Yes you're right, I'll absolutely try to feel what I really want to about everything, its no use hiding my feelings anymore, I'll just wound myself more...You've been a big help, thankyou :)
It's not a matter of "dealing" with your feelings. When all is said and done, your feelings are what they are. No matter how hard I've tried in the past to stop myself from feeling, or to change how I react to something, I've found that, in the end, what I feel will always be what it is. All I need to care about it how it affects me and no one else.
Being stronger, at least for me, means that I admit to what I feel. That I let myself feel it. It has nothing to do with "dealing" with my feelings so much as being honest about them, and being comfortable with showing them. Granted I am a bit unique in my brain chemistry, but it all seems to be mostly relative.
Either way you look at it, just be yourself and in time things will fall into place.
If he keeps annoying you make sure you tell him that you have a good friend who works in forensics and can kill people without leaving any trace behind, I used that line on my ex boyfriend and he hasnt talked to me since ^_^
Thankyou. Its just that I easily get scared. I couldn't even tell my brother about this, somehow I think they'll end up blaming me...I really don't know how to deal with my feelings, but I'm willing to try, I hope I'm able to get stronger!
Thankyou for the comment, I did end up leaving that cram school and then I got horrible grades, lol....now he just keeps texting me...so I'm going to get his number blocked...And you're right, about the police and all, but it doesn't work like that in my country...And now that I'm done with that cram school, I don't have a reason to get him fired too...
Hifsa
THAT IS SO SAD. *sob* it'll -it'll be okay.
... just take out a gun and kill that bastard. It'll be self-defence. keh heh...
and use his blood to write on the wall of his fiancees room what he did to you or tried to do to you. then mount his head on the chalkboard; ripping out his teeth and putting them in his own forehead.
...
......
my thoughts just get creepier and creepier... anyone know a cure for insanity? *_*
Cure Neko (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/18/13 | Reply
I don't like that you are blaming yourself, because nothing you did was wrong.
I've dealt with people like him and it is all on them. They will take any opportunity given to them, whether it was you or not it didn't matter to him. He took advantage of your feelings, feeling you had every right to feel, and he alone made the choice to make those advances.
Never blame yourself for other people's actions. You did nothing wrong.
Hifsa, this is really serious. None of this is your fault, it's all the teacher's fault for doing such things to you. If he's making you uncomfortable, don't feel like you have to go to cram school. Your safety is more important than your grades.
I don't know about in your country, but in my country people doing things like that can get fired and arrested for their actions. :( It's all up to you on how to react to the situation, but I would recommend telling someone of authority to fire him.
Last edited by moonlit dream at 12:31:09 PM EDT on September 18, 2013.
I will happily give you a hug and a speck on the forehead, but thats pretty much how I say "Hi" in general (so you dont have to think to deeply about it!).
I say block his number and if all fails tell his fiance, that should shut him up. And if you really need help tell him you have a sister/cousin/family friend who works as a forensic examiner for the police (me!) who will take him down!! XD
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/21/13 | Reply
@Neko Nana Mode:
Hahahahaha, good joke...I realise that I have been talking rubbish xD
Neko Nana Mode
Cure Neko (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/21/13 | Reply
@Hifsa:
I'm not sure I like the sound of wounding yourself more. But... I'm a bit lost there. Please do go hurting yourself needlessly.
NNM
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/21/13 | Reply
@:
Where to go?
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/20/13 | Reply
@Neko Nana Mode:
Yes you're right, I'll absolutely try to feel what I really want to about everything, its no use hiding my feelings anymore, I'll just wound myself more...You've been a big help, thankyou :)
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/20/13 | Reply
@moonlit dream:
Yeah, I hope so too...btw I have blocked loads of numbers before it seems to work pretty much always ^^
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/20/13 | Reply
@Snowzi:
Wow, thats nice, I'll try it too :D
Neko Nana Mode
Cure Neko (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/19/13 | Reply
@Hifsa:
It's not a matter of "dealing" with your feelings. When all is said and done, your feelings are what they are. No matter how hard I've tried in the past to stop myself from feeling, or to change how I react to something, I've found that, in the end, what I feel will always be what it is. All I need to care about it how it affects me and no one else.
Being stronger, at least for me, means that I admit to what I feel. That I let myself feel it. It has nothing to do with "dealing" with my feelings so much as being honest about them, and being comfortable with showing them. Granted I am a bit unique in my brain chemistry, but it all seems to be mostly relative.
Either way you look at it, just be yourself and in time things will fall into place.
NNM
moonlit dream
Supreme Individual (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/19/13 | Reply
@Hifsa:
Mm, I figured it was different in your country. Well, blocking his number is a good thing to do. I hope he won't bother you anymore after that. :(
Snowzi
Suit Lover (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/19/13 | Reply
@Hifsa:
If he keeps annoying you make sure you tell him that you have a good friend who works in forensics and can kill people without leaving any trace behind, I used that line on my ex boyfriend and he hasnt talked to me since ^_^
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/19/13 | Reply
@DoubleOtaku:
Thankyou for going insane for me, you're awesome, I love your comments :) Thanks for making me feel so much better
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/19/13 | Reply
@Neko Nana Mode:
Thankyou. Its just that I easily get scared. I couldn't even tell my brother about this, somehow I think they'll end up blaming me...I really don't know how to deal with my feelings, but I'm willing to try, I hope I'm able to get stronger!
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/19/13 | Reply
@:
He lives in that part of my mind, where bad memories reside, so lets kill that part of my mind!
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/19/13 | Reply
@moonlit dream:
Thankyou for the comment, I did end up leaving that cram school and then I got horrible grades, lol....now he just keeps texting me...so I'm going to get his number blocked...And you're right, about the police and all, but it doesn't work like that in my country...And now that I'm done with that cram school, I don't have a reason to get him fired too...
DoubleOtaku
Grand Otaku | Posted 09/18/13 | Reply
Hifsa
THAT IS SO SAD. *sob* it'll -it'll be okay.
... just take out a gun and kill that bastard. It'll be self-defence. keh heh...
and use his blood to write on the wall of his fiancees room what he did to you or tried to do to you. then mount his head on the chalkboard; ripping out his teeth and putting them in his own forehead.
...
......
my thoughts just get creepier and creepier... anyone know a cure for insanity? *_*
Neko Nana Mode
Cure Neko (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/18/13 | Reply
I don't like that you are blaming yourself, because nothing you did was wrong.
I've dealt with people like him and it is all on them. They will take any opportunity given to them, whether it was you or not it didn't matter to him. He took advantage of your feelings, feeling you had every right to feel, and he alone made the choice to make those advances.
Never blame yourself for other people's actions. You did nothing wrong.
NNM
moonlit dream
Supreme Individual (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/18/13 | Reply
Hifsa, this is really serious. None of this is your fault, it's all the teacher's fault for doing such things to you. If he's making you uncomfortable, don't feel like you have to go to cram school. Your safety is more important than your grades.
I don't know about in your country, but in my country people doing things like that can get fired and arrested for their actions. :( It's all up to you on how to react to the situation, but I would recommend telling someone of authority to fire him.
Last edited by moonlit dream at 12:31:09 PM EDT on September 18, 2013.
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/18/13 | Reply
@:
You have my full permission...I really hate him!
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 09/18/13 | Reply
@Snowzi:
Thank you for the comfort, he is really intimidating thats why I get scared, I hope he'll stop disturbing me now..
Snowzi
Suit Lover (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/17/13 | Reply
I will happily give you a hug and a speck on the forehead, but thats pretty much how I say "Hi" in general (so you dont have to think to deeply about it!).
I say block his number and if all fails tell his fiance, that should shut him up. And if you really need help tell him you have a sister/cousin/family friend who works as a forensic examiner for the police (me!) who will take him down!! XD