I'm sorry to hear that. But might I give you a little tip? Think to when you were (or are having) these negative emotions. Usually you are think something along the lines of God, could this get any worse. This day sucks have you ever heard of the law of attraction? When you think these things you are like a magnet pulling all of that negativity towards you. Instead, think of positive things, and learn to control your emotions so one bad things doesn't keep following after another.
I get like that too. I think we all do. Where we're rude to people and we don't mean it. Could be hormonal. I always blame it on that, lol. Hmm, a guy can change a girl and vice versa, whether for the better or worse. But I don't know how your relationship is with your bf so I won't ask nor assume. Hope you'll feel better and things will sort out themselves. I don't know how else to help; sorry.
The Itsufer (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/07/09 | Reply
Oh, sweetie sweetie sweetie I'm so sorry things have been bad for you lately!
I don't know what to say really in order to help you. I wish that I could though. It seems to me that you really need some time to just sit and relax. Try to calm down and just don't do anything or think or anything. And when you do something try and go slowly, think of it like "there's no reason to move quickly because I'll finish this in a few minutes" think of things in time incriments. I'll be done with cleaning this in 15 minutes. Oh look 5 minutes have passed only 10 more. That's something that I do all the time and it helps keep me calm whenever I have to do a whole bunch of things. Maybe it will help keep you grounded and calmer.
Also, if your mother is thinking that your seriously amazing boyfriend is the problem then just try calmly telling her that it's not him and things have been a little stressful for you lately.
I have no idea if any of this will be helpful to you, but I hope that it is. ^-^ And praying that things will be better for you too!
You know it's okay about the artwork. No one is going to expect you to have tons of things when you are having a hard time like this. Just feel better and we'll all still be here to see what you come up with work, or just in general.^-^
I have a Gaia account too! At first I didn't care for it at all, bu tthen I went back and now I really like it! I'm EmptySound just so you know^-^
Last edited by itsumademo at 5:13:27 PM EDT on September 7, 2009.
I hope things turn better for you. I think I can seem angry when I really don't mean to be. Perhaps I get snappy and then don't realise. Tis a shame your mum grounded you, that doesn't seem so fair. If you are busy perhaps you need to take some time out and rest. Everyone snaps now and then.
I'm sure your boyfriend will understand the situation, I hope you aren't grounded for too long.
I am not really good at supporting people but I hope you will be okay and happy soon! :D well these things happens alot, like changing mood like that, don't worry :D it happens to everyone, and I say that from my experience ^^ I've read that in books too xDD my mum had some psycology books for stuff like that =P listen to some music, draw something or just sleep to calm down :D I think it will make you feel better ^^
I don't think that your boyfriend is the one at fault and I think he will surely understand if you will explain to him :D I don't know him but if he's your boyfriend, it means that he will understand you
As I said already, I am not really good at supporting people but I really think you will be okay soon! :D Hang in there and take care of yourself!! ^^
*huggies*
Last edited by xXWhitePhoenix at 2:17:03 PM EDT on September 7, 2009.
gah! thats horrible
*hug* everything will get better soon
this happens to me sometimes, I'll just start acting not normal...if you could define it as normal haha
Huhm...
Life is purty complicated, and I think that this is just one of those things that you have to get through. Life is made up entirely of learning from past experiences, and when this is over you will be live on knowing a few more things about life.
I'll a' be a' prayin' fo' ya'.
Aw. *hugs* Poor thing. :/ Some weeks are just like that. I blame it on girls' hormones. Hopefully you'll feel better soon!! Just keep doing your best and try to be positive. Take out your aggressions with your drawings, or posting like this!
I agree though that sometimes relationships can affect your emotions. Even if you don't think it's your boyfriend making you get like this, it very well could be...at least affecting you a little bit. I don't see why your mom would ground you though. That's just not fair.
If your boyfriend truly loves you, then he won't hate you just cause you can't see him that often or talk to him when you're grounded. XD
Don't worry, girl! You'll be fine. Play games to keep your mind off stuff or something. And we're always here to help. Take care!
Sorry about all that's going on in your house. I don't know your boyfriend but I do know that guys can change a girl. Like when I had a boyfriend a long time ago, he really changed me into something I hated myself for. But it just happened that way, I didn't even realize it until like, after the relationship ended. I don't know the whole story, but I hope things get better for you soon. You will be in my prayers
littlemissharriet
Otaku Eternal | Posted 09/09/09 | Reply
I'm sorry to hear that. I just hope they would stop grounding you soon.
SigillumDiaboli
Otakuite++ | Posted 09/07/09 | Reply
I'm sorry to hear that. But might I give you a little tip? Think to when you were (or are having) these negative emotions. Usually you are think something along the lines of God, could this get any worse. This day sucks have you ever heard of the law of attraction? When you think these things you are like a magnet pulling all of that negativity towards you. Instead, think of positive things, and learn to control your emotions so one bad things doesn't keep following after another.
corn
I'm a veggie, dawg (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/07/09 | Reply
I get like that too. I think we all do. Where we're rude to people and we don't mean it. Could be hormonal. I always blame it on that, lol. Hmm, a guy can change a girl and vice versa, whether for the better or worse. But I don't know how your relationship is with your bf so I won't ask nor assume. Hope you'll feel better and things will sort out themselves. I don't know how else to help; sorry.
saekimidori
Otaku Eternal | Posted 09/07/09 | Reply
Don't worry so much, just take things slowly. I hear yoga helps. XD
itsumademo
The Itsufer (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/07/09 | Reply
Oh, sweetie sweetie sweetie I'm so sorry things have been bad for you lately!
I don't know what to say really in order to help you. I wish that I could though. It seems to me that you really need some time to just sit and relax. Try to calm down and just don't do anything or think or anything. And when you do something try and go slowly, think of it like "there's no reason to move quickly because I'll finish this in a few minutes" think of things in time incriments. I'll be done with cleaning this in 15 minutes. Oh look 5 minutes have passed only 10 more. That's something that I do all the time and it helps keep me calm whenever I have to do a whole bunch of things. Maybe it will help keep you grounded and calmer.
Also, if your mother is thinking that your seriously amazing boyfriend is the problem then just try calmly telling her that it's not him and things have been a little stressful for you lately.
I have no idea if any of this will be helpful to you, but I hope that it is. ^-^ And praying that things will be better for you too!
You know it's okay about the artwork. No one is going to expect you to have tons of things when you are having a hard time like this. Just feel better and we'll all still be here to see what you come up with work, or just in general.^-^
I have a Gaia account too! At first I didn't care for it at all, bu tthen I went back and now I really like it! I'm EmptySound just so you know^-^
Last edited by itsumademo at 5:13:27 PM EDT on September 7, 2009.
Kaerlyn
Tea pixie (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/07/09 | Reply
I hope things turn better for you. I think I can seem angry when I really don't mean to be. Perhaps I get snappy and then don't realise. Tis a shame your mum grounded you, that doesn't seem so fair. If you are busy perhaps you need to take some time out and rest. Everyone snaps now and then.
I'm sure your boyfriend will understand the situation, I hope you aren't grounded for too long.
xXWhitePhoenix
Otakuite++ | Posted 09/07/09 | Reply
I am not really good at supporting people but I hope you will be okay and happy soon! :D well these things happens alot, like changing mood like that, don't worry :D it happens to everyone, and I say that from my experience ^^ I've read that in books too xDD my mum had some psycology books for stuff like that =P listen to some music, draw something or just sleep to calm down :D I think it will make you feel better ^^
I don't think that your boyfriend is the one at fault and I think he will surely understand if you will explain to him :D I don't know him but if he's your boyfriend, it means that he will understand you
As I said already, I am not really good at supporting people but I really think you will be okay soon! :D Hang in there and take care of yourself!! ^^
*huggies*
Last edited by xXWhitePhoenix at 2:17:03 PM EDT on September 7, 2009.
zero guardian
Otaku Eternal | Posted 09/07/09 | Reply
gah! thats horrible
*hug* everything will get better soon
this happens to me sometimes, I'll just start acting not normal...if you could define it as normal haha
ZeRo-ChAn
Sensei Ryuu
Otaku Eternal | Posted 09/07/09 | Reply
Huhm...
Life is purty complicated, and I think that this is just one of those things that you have to get through. Life is made up entirely of learning from past experiences, and when this is over you will be live on knowing a few more things about life.
I'll a' be a' prayin' fo' ya'.
<Pasqua>
Angel Zakuro
bird nerd. (Otaku Angel) | Posted 09/07/09 | Reply
Aw. *hugs* Poor thing. :/ Some weeks are just like that. I blame it on girls' hormones. Hopefully you'll feel better soon!! Just keep doing your best and try to be positive. Take out your aggressions with your drawings, or posting like this!
I agree though that sometimes relationships can affect your emotions. Even if you don't think it's your boyfriend making you get like this, it very well could be...at least affecting you a little bit. I don't see why your mom would ground you though. That's just not fair.
If your boyfriend truly loves you, then he won't hate you just cause you can't see him that often or talk to him when you're grounded. XD
Don't worry, girl! You'll be fine. Play games to keep your mind off stuff or something. And we're always here to help. Take care!
Teapot Domescam
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/07/09 | Reply
Sorry about all that's going on in your house. I don't know your boyfriend but I do know that guys can change a girl. Like when I had a boyfriend a long time ago, he really changed me into something I hated myself for. But it just happened that way, I didn't even realize it until like, after the relationship ended. I don't know the whole story, but I hope things get better for you soon. You will be in my prayers
XOXO