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Physically I am at that age but, I feel like 23 is to young to have a child you know? Youre right, it is a huge responsibility and its not one Im ready for yet....I still wear nightmare before christmas pajmas for christ sake >.<

It doesmake me feel amazingly better knowing Im not the only one though. You guys make this whole thing to much easier ^^ thank you so much

Small Lady

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It makes me feel so much better about it knowing Im not the only female scared of this. Its really a load offlmy chest. I know though...its terrifying! We learned everything about the process in my science classes...I so hated that...

And to be honest, Id love to adopt a little chinese girl. My husband and I looked into it a couple of times ^^ as far asaising children go, girls come with more drama but they are more fun to raise. (Raised quite a few kids while in school x.x) again thank you ^^

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Thanks Mizuki that makes me feel a lot better about it...when it comes to this subject Im really nervous talking to people about it because Ive lost friends over it. But thank you, Ill try to ignore them now. Its nice to know Im not the only one though that akes it easier too

Small Lady

People can be so cruel... -__- Sometimes I want to whacked those people in the back of their head (and that's going easy on them!)

I totally understand what you are talking about! My friends and I always try to add onto our list of "reasons to not have kids" :)

I hate how some people could be like "yeah, having a baby is easy!"
ummm... no it's not. you have to take care of them and such... (this just reminds me of people who are against abortion...I personally believe that a woman has the right to do what ever they want with their body and having a baby is a big responsibility...it's not like those people who oppose are gonna give the mothers money to take care of the babies...????!!!! -_-

I totally understand your fear of what pregnancy can do to the body! In lab, I learned that if you have a pelvic bone from a male and female, you could differentiate them better by looking to see which ones has the biggest gap by the crotch area... so the mess up and big gap one is the woman's, sue to child birth. I also read about how when a woman is pregnant her organs gets moved around.... and after child birth the midsection gets wider...that's why people do the tummy tucks.... 0_0

Yeah... sometimes adoption is the way to go since the world is over populated and you could always have a furry friend :D
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I feel like its rude too and it makes me feel crappy about myself..I know thats not the persons intention but still. I aso feel the same way. It is over populated.

Asking someone if she's pregnant or when she's due is just plain rude. I've been asked that once by a little boy. My answer was, "I'm not having a baby. I'm just fat."

It's OK to not want a baby. I'm not likely not going to have children either, for a number of reasons. Heck, the world is overpopulated anyway.