This sort of thing happens to almost everyone so don't worry about letting loose to others; it's what friends are for.
And if you feel you need to talk with someone that isn't involved, which is a rather good idea, especially when it's emotional and involving friends, then campus counselors are a very good call.
This is the way life goes. Just keep going with the rest of your life, and eventually this part of it will sort itself out with some hard work and time.
You're talking to Mr. Self-destruct, here! All I can really say is that after a while you get the hang of picking up the pieces and making them fit in ways you've never noticed before.
Girl, we're here to listen to your rants! Or read them, rather. We're here to help, and this is YOUR place to put all this stuff out! *hugs* No facepalming at all. >E So rant away!
This situation really does sound sticky...so I'm glad that you're taking action with it. I think that whatever you choose to do will be better. You probably should start to distance yourself from him. It'll hurt, but it might be for the best! You don't know that something like this will or won't happen again...but really, you just need to go with your gut. You and him might not ever see each other again after college! ^^; Until then, you have to be strong. I used to have similar feelings for a guy...similar situation to yours. But I just ended up...ehhh...not caring after a while, lol. Like a year later, bam, no more feelings! Maybe that will happen to you?
Now I think I'm just rambling cause I lost my train of thought. Did what I just say even have anything to do with your post? O__O
Anyhoo, I'm glad you're going to see a counselor. That's a very good idea! *hugs* Silly goose, you can't get through problems on your own. I mean, you can try...but it usually doesn't work out well. Pride can be a really bad thing...makes you suffer more. So I think it's great what you're doing. I wish you the best. :) It will help!!
Baron of Terribad (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/03/09 | Reply
Hey, nothing to be ashamed of by going to a counselor. They exist to help people through their problems, after all.
Throwing on the wheel brings back nice memories of ceramics in high school. I was never good enough to be on the wheel though. For most things, I am pretty patient, but there are just some things where I am like, "I'M NOT GOOD AT THIS, AND I DON'T WANT TO DO IT." Throwing on the wheel is one of them, haha. I was pretty good at the banding wheel, however. Made a halfway decent vase once!
It's hard. And it sucks. But it's just...you know what? We all do it. We all go through these situations, so I don't think any of us have the right to be mad at you or face/palm at you.
This is, afterall, your journal. And part of the reason for keeping a journal is to vent your thoughts and feelings, and to sort of...keep a chronicle on what you've been through and ultimately see who you are.
I've written about things that I cannot believe people have commented on and been sympathetic towards. Those were face/palm inducing. But I don't delete them because I don't think they should be; they show me as me.
Kastom
Otaku Princess | Posted 10/05/09 | Reply
This sort of thing happens to almost everyone so don't worry about letting loose to others; it's what friends are for.
And if you feel you need to talk with someone that isn't involved, which is a rather good idea, especially when it's emotional and involving friends, then campus counselors are a very good call.
This is the way life goes. Just keep going with the rest of your life, and eventually this part of it will sort itself out with some hard work and time.
I'd rather see in shades of gray.
Pleiades Rising
Otaku Idol (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/04/09 | Reply
You're talking to Mr. Self-destruct, here! All I can really say is that after a while you get the hang of picking up the pieces and making them fit in ways you've never noticed before.
I now leave you with a kitty:
Angel Zakuro
bird nerd. (Otaku Angel) | Posted 10/03/09 | Reply
Girl, we're here to listen to your rants! Or read them, rather. We're here to help, and this is YOUR place to put all this stuff out! *hugs* No facepalming at all. >E So rant away!
This situation really does sound sticky...so I'm glad that you're taking action with it. I think that whatever you choose to do will be better. You probably should start to distance yourself from him. It'll hurt, but it might be for the best! You don't know that something like this will or won't happen again...but really, you just need to go with your gut. You and him might not ever see each other again after college! ^^; Until then, you have to be strong. I used to have similar feelings for a guy...similar situation to yours. But I just ended up...ehhh...not caring after a while, lol. Like a year later, bam, no more feelings! Maybe that will happen to you?
Now I think I'm just rambling cause I lost my train of thought. Did what I just say even have anything to do with your post? O__O
Anyhoo, I'm glad you're going to see a counselor. That's a very good idea! *hugs* Silly goose, you can't get through problems on your own. I mean, you can try...but it usually doesn't work out well. Pride can be a really bad thing...makes you suffer more. So I think it's great what you're doing. I wish you the best. :) It will help!!
You take care now~
Shinmaru
Baron of Terribad (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/03/09 | Reply
Hey, nothing to be ashamed of by going to a counselor. They exist to help people through their problems, after all.
Throwing on the wheel brings back nice memories of ceramics in high school. I was never good enough to be on the wheel though. For most things, I am pretty patient, but there are just some things where I am like, "I'M NOT GOOD AT THIS, AND I DON'T WANT TO DO IT." Throwing on the wheel is one of them, haha. I was pretty good at the banding wheel, however. Made a halfway decent vase once!
Love thy Evangelion.
Katana
Goggalor (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/03/09 | Reply
It's hard. And it sucks. But it's just...you know what? We all do it. We all go through these situations, so I don't think any of us have the right to be mad at you or face/palm at you.
This is, afterall, your journal. And part of the reason for keeping a journal is to vent your thoughts and feelings, and to sort of...keep a chronicle on what you've been through and ultimately see who you are.
I've written about things that I cannot believe people have commented on and been sympathetic towards. Those were face/palm inducing. But I don't delete them because I don't think they should be; they show me as me.
"In Kat's wor we trust."