Yes thats right! Yeah, I need to do the same thing... Or at least I need to stop myself from banging over some things or doubting myself Dx Its easy for me to lose confidence in front of other people since I don't 'give myself a chance' xP
I think i get what you're saying. I find it hard to Accept praise because people could just be saying that to be nice or I have to pretend i'm proud. Tho I want to accept & be proud, it's different than doing it. Saying and doing are different. I'll just fake it till I make it...or the saying goes. But I will accept compliments even if it's something I don't agree with.
Ah i see!
Lol no I meant just dont feel like putting yourself down especially after getting praised... I mean, on my side, I don't wanna show-off with anything but I also get very self-concious and also nervous about my accomplishments. And I realized because of my attitude with being strict with myself, I sometimes don't allow myself to take praise cuz I don't think I did well myself. But when I take a little pride in the nice things that everyone else says, even if I don't agree, it makes me feel a lot better^^ ugh I can't explain it, its more like just don't let yourself put yourself down and try to be proud of what you do so then you can actually grow even more :)
I'm not, I'm just frustrated easily. X3
Yes, talking about our problems can help. Don't really understand. You mean we should fake our pride? Haha, you'll have to explain it more.
Well you did good here! Ah that sounds like a perfectionist... are you a perfectionist? I sometimes have trouble being happy with my art too xD
Yeah, anytime! Sunds like we're having the same problem :/ I just felt a bit better since we're together on our problems now and I also thought about a couple of people who really care for me and it made me feel stronger^^ I also find that sometimes taking praise in more of a proud way instead of a humble way helps too... even if you praise yourself more often and forget the thoughts that makes you second-think your accomplishments^^ Maybe that doesn't make sense. lol but it does help to pt yourself on the back and make sure your other thoughts don't make you feel bad for no reason!
Lol I know right? xD
Music Fairy (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 12/24/12 | Reply
Awwww this is so cute!>3< Her hair looks a bit like Toph's in your drawing, haha:)
I like how you put in that piano:P Somehow it looks cool^^
And this is just the b&w version:O I can't wait to see it coloured!^-^ No pressure though, I already love it like this :D (But her eyes are supposed to be brown^^ I'm sorry I forgot to mention that D:)
Anyways, thank you very much for making this for me! Merry Christmas to you!^^
I was never a drawer anyways. Plus I'm never satisfied.
We should PM sometime haha, that described me well. I know what you mean. I need to stop thinking this way, but idk how. I can stop saying it, but I keep thinking it doesn't look right. I know >w<;; haha, we both need to take each other's advice.
NO I'm NOT!!! I love this!! I was surprised that you didn't think you did well, when I read the description!
OH OH ME TOOO!! No, its ok! We should chat about it on PM sometime... I'm feeling horribl these days.. Second guessing myself and kicking myself when I'm feeling down =_= I continually do something or think something that makes me feel depressed. Ugh, so yea, I understand and I wanna say that you should never think you aren't as good as anyone else! Stand courageous and do your best, and be happy in what you accomplish^^ Needa take this advice myself XD
LOL you're just saying that. I still think my stuff sucks. Lately I've been feelings more and more anxiety plus my imaginary self-esteem doesn't help. Errfffff, will try to stop the self-deprecating talk.
WOW!!! I love this, Allie-chan! Lol u beat yourself up needlessly, this is amazing work in my eyes^^ I love the expression of Shyla and the piano turned out super!! Great work with the great tones too, I bet Saxgirl will love this!^^ Thanku for participating!
Allie Elric
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/26/12 | Reply
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Thank you & no prob! Yes, I know what you mean. People have their own drawing style, but i'm still figuring mine out x3
MangaKid
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/25/12 | Reply
@Allie Elric:
Yes thats right! Yeah, I need to do the same thing... Or at least I need to stop myself from banging over some things or doubting myself Dx Its easy for me to lose confidence in front of other people since I don't 'give myself a chance' xP
Allie Elric
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/25/12 | Reply
@MangaKid:
I think i get what you're saying. I find it hard to Accept praise because people could just be saying that to be nice or I have to pretend i'm proud. Tho I want to accept & be proud, it's different than doing it. Saying and doing are different. I'll just fake it till I make it...or the saying goes. But I will accept compliments even if it's something I don't agree with.
MangaKid
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/24/12 | Reply
@Allie Elric:
Ah i see!
Lol no I meant just dont feel like putting yourself down especially after getting praised... I mean, on my side, I don't wanna show-off with anything but I also get very self-concious and also nervous about my accomplishments. And I realized because of my attitude with being strict with myself, I sometimes don't allow myself to take praise cuz I don't think I did well myself. But when I take a little pride in the nice things that everyone else says, even if I don't agree, it makes me feel a lot better^^ ugh I can't explain it, its more like just don't let yourself put yourself down and try to be proud of what you do so then you can actually grow even more :)
Allie Elric
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/24/12 | Reply
@MangaKid:
I'm not, I'm just frustrated easily. X3
Yes, talking about our problems can help. Don't really understand. You mean we should fake our pride? Haha, you'll have to explain it more.
MangaKid
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/24/12 | Reply
@Allie Elric:
Well you did good here! Ah that sounds like a perfectionist... are you a perfectionist? I sometimes have trouble being happy with my art too xD
Yeah, anytime! Sunds like we're having the same problem :/ I just felt a bit better since we're together on our problems now and I also thought about a couple of people who really care for me and it made me feel stronger^^ I also find that sometimes taking praise in more of a proud way instead of a humble way helps too... even if you praise yourself more often and forget the thoughts that makes you second-think your accomplishments^^
Maybe that doesn't make sense.lol but it does help to pt yourself on the back and make sure your other thoughts don't make you feel bad for no reason!Lol I know right? xD
SaxGirl
Music Fairy (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 12/24/12 | Reply
Awwww this is so cute!>3< Her hair looks a bit like Toph's in your drawing, haha:)
I like how you put in that piano:P Somehow it looks cool^^
And this is just the b&w version:O I can't wait to see it coloured!^-^ No pressure though, I already love it like this :D (But her eyes are supposed to be brown^^ I'm sorry I forgot to mention that D:)
Anyways, thank you very much for making this for me! Merry Christmas to you!^^
~S.G~
Allie Elric
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/23/12 | Reply
@MangaKid:
I was never a drawer anyways. Plus I'm never satisfied.
We should PM sometime haha, that described me well. I know what you mean. I need to stop thinking this way, but idk how. I can stop saying it, but I keep thinking it doesn't look right. I know >w<;; haha, we both need to take each other's advice.
MangaKid
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/22/12 | Reply
@Allie Elric:
NO I'm NOT!!! I love this!! I was surprised that you didn't think you did well, when I read the description!
OH OH ME TOOO!! No, its ok! We should chat about it on PM sometime... I'm feeling horribl these days.. Second guessing myself and kicking myself when I'm feeling down =_= I continually do something or think something that makes me feel depressed. Ugh, so yea, I understand and I wanna say that you should never think you aren't as good as anyone else! Stand courageous and do your best, and be happy in what you accomplish^^
Needa take this advice myself XDAllie Elric
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/22/12 | Reply
@MangaKid:
LOL you're just saying that. I still think my stuff sucks. Lately I've been feelings more and more anxiety plus my imaginary self-esteem doesn't help. Errfffff, will try to stop the self-deprecating talk.
Allie Elric
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/22/12 | Reply
@ZombieCupcake231:
I don't know what to color her eyes tho >w<
MangaKid
Otaku Legend | Posted 12/22/12 | Reply
WOW!!! I love this, Allie-chan! Lol u beat yourself up needlessly, this is amazing work in my eyes^^ I love the expression of Shyla and the piano turned out super!! Great work with the great tones too, I bet Saxgirl will love this!^^ Thanku for participating!
ZombieCupcake231
Otakuite | Posted 12/21/12 | Reply
She looks cute. I can't wait to see it colored
BabyD
Barton (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 12/21/12 | Reply
Super adorable! >w<