko Misty kitten

Grand Otaku | Posted 02/14/12 | Reply

so sorry you had to deal with that. :( really glad you're moving on and helping others to go with you. I think the reason ppl blame themselves is b/c they want to be accepted in the group that they're a part of, and if the group doesn't approve of them, they think the problem must be theirs. bullying is peer pressure taken too far. peer pressure has its place-- it can be positive and get ppl to change things about themselves for the better. but there's also negative peer pressure, and the ugliest and most destructive form of that is bullying, where rather than lifting you up and telling you that you can be your best, the group is telling you that you're just not worth it. anyone who would do something that twisted and nasty has such serious issues that they're in no position to be judging anyone else. anyway... just my 2 cents worth on the matter.

Last edited by neko Misty kitten at 3:32:42 AM CST on February 14, 2012.