@outlawedgirl:

Ive always done that. Idk why = Im not as bad as I used to be but it does still happen. Its a hard habit to break no? I hope things turn out for the better for us both ^^

@SmallxLady:

Not a problem. You are so welcome. Those are just some kind words from me to you. I hope you don't keep blaming yourself for things you can't control. It is unhealthy I know because I still blame myself for things out of my control. I can't help it. Oh well. I haven't done it in a while so maybe things are getting better.

~Outlawedgirl~

@Rainbow Dragon:

Im sorry youre going through this too. Im sorry everyone thats commented so fars going through this....I just...feel kinda lost you know? Ive always had her and Kaoru there but now its like "who are you and what have you done with Kyoya?" Weve had falling outs before but what bothers me is she made such a huge fuss about not talking to me in forever...yet now that Im seriously trying shes...just not Kyoya. Shes not the same fun loving, motherly person I could talk to about anything. Shes...I dont know. Theres just something dark about how she acts now. Disrespectful, rude, snobbish...shes just not the girl I remember. I know its not my fault but for whatever reason I feel slightly responsible. -hugs back- Idk I think Im just being overly sensitive again ^^;; Thanks for the advice Judai I appreciate it. I think Im going to try it. Hopefully things will work out for the better. I hope things turn out well for you and everyone else having this problem

Small Lady

Yeah I know what it is like to have a friend for years and they just change for the worse. It is like that with my "friend" Alyssa. I only keep up with her on facebook occasionally and she is so negative and mean and immature as hell. And also she doesn't know how to use proper language and spelling too. I'm honestly in a situation similar to yours and I'm not even sure what to do. I have tried talking to her until I'm blue in the face but it doesn't do any good. *shakes head and sighs* I know kind of what you are going through.
Well I guess the best advice is don't be friends with her/him anymore. If they aren't treating you decent/respecting you then they aren't worth it. I'm talking to myself. Tell them basically "If you aren't going to be respectful to me, then I feel its in our best interest if we didn't continue being friends." And leave it at that. Hope I've provided you with a little insight and advice to help you. But it's up to you on what you do. You'll know the right decision when it comes to you. Good luck friend. Hope you get it resolved and that she is willing to work it out with you. *hugs* Best of luck to you~
~Judai

@outlawedgirl:

Thank you Outlaw that means a lot. I do have a bad habit of blaming myself for things out of my control. Im not sure why but Ive always been that way. Maybe because I was the oldest in the group Im not sure....^^;; maybe Im just stubborn. Who can say really lol but thank you very much. Like I said it does mean a lot.

Small Lady

I don't really have any offline friends...I do but...I never really talk to them anymore...they don't make the effort to talk to me either. One of them does...she was a nice person but...she was using me and I don't wanna go through that situation again. She wanted to be friends on facebook but I ignored her. It sucks...but people change...and so do their attitudes...usually for the worse. You could always make better friends. I hope things turn out better for you. Friends are great...but you don't want them to affect who you are personally. You are who you are. It also isn't ur fault she changed...just remember you tried to stay friends and move on. It is one of those things in life you just have to do. See you around..and you always have me to talk to...

~Outlawedgirl~

@Keba Si Rota:

Youre probably right....Id love to see things go back to how things were before but, somehow I dont think its possible. Youre right about your first point too. I really dont know how to talk to her anymore and...it hurts because weve been friends since second grade. We were almost always together but now shes...such a different person. Her and Kaoru both....Im not sure what to do.

I know what it's like to lose a friend like that. It seems like a lot of my old friends no longer have common interests with me. I barely recognize them and I don't know how to talk to them. I don't think they know how to talk to me either.

I think the reason you keep giving your friend chances might be sentimentality. At least, that's what it would be for me if I were in that situation.