Oh Hifsa.... *hugs*
Im sorry about your family, my family is almost the same. I know how it feels...or at least part of it.
I know you said you'd give up drawing and anime, but what's going to be you're stress relief? You could try video games...or something D:
Thankyou so much for the comment, I really appreciate your kind words! I'm trying to get back up again and idk about my family, and I also don't know what to do with them, lol...I'm just going to wait and see...And till then, I have you guys! You guys have given me so much strength, I'm really grateful...
Hey girl, sorry I'm late replying to this. Anyway I'm very sorry to hear all that! I'm a bit shocked that your family didn't ask why you cried. From what i've heard, you're actually holding up pretty well! I don't think i'd be that strong if my family would react like that. But most importantly don't give up what you love to do!! It's already tough dealing with your life right now and if you take away what you enjoy it'll be tougher. Don't give up :3
But whatever you choose, I hope that you will feel better soon and that you find a way to deal with it! Many, many hugs! <3
Thankyou so much, and it really very hard to tell these things...It took me alot of convincing to come here and write this, but I really wanted some comfort and right now I feel so much better, all thanks to you guys!
Thankyou so much, my heart was breaking while writing it, but I have decided to stand back up again, no matter what happens! And they'll not apologise to me, they don't think they have done wrong with me and thats really sad. But I'm over it! Thankyou so much for your support, I really appreciate it!
Thankyou so much! I'm so happy with the support you're giving. Thanks for giving my spirit back! And, even though I have decided but I'll try to get back into the things I like!
But I HAD my nerves out of the window!! Its was freakin' horrible, it felt like I'd have to go to the hospital or take anti-depressants! I couldn't spit a word out of my mouth, or eat, or move myself! I don't wish that kind of a thing on ANYONE!!!
But, I'm totally fine now! All these comments from you guys helped me ALOT! And I do have my nerves back. So, thankyou Kyle! You have done so much for me...Thanks for keeping me sane! And for the gift...
Big big BIG cyber hugs matey.
It sounds like you were having a panic attack there, been there done that and they are not fun at all :(
I know that you think the best thing to do is to quit the things that make you happy, but when you are going through such a hard time those things are what matter most! Who cares if you dont have a future doing them, that doesnt matter! And you never know they just MIGHT be the key to your future too! :)
And now that while family can suck sometimes you have heaps of friends here that really care about you <3
Aside from that I am really sorry to hear all of that about you. Know that I am always here and that if nobody else wants to act like they care, I do.
Screw everything else and get your nerves back.
Don't even think you're having a nervous break-down, just think of it as a "Damn it" moment. Don't let your nerves go out the window.
Hifsa, please don't quit doing things you love! First of all, just because you don't plan to make a career out of something doesn't mean you should stop doing it. Second, the whole point of dreams is to let you escape from reality, even for a little bit. Look, this world sucks, and good things in it can be hard to come by, but that just makes them all the more precious. And about your family, I don't understand your situation too well, but if you're just polite to them then they won't know that they've done something wrong, and they have definitely done something wrong. They can't just ignore you when you're hurting, they're your family. You should tell them that, even if it means hurting their feelings a bit.
My heart broke while reading this. </3
I'm sorry, Hifsa. :'( I hope that things get better soon. Those decisions you made... the not talking to family about serious things is ok since talking to them looks like it impacted you badly but the drawing, reading and anime thing is what makes a part of your personality. Even if they don't show you the real reality of the world, it's what makes your own world when you need to get away from reality.
Your family better apologise to you soon! I can't believe they did that! When you need help and when you're down, you can come to me and all your other friends on theO. We'll be there for you. :)
Whenever i feel down my hobbies and stuff makes me happy starts to seem stupid and waste of time.expeccially when i feel broken i happens. I just dont want to live those times. And sometimes i think things thats not fully right abiut people surrounds me. I suggest you to not decode anything important avout yoir lofe whn you feel like this. I think you need to just do whatever you like and waot for that mode to go. It works on me. Then maybe you will things are not that bad as yiu thought i cunt on ya, you are gonna be just fine and become iur happy and cheerful hifsa again
Local Demi-Fiend (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
Take it from me, my father always puts me down (especially about the things I love) and I tried giving them up, as you said you're going to. But then After maybe a week, I realized this- Why should I have to change for someone else?
You like drawing, reading, writing and anime, don't give those things up! Be proud! If those things make you happy, stand by your opinion.
I wish the best for you my friend! :)
Last edited by XxArrancarFanxX at 4:18:13 PM EST on November 26, 2013.
Cure Neko (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
I sit here thinking about what it took to make the decisions you've made and I am left thinking that, no matter what I may think I should support you.
You've been going through a lot of hell lately and, really, I do want to pry. But I've been there and I know that prying won't do any good, for either of us.
So all I can do is just be here, and support you.
ohh no :/ sounds like you will get depressed if u stop things which had made u fun :/ if u want to talk about the quarrel you can personal message me ...
I can understand that u feel so disappointed about u family but unfortenately people say or do things without knowing how much they hurt ... So I hope u will get along well with your family espacially your brother soon.
Ruler of Hell (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
aww hun maybe you just need to take some time to your self and realx get a cup of tea and just calm down for a bit.
you shouldn't stop doing things you love for anyone
*hugs*
if you need us we are here
Resident Dark Lord (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
Sorry to hear about what happened. But giving up the things that make you happy is no answer at all. In the long run, you'll probably feel more miserable than you do now. Just remember that we're all her for you, okay?
Oh Hifsa ;-; just remember that we're always here for you, no matter what happens. I hope that in time you will start drawing again, from personal expierience, I know it's really calming after a rough day. But whatever you decide, just know I'm behind you 100%. :3
If you ever need anything, all your friends on TheO will always be there to help you out. Even when at times things are going bad, there's always tomorrow, you know?
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/30/13 | Reply
@Amestar:
Thankyou so much for the comment!! <33333 I'm feeling much better and I'm trying to get back into things! So, worry not my friend :)
Amestar
Pikachu Lover (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/30/13 | Reply
Oh Hifsa.... *hugs*
Im sorry about your family, my family is almost the same. I know how it feels...or at least part of it.
I know you said you'd give up drawing and anime, but what's going to be you're stress relief? You could try video games...or something D:
XxArrancarFanxX
Local Demi-Fiend (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/28/13 | Reply
@Hifsa:
I am glad to hear that you're doing better! :) *hugs*
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/28/13 | Reply
@XxArrancarFanxX:
Thankyou so much, Nichole, thanks to you I am alright^^
Last edited by Hifsa at 2:35:28 AM EST on November 28, 2013.
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/28/13 | Reply
@ForeverOtaku:
Np, Ri-chan^^
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/28/13 | Reply
@Aryia:
Thankyou so much for the comment, I really appreciate your kind words! I'm trying to get back up again and idk about my family, and I also don't know what to do with them, lol...I'm just going to wait and see...And till then, I have you guys! You guys have given me so much strength, I'm really grateful...
ForeverOtaku
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
@Hifsa:
Ohh. You're welcome and thank you for all those times when I was feeling down and depressed! ^^
~Ri-chan
XxArrancarFanxX
Local Demi-Fiend (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
@Hifsa:
Don't let others get you down! :)
You're a very strong person, I know you will be okay ^^
Aryia
Grand Otaku | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
Hey girl, sorry I'm late replying to this. Anyway I'm very sorry to hear all that! I'm a bit shocked that your family didn't ask why you cried. From what i've heard, you're actually holding up pretty well! I don't think i'd be that strong if my family would react like that. But most importantly don't give up what you love to do!! It's already tough dealing with your life right now and if you take away what you enjoy it'll be tougher. Don't give up :3
But whatever you choose, I hope that you will feel better soon and that you find a way to deal with it! Many, many hugs! <3
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
@Neko Nana Mode:
Thankyou so much, and it really very hard to tell these things...It took me alot of convincing to come here and write this, but I really wanted some comfort and right now I feel so much better, all thanks to you guys!
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
@XxArrancarFanxX:
Thankyou so much Nichole...I'll try to come back to them, but right noe it feels so hard to come back, so maybe I'll try slowly...
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
@ForeverOtaku:
Thankyou so much, my heart was breaking while writing it, but I have decided to stand back up again, no matter what happens! And they'll not apologise to me, they don't think they have done wrong with me and thats really sad. But I'm over it! Thankyou so much for your support, I really appreciate it!
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
@DoubleOtaku:
Thankyou so much! I'm so happy with the support you're giving. Thanks for giving my spirit back! And, even though I have decided but I'll try to get back into the things I like!
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
@Kazamas-Keyblade:
But I HAD my nerves out of the window!! Its was freakin' horrible, it felt like I'd have to go to the hospital or take anti-depressants! I couldn't spit a word out of my mouth, or eat, or move myself! I don't wish that kind of a thing on ANYONE!!!
But, I'm totally fine now! All these comments from you guys helped me ALOT! And I do have my nerves back. So, thankyou Kyle! You have done so much for me...Thanks for keeping me sane! And for the gift...
Snowzi
Suit Lover (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/27/13 | Reply
Big big BIG cyber hugs matey.
It sounds like you were having a panic attack there, been there done that and they are not fun at all :(
I know that you think the best thing to do is to quit the things that make you happy, but when you are going through such a hard time those things are what matter most! Who cares if you dont have a future doing them, that doesnt matter! And you never know they just MIGHT be the key to your future too! :)
And now that while family can suck sometimes you have heaps of friends here that really care about you <3
Kazamas-Keyblade
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
NO, NOT THE ANIME AND DRAWING!!!
Aside from that I am really sorry to hear all of that about you. Know that I am always here and that if nobody else wants to act like they care, I do.
Screw everything else and get your nerves back.
Don't even think you're having a nervous break-down, just think of it as a "Damn it" moment. Don't let your nerves go out the window.
nimbusoak
Senior Otaku | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
Hifsa, please don't quit doing things you love! First of all, just because you don't plan to make a career out of something doesn't mean you should stop doing it. Second, the whole point of dreams is to let you escape from reality, even for a little bit. Look, this world sucks, and good things in it can be hard to come by, but that just makes them all the more precious. And about your family, I don't understand your situation too well, but if you're just polite to them then they won't know that they've done something wrong, and they have definitely done something wrong. They can't just ignore you when you're hurting, they're your family. You should tell them that, even if it means hurting their feelings a bit.
ForeverOtaku
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
My heart broke while reading this. </3
I'm sorry, Hifsa. :'( I hope that things get better soon. Those decisions you made... the not talking to family about serious things is ok since talking to them looks like it impacted you badly but the drawing, reading and anime thing is what makes a part of your personality. Even if they don't show you the real reality of the world, it's what makes your own world when you need to get away from reality.
Your family better apologise to you soon! I can't believe they did that! When you need help and when you're down, you can come to me and all your other friends on theO. We'll be there for you. :)
~Ri-chan
aurora witch
Endless Witch (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
Whenever i feel down my hobbies and stuff makes me happy starts to seem stupid and waste of time.expeccially when i feel broken i happens. I just dont want to live those times. And sometimes i think things thats not fully right abiut people surrounds me. I suggest you to not decode anything important avout yoir lofe whn you feel like this. I think you need to just do whatever you like and waot for that mode to go. It works on me. Then maybe you will things are not that bad as yiu thought
i cunt on ya, you are gonna be just fine and become iur happy and cheerful hifsa again
XxArrancarFanxX
Local Demi-Fiend (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
Take it from me, my father always puts me down (especially about the things I love) and I tried giving them up, as you said you're going to. But then After maybe a week, I realized this- Why should I have to change for someone else?
You like drawing, reading, writing and anime, don't give those things up! Be proud! If those things make you happy, stand by your opinion.
I wish the best for you my friend! :)
Last edited by XxArrancarFanxX at 4:18:13 PM EST on November 26, 2013.
Neko Nana Mode
Cure Neko (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
I sit here thinking about what it took to make the decisions you've made and I am left thinking that, no matter what I may think I should support you.
You've been going through a lot of hell lately and, really, I do want to pry. But I've been there and I know that prying won't do any good, for either of us.
So all I can do is just be here, and support you.
NNM
Sláinte chugat
chihiroyin
Otaku Legend | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
ohh no :/ sounds like you will get depressed if u stop things which had made u fun :/ if u want to talk about the quarrel you can personal message me ...
I can understand that u feel so disappointed about u family but unfortenately people say or do things without knowing how much they hurt ... So I hope u will get along well with your family espacially your brother soon.
luicifers wife
Ruler of Hell (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
aww hun maybe you just need to take some time to your self and realx get a cup of tea and just calm down for a bit.
you shouldn't stop doing things you love for anyone
*hugs*
if you need us we are here
Darkarax
Resident Dark Lord (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
Sorry to hear about what happened. But giving up the things that make you happy is no answer at all. In the long run, you'll probably feel more miserable than you do now. Just remember that we're all her for you, okay?
The greatest fear is that of the unknown.
DoubleOtaku
Grand Otaku | Posted 11/26/13 | Reply
Oh Hifsa ;-; just remember that we're always here for you, no matter what happens. I hope that in time you will start drawing again, from personal expierience, I know it's really calming after a rough day. But whatever you decide, just know I'm behind you 100%. :3
If you ever need anything, all your friends on TheO will always be there to help you out. Even when at times things are going bad, there's always tomorrow, you know?