I also hope everything turns out well, right now I'm not talking to my friend but I hope time will heel our wounds. Thankyou for your support, I appreciate it alot!
Thankyou so much! You're right, I need to get stronger and also get my priorities straight. And I can't wait for the university, idk how I'm going to survive december! Thanks again for the kind words *hugs*
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Thankyou, Werner, ofcourse I choose the 1st choice and I know that you guys are my true friends! I wish I could see to face to face in real life sometimes, but I'm so far *sighs* And I seriously have to be stronger!
Sounds painful! I can only guess at the particular situations, but it sounds weird. Do they every come back to you and seek out friendship again? Perhaps they have a time of their "own problems" and it's hard for them to concentrate on anything else? Seriously i have no clue. The only way to really find out is to ask. But only do so if you're comfortable with it! Communication is the solver and trouble maker of problems. Sometimes it just needs one convo to clear things up.
Anyway, hugs from me and I hope it turns out for the best!
SOLDIER 1st Class (Otaku Legend) | Posted 11/25/13 | Reply
That sort of thing happens to everyone it's not because your pathetic, I assure you that you are a beautiful and wonderful person. People will always leave and sometimes they'll hurt you as they do it but it's just to help you figure out the people that will always stay. But also remember there will always be some people that will stay with you forever you just got to find them. Like I said before you most definitely not pathetic and I'm sure you have plenty of people that agree that you are wonderful and irreplaceable.
Embrace your dreams. If you want to be a hero, you need to have dreams
It happens to all of us, you dont need to surround yourself with lots of people ,but it is good to find one or two ... and believe me that will be fine. Other then my co workers and family i have noone to really be there for or visa versa... those people who do that to you are just sad and you dont need them in your life anyways. Chin up it will be ok i promise dont let it get you down
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/25/13 | Reply
I know how you feel..I learnt not to let it get to me so much so you sould do it to my friend..Friends like that are certenly not worth your friendship..
I always say you get 2 kinds of friends:
1) Those who will stand by you through thick and thin and always supports you no matter the curcumstances or the reasons.. "those are true friends"
2) Those who will only be your friend if they can get something out of it, those who will use and take advantage of good people like you and other good people as well..Those are not real friends like some of them who makes you feel bad and unhappy inside like you mentioned in your post...
Go for the first option Hifsa^^ Luckily there are alot of them here on theO If only the world was just one coutry so that we all can actually visit each other..
YOu are not pathetic at all and you are good with people..You Always were
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
Amestar
Pikachu Lover (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/30/13 | Reply
@Hifsa:
TheO is very friendly :)
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
@Aryia:
I also hope everything turns out well, right now I'm not talking to my friend but I hope time will heel our wounds. Thankyou for your support, I appreciate it alot!
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
@Soulanime14:
Thankyou so much for the support, I really appreciate your kind word, they give me alot of support, so thankyou again *hugs*
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
@:
Thankyou so much! You're right, I need to get stronger and also get my priorities straight. And I can't wait for the university, idk how I'm going to survive december! Thanks again for the kind words *hugs*
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Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
@Amestar:
Its so hard to ask, lol...but I'm so glad to have real friends here! *hugs back*
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
@LGA775:
Thankyou, Werner, ofcourse I choose the 1st choice and I know that you guys are my true friends! I wish I could see to face to face in real life sometimes, but I'm so far *sighs* And I seriously have to be stronger!
Kazamas-Keyblade
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/25/13 | Reply
I often wonder that as well, but there are some people that I absolutely need so hey, get what you can.
But yeah, if those people are dragging you down then get them away from you. With friends like those who needs enemies?
Aryia
Grand Otaku | Posted 11/25/13 | Reply
Sounds painful! I can only guess at the particular situations, but it sounds weird. Do they every come back to you and seek out friendship again? Perhaps they have a time of their "own problems" and it's hard for them to concentrate on anything else? Seriously i have no clue. The only way to really find out is to ask. But only do so if you're comfortable with it! Communication is the solver and trouble maker of problems. Sometimes it just needs one convo to clear things up.
Anyway, hugs from me and I hope it turns out for the best!
Soulanime14
SOLDIER 1st Class (Otaku Legend) | Posted 11/25/13 | Reply
That sort of thing happens to everyone it's not because your pathetic, I assure you that you are a beautiful and wonderful person. People will always leave and sometimes they'll hurt you as they do it but it's just to help you figure out the people that will always stay. But also remember there will always be some people that will stay with you forever you just got to find them. Like I said before you most definitely not pathetic and I'm sure you have plenty of people that agree that you are wonderful and irreplaceable.
Embrace your dreams. If you want to be a hero, you need to have dreams
nikkeh09
~Nikkeh~ (Grand Otaku) | Posted 11/25/13 | Reply
It happens to all of us, you dont need to surround yourself with lots of people ,but it is good to find one or two ... and believe me that will be fine. Other then my co workers and family i have noone to really be there for or visa versa... those people who do that to you are just sad and you dont need them in your life anyways. Chin up it will be ok i promise dont let it get you down
Amestar
Pikachu Lover (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/25/13 | Reply
Go ask them why they're doing that
Also, if they leave you, they're really not your friends....Im sorry :((((((
We're here for you though :D *hugs*
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/25/13 | Reply
I know how you feel..I learnt not to let it get to me so much so you sould do it to my friend..Friends like that are certenly not worth your friendship..
I always say you get 2 kinds of friends:
1) Those who will stand by you through thick and thin and always supports you no matter the curcumstances or the reasons.. "those are true friends"
2) Those who will only be your friend if they can get something out of it, those who will use and take advantage of good people like you and other good people as well..Those are not real friends like some of them who makes you feel bad and unhappy inside like you mentioned in your post...
Go for the first option Hifsa^^ Luckily there are alot of them here on theO If only the world was just one coutry so that we all can actually visit each other..
YOu are not pathetic at all and you are good with people..You Always were
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..