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No I mean the people she was with lol not her. I know she isn't married.

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I don't know if they were married or not but I know she lost her v card that early. She even made passes at my dad before -_- (not a very bright girl my cousin...seeing as my father is gay and all) But yeah -sighs- I come from a long line of questionable ladies =/ excluding my aunt Sabrina of course.

And yes I've been married a little over a year now ^^ my husband and I have been together since we were 16

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That's what I tell everyone at the moment actually. My excuse is "I'm to young." Which I really think I am honestly. I don't want to be like my cousin...she lost it at the age of 12 -_-

I think I explained either in a reply to this post or in the post itself but I'm just sort of a ball of emotions right now ^^;; and the post was the excess emotion escaping. I try not to do that but it happens from time to time ^^;; Im sorry about that. I actually feel a lot better about getting all that off my chest though. Knowing you guys won't stop talking to me because of it it a plus too.

I agree though, a lot of people our age are like that...it's sad really =/ and kinda gross...if you want to be in a relationship that's fine but don't throw your privates around all willy nilly...that's just wrong. -sighs- I considered myself to be a bad kid when I was younger but I never did anything like that =p

Small Lady

@SmallxLady:

Well, you may very well be ready for kids a few years down the line. Don't let all this talk of babies push you into something you just aren't ready for.

That does not make you a bad person at all!
To be honest, I tend to freak out around babies and pregnant women too! It makes me really nervous!
But in the end it really is your choice and you'll probably know when you're ready :)

@Keba Si Rota:

That's the thing...kids don't bother me. I watch Lora all the time its just babies make me really nervous...I get all high strung and twitchy. Maybe in a few years I'll be ok but right now I feel like I can't handle it...hell I can barely handle raising a pup right now

Small Lady

I don't blame you for not wanting to have a baby. Don't get me wrong; I like kids. I just don't think I could handle one of my own. At least I'm not under any pressure to have one since I'm single (although I think my mom is ready to be a grandmother).

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Thanks Hana-chan...that means a lot. It really does

@Darkarax:

We've talked about it before but...idk I feel like I'm letting him down because I don't want it as bad as he does...I know he doesn't want a child right now seeing as we're just now (hopefully) getting our own house and getting jobs settled...but I know he does in the future...idk maybe I'll be ok with i then and I'm just freaking out now because everyones talking about babies right now

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I know it can happen that's why I'm on the pill and we use other methods so it doesn't happen right now but...I don't know I feel bad for feeling so against it now...

You're not a bad person for not wanting to have a baby. If you don't feel like you're ready, then you're not ready. Parenthood isn't something that you should jump into if you're not ready. Babies are just the beginning of it, you know. I have no clue how to advise you on your husband, but hopefully he'll understand when you tell him how you feel on this matter. As for your relatives, don't worry about the pressure from them. In the end, having a kid is your decision.