Normally I only think of that stuff when watching the news or stuff like Law and Order. I'll definitely try to keep this in mind, so thank you for posting this important message!
Yeah, it's not enough to just block them. Reporting is the best way to put an end to it so they don't bother other people too.
I've been plagued by a stalker before so I know how annoying and upsetting that can be. So I'm glad you put an end to that member doing that to people.
Good advice. I had a similar situation to you, although it involved a homeless guy wanting to look at my watch. It's a long story but it wasn't just a case of someone trying to steal from me or something...it was actually quite scary based on what he said and stuff.
So yes, you should definitely make noise whenever something like this happens. Inappropriate advances via PM are definitely not okay and it's something we take very seriously. I hope that OBers will do the same.
Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. - Dr. Seuss
Queen of theO � (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
HA, if someone ever tried to do that to me.. *would sue them definitely LOL* as long as it doesn't involve the website o.o lol ... ... ( *shot* of course it would ? ) but really, I'd put them on my block list since I hate people like that. Those kinds of people are uncontrollable of themselves and which makes them just like dirty, squirmy cockroaches. (xP)
Sorry that happened to you, kumichou! D': If I had that experience.. I would have yelled in Japanese at the guy and then would have said it in English (-.-.; lol) You should have punched him too... *D in the **lls! *shot*
I am not a follower, I am a friend. I do not ask for subscribers, only friends.
I'm sure this is me just being naive, but the fact that stuff like that happens in real life amazes me and scares me to the core. Just the fact that there are sick predators out there who are willing to do such insane things makes me feel sick.
I'm glad you posted this, because I'm sure I would have just passed by it and not have made it a deal if it happened to me. I'm not one who likes to attract attention to myself (that's why I totally understand about your story, anyone who would yell "Get away from me pervert!" has a lot of guts in my opinion), so I'd be silent and block 'em.
Thanks for posting this, Bossman. I feel a lot safer, even more than I did before.
The fact that you drew this to our attention is also really great, Bossman. You're the best leader anyone could ask for, that's for sure. :]
*has two unread messages*
Hmm...
Well trust me, if that happened to me I wouldn't respond and I would put them on my block list and then talk about it in the chat so eventually it would get around, but now that you have mentioned something like this happening I know what to do, and I think it was a good idea for you to tell a personal story.
I will be on the look out!
Oh Sabrina your avatar matches Ska music really good
Last edited by master hiko at 3:22:49 PM EDT on September 5, 2008.
You know that someone truly cares when they brick you like that. -AZ
I only have a couple people blocked, but I wouldn't call them predators.. They were just rude individuals. And I remember PMing you about them as well.
But I completely agree. People shouldn't keep quiet about stuff like this; it's too serious. Glad to know the scum has been dealt with thus far.
It's always a good idea to report something like that instead of just blocking it. You may have stopped them from bugging you, but that doesn't help put an end to the problem like you said.
I'm really glad to hear that you took care of it. Those kind of people are just sick and have no place here.
Adam, I greatly respect you for the fact that when stuff like this pops up you deal with it and address it.
You should definantly put this up on the main page. It's very important.
i have also been a victim of predators, I once got followed home, and nearly got forced into his car... Pedofile... Thankfully my young body could quickly outrun his old perverted body and I managed to escape... I feell the same way too I just ran, I wish I could have atleast got his number plate... who knows where he is now... I actually can't bear thinking about it... *shudders*
I can't believe though anything like this would happen on theotaku... such a proud nice site... I definatley think this should be made an announcement on the main site though... Toi make more people aware... That man stil haunts me to this day... and now thanks to this we may be able to make the world and the site a whole better place
I'm SO very glad you posted this!
I myself was a predator victim a while back. Having something like that happening to anyone on TheO would break my heart.
Thanks for looking out for us Adam!
yeah, reporting them is the most important bit. Good work.
I'm not sure if I could do that yelling thing... I might have reacted differently, like the "beat-up" part, though I don't know exactly... Though it would seem to be the best idea (the shining the light on the pervert...)
I agree, it's important to report things like that instead of blocking and leaving them to continue harassing others. Just as it's important to speak up if someone pulls a stunt like that person did with you.
I'm glad that person has been dealt with. We don't need that kind of scum here at theOtaku.
Last edited by SunfallE at 2:45:27 AM EDT on September 5, 2008.
Shadweh
Otaku Eternal | Posted 09/09/08 | Reply
Normally I only think of that stuff when watching the news or stuff like Law and Order. I'll definitely try to keep this in mind, so thank you for posting this important message!
Kami-chan.x3
Bubblegum'd! (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/08/08 | Reply
Okay that's kind of wierd. But anyways, I promise I'll report a person if they say anything inappropriate!
Rachmaninoff
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/07/08 | Reply
Yeah, it's not enough to just block them. Reporting is the best way to put an end to it so they don't bother other people too.
I've been plagued by a stalker before so I know how annoying and upsetting that can be. So I'm glad you put an end to that member doing that to people.
-Darren
Zakuro Rose
Otaku Eternal | Posted 09/07/08 | Reply
Trust me I would tell. When don't I tell you of a problem? XD
Had stuff like that happen to me to and I brushed it off. I should of done what you did. You should be an inspirational spokesperson =P
James
Team | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
Good advice. I had a similar situation to you, although it involved a homeless guy wanting to look at my watch. It's a long story but it wasn't just a case of someone trying to steal from me or something...it was actually quite scary based on what he said and stuff.
So yes, you should definitely make noise whenever something like this happens. Inappropriate advances via PM are definitely not okay and it's something we take very seriously. I hope that OBers will do the same.
Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. - Dr. Seuss
Furry-Chibi
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
I shall do what you did, Adam.
Thanks for the advice(s)! Y'know, I'll be in NYC tomorrow for the Labor Day Parade unless it's cancelled. ~Laughsz~ >o
tiggerola
Weaver of Dreams (Otaku Angel) | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
I'm glad you are okay. But that is a good point about consequences and times to speak out to hopefully save others later!
Michiyo Shimizu
Queen of theO � (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
HA, if someone ever tried to do that to me.. *would sue them definitely LOL* as long as it doesn't involve the website o.o lol ... ... ( *shot* of course it would ? ) but really, I'd put them on my block list since I hate people like that. Those kinds of people are uncontrollable of themselves and which makes them just like dirty, squirmy cockroaches. (xP)
Sorry that happened to you, kumichou! D': If I had that experience.. I would have yelled in Japanese at the guy and then would have said it in English (-.-.; lol) You should have punched him too... *D in the **lls! *shot*
I am not a follower, I am a friend. I do not ask for subscribers, only friends.
mewmewpudding
Otaku Eternal | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
I'm sure this is me just being naive, but the fact that stuff like that happens in real life amazes me and scares me to the core. Just the fact that there are sick predators out there who are willing to do such insane things makes me feel sick.
I'm glad you posted this, because I'm sure I would have just passed by it and not have made it a deal if it happened to me. I'm not one who likes to attract attention to myself (that's why I totally understand about your story, anyone who would yell "Get away from me pervert!" has a lot of guts in my opinion), so I'd be silent and block 'em.
Thanks for posting this, Bossman. I feel a lot safer, even more than I did before.
The fact that you drew this to our attention is also really great, Bossman. You're the best leader anyone could ask for, that's for sure. :]
Hiko
Otaku Eternal | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
*has two unread messages*
Hmm...
Well trust me, if that happened to me I wouldn't respond and I would put them on my block list and then talk about it in the chat so eventually it would get around, but now that you have mentioned something like this happening I know what to do, and I think it was a good idea for you to tell a personal story.
I will be on the look out!
Oh Sabrina your avatar matches Ska music really good
Last edited by master hiko at 3:22:49 PM EDT on September 5, 2008.
You know that someone truly cares when they brick you like that. -AZ
Kimmeh
The Beautiful German | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
I only have a couple people blocked, but I wouldn't call them predators.. They were just rude individuals. And I remember PMing you about them as well.
But I completely agree. People shouldn't keep quiet about stuff like this; it's too serious. Glad to know the scum has been dealt with thus far.
"This is Schweinsteiger fashion. ZIS IZ FASHUNN."
Sabrina
Otaku Archangel | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
It's always a good idea to report something like that instead of just blocking it. You may have stopped them from bugging you, but that doesn't help put an end to the problem like you said.
I'm really glad to hear that you took care of it. Those kind of people are just sick and have no place here.
-Sabrina
Sage of Magic
Moe Foxgirl (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
Adam, I greatly respect you for the fact that when stuff like this pops up you deal with it and address it.
You should definantly put this up on the main page. It's very important.
turtle chris
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
i have also been a victim of predators, I once got followed home, and nearly got forced into his car... Pedofile... Thankfully my young body could quickly outrun his old perverted body and I managed to escape... I feell the same way too I just ran, I wish I could have atleast got his number plate... who knows where he is now... I actually can't bear thinking about it... *shudders*
I can't believe though anything like this would happen on theotaku... such a proud nice site... I definatley think this should be made an announcement on the main site though... Toi make more people aware... That man stil haunts me to this day... and now thanks to this we may be able to make the world and the site a whole better place
nEcRo64x
Otakuite+ | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
Maybe you should make a more formal post for the main site because this is a very serious issue. Predators need to be stopped and crushed.
Obscure Dream
Otakuite++ | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
I'm SO very glad you posted this!
I myself was a predator victim a while back. Having something like that happening to anyone on TheO would break my heart.
Thanks for looking out for us Adam!
KoInu kyan
Grand Otaku | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
There are people like that on theotaku? Seriously?
Well, duh. DX (smacks self)
If Rishi sees anyone like that, Rishi will report it immediatly!
SomeGuy
Canadian Liaison (Team) | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
Remind me to ask about this the next Tuesday I actually manage to make.
TimeChaser
Madman With a Box (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
I had no idea something like that was happening around here. ._.
I've never had any suggestive PMs that I know of, but I will remain vigilant.
Bazinga!
jomz
Otaku Summoner (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
yeah, reporting them is the most important bit. Good work.
I'm not sure if I could do that yelling thing... I might have reacted differently, like the "beat-up" part, though I don't know exactly... Though it would seem to be the best idea (the shining the light on the pervert...)
See you around!
SunfallE
Nyaa~ (ZE MEANIE) | Posted 09/05/08 | Reply
I agree, it's important to report things like that instead of blocking and leaving them to continue harassing others. Just as it's important to speak up if someone pulls a stunt like that person did with you.
I'm glad that person has been dealt with. We don't need that kind of scum here at theOtaku.
Last edited by SunfallE at 2:45:27 AM EDT on September 5, 2008.
In the name of the tune I will punish you!