Ok, I'll be waiting.
I don't understand how she can be at peace. But I guess since she doesn't realize she's in the wrong with this fight it might make it easier...
I need to tell you something by PM.
and i think i'm forgiving her so i can be at peace...its actually for myself but its also for her so she can be at peace too even just a little....its half and half.
Friends shouldn't flip out and get upset when you tell them how you feel. Unless you're saying mean things about them, which I doubt very much. And if they've done something to upset you, you have the right to let them know so they can fix it. I'd rather that than knowing that some hurt feelings have been going around without anyone saying anything. Which is why, if I ever do anything to upset you, I'd want you to tell me so I can make it right.
Friends are supposed to care and be there for you, through thick and thin, rough and fun. They're supposed to support you when you're down, not get mad if you need to vent. A friendship can't be made out of simply sharing the happy moments. A friend needs to be someone you can rely on to keep you strong when you're feeling down.
A friend isn't someone who only talks to you when they need something, or want to know something like Amanda is now. Amanda doesn't have the right to be upset with you because you didn't do anything wrong. You were trying to help, she got mad and crossed the line, and then you made some hateful art directed at her, becasue you were mad and because you're entitled to express yourself through art. If she can't forgive you for that, she's not worth your time. But even more so, if she can't apologize for overreacting, and if she can't realize she's in the wrong, she's still not worth it.
And you're right. I haven't forgiven her, and I never will. Someday she may realize what a mistake she's making by behaving like a stuck up, tough-ass bitch, but until then, she's just losing out. And even if she does realize it, and you two make up and things are like they once were, I'll still never forgive her. She's hurt you too badly too many times. You've wasted too many negative emotions on her.
I'm a little surprised you forgave her, since she hasn't even had the GUTS to really talk to you yet. Well, maybe not surprised, since you're such a forgiving person. But I can say that I wouldn't have done that. If you guys do become friends again, and you forgive her all the time when she's in the wrong, things could end up like this again because she sorta has the impression she can do whatever she wants without you really staying mad at her.
yeah, though i expect more of it from Amanda than Danni. cause you know whats happened when i tell her how i feel. she flips out and gets upset most of the time. also i'm not even sure if shes my friend anymore or forgives me. i'm sure you seen my post i made last night saying i forgive her and always will love her...she never commented and shes only talking to me cause she wants my back up account now that its at Senior Otaku rank. i gave it to her of course but still...shes only talked to me if it has to do with that. i can't let her go...and i doubt you forgive her either. i forgave without an apology...
It's not fair if they do. They're your friends, so you should be able to come to them with any problem. I know you'd let them come to you whenever they need you, and they should return the favor. You're human, so if you're going to get mad and get super pissed, you're gonna have to let it out. And whatever you say or do shouldn't change their opinion of you! D:
I'm talented in that case, cause it doesn't bother me at all. Like, seriously. It makes me happy to know you feel like you can come to me when you need to vent :3
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/22/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
well that sucks. D:
thank you! >w<
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/22/11 | Reply
@HelloKatty:
Yup. As of March they disbanded and they're both goin' solo ;~;
I'll do my best! x3
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/22/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
i did not know they broke up. xD
yes please! >w<
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/22/11 | Reply
@HelloKatty:
I love them! >3< I'm just sad to know they've disbanded D:
Oh~ Want me to try and make some? xD
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/22/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
I surprisingly like T.A.T.U. xD
i want a WT icon now. xD
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@HelloKatty:
I can imagine :3
Oh, that's Yulia and Lena from t.A.T.u :3
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
yeah, it makes things less painful.
who are the people in your icon? o3o
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@HelloKatty:
Well, as long as you're at peace, I'm happy :3
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
I'm forgiving for me and her but right now it may just be so i can be at peace...
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@HelloKatty:
Ok, I'll be waiting.
I don't understand how she can be at peace. But I guess since she doesn't realize she's in the wrong with this fight it might make it easier...
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
I need to tell you something by PM.
and i think i'm forgiving her so i can be at peace...its actually for myself but its also for her so she can be at peace too even just a little....its half and half.
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@HelloKatty:
Friends shouldn't flip out and get upset when you tell them how you feel. Unless you're saying mean things about them, which I doubt very much. And if they've done something to upset you, you have the right to let them know so they can fix it. I'd rather that than knowing that some hurt feelings have been going around without anyone saying anything. Which is why, if I ever do anything to upset you, I'd want you to tell me so I can make it right.
Friends are supposed to care and be there for you, through thick and thin, rough and fun. They're supposed to support you when you're down, not get mad if you need to vent. A friendship can't be made out of simply sharing the happy moments. A friend needs to be someone you can rely on to keep you strong when you're feeling down.
A friend isn't someone who only talks to you when they need something, or want to know something like Amanda is now. Amanda doesn't have the right to be upset with you because you didn't do anything wrong. You were trying to help, she got mad and crossed the line, and then you made some hateful art directed at her, becasue you were mad and because you're entitled to express yourself through art. If she can't forgive you for that, she's not worth your time. But even more so, if she can't apologize for overreacting, and if she can't realize she's in the wrong, she's still not worth it.
And you're right. I haven't forgiven her, and I never will. Someday she may realize what a mistake she's making by behaving like a stuck up, tough-ass bitch, but until then, she's just losing out. And even if she does realize it, and you two make up and things are like they once were, I'll still never forgive her. She's hurt you too badly too many times. You've wasted too many negative emotions on her.
I'm a little surprised you forgave her, since she hasn't even had the GUTS to really talk to you yet. Well, maybe not surprised, since you're such a forgiving person. But I can say that I wouldn't have done that. If you guys do become friends again, and you forgive her all the time when she's in the wrong, things could end up like this again because she sorta has the impression she can do whatever she wants without you really staying mad at her.
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
yeah, though i expect more of it from Amanda than Danni. cause you know whats happened when i tell her how i feel. she flips out and gets upset most of the time. also i'm not even sure if shes my friend anymore or forgives me. i'm sure you seen my post i made last night saying i forgive her and always will love her...she never commented and shes only talking to me cause she wants my back up account now that its at Senior Otaku rank. i gave it to her of course but still...shes only talked to me if it has to do with that. i can't let her go...and i doubt you forgive her either. i forgave without an apology...
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@HelloKatty:
It's not fair if they do. They're your friends, so you should be able to come to them with any problem. I know you'd let them come to you whenever they need you, and they should return the favor. You're human, so if you're going to get mad and get super pissed, you're gonna have to let it out. And whatever you say or do shouldn't change their opinion of you! D:
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
Danni and Amanda. it just feels like they think less of me everything i vent to them. so i don't do it anymore.
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@HelloKatty:
Why would anyone think any less? More importantly, WHO thought any less of you? DX
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
really? thank you....cause its happened before...
Sweeet. >D
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@HelloKatty:
Nothing could make me think any less of you! >3<
And I'll always be here for you to vent to x3
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
yeah, and you don't think any less of me when i do. :3
yeah. i barely go to Danni to vent cause well...its easier to just come to you.
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@HelloKatty:
I'm talented in that case, cause it doesn't bother me at all. Like, seriously. It makes me happy to know you feel like you can come to me when you need to vent :3
Aww >3< That's poopy, but at least you have me :3
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
it takes talent to be able to listen to me rant and rave and not get impatient. xD i give you props for having that talent. xD
I also appreciate it also cause Danni can't stand it.
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@HelloKatty:
Aw XD I'm glad me tolerating them is so appreciated ;D
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
glad you like it!
I made it for you as a reward for tolerating my tantrums. xD
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
Wow, that's awesome! *3*
The textures made such an awesome difference to the wall and colors! It looks amazing, thank you <33~
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@Bluemoon Halo:
thanks! xD
Bluemoon Halo
Otakuite++ | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
Wow that is a hard core picture 0_0!!!, I should have known because of the title XD!, It's so awesome!
HelloKatty
Protos Heis (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/21/11 | Reply
@:
thanks! X3