Thanks Werner <3 I'm actually still struggling with it right now, but its ok and your post didn't make it worse.. It made me understand more tho I wish I could do more to help :( We just need to pray for each other <3
Awww thank you so much Jen^^ I didn't know you gone through the same stuff? wow I'm so sorry about that my friend..Hope my post didn't make anything worse for you..But I also know you are a strong person and a very caring and sweet one as well..Thnaks again for the advice Jen..Hugs..I'll take it^^...Hope your dad will start listening to you as well^^
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
Oh wow^^ Thank you so so much for that my friend^^ I really appreciate it alot..Yeah if he wants to be stupid I'll just let him be then..All thou I think is more stubbon..
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
Awww thank you so much my dear friend^^ I feel alot better then yesterday^^ I won't give up i promise...I will just leave him so he can do what he wants..His friend just better stay out of my way..If he knows whats good for him..
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
Hey man, me too. I understand. I just went through a little episode when trying to help my Dad with dealing with my brother and it just ended up making me upset and that was it. I don't expect my Dad to listen to me, I'm pretty bad with talking to people with authority anyway since I respect them too much to be persuasive =_= but I find it interesting that you made a post about the issue with your bro again today at the same time that I feel the exact same way with giving advice to people who don't listen. I'm sorry its like this, this time I don't know much to say to you cuz of how upset I am myself, but just don't give up. You are not anything other then a great person and friend! Sometimes, we care too much tho and people might take advantage of it or it makes us emotion about the problems which doesn't help us to see the issue in a different perspective.
I really hope your brother (and my brother and my Dad) will realize the issues at hand and be able to listen to our advice. It might take time tho and there is no reason for us to worry about it when they aren't even trying to do what we advise. At this time, like I said before, all we can do is pray and believe. If we dont believe, nothing will get any better :/
If you're trash, then I'm a rabbi. And fifteen years old Catholic girls can't be rabbis... So obviously you are NOT trash. If your brother wants to be stupid, then let him.
Don't let anyone make you think you're trash... Those kinds of people just bring you down and aren't good to be around. I understand he's your brother, but maybe you should just let him do what he will. When something happens, he'll learn to listen to you.
I don't know you all that well yet, but I definitely don't think you're trash. You seem like a wonderful, caring person and you're just trying to do what you can here in this situation.
Werner, you are absolutely not the things that you wrote!!! It makes me sad to see that you think of your self that way :(
you are a wonderful person! you are always kind and funny and you have given me alot of great advice! and if your brother won't listen to you then thats his own problem...thats what i have made myself think because nobody listens to me either, because i'm apparently young and immature...so i just pray to God for them...
i hope your mood becomes alright, be strong my friend, we are all on your side :)
No! You're not a piece of trash! You're a sweet, awesome and kind person who cares about everyone close to you! I don't know why your brother won't listen to you, or why he tells you that you don't know anything...but I do know that you are a good person and you should never forget that. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
In my experiences in life sometimes it's better to let people see for themselves what's going on. I know I had to do that with my family before. They kept inviting shady people over, I said "hey you realize that's not a person we should have in our home right?" and it was always "what do you know? you're just a stupid kid." After about month of trying to warn them I stopped and thought to myself "you know what? if they wanna keep doing this, fine. They'll understand eventually." and sure enough not long after that they made off with about $300 dollars worth of our stuff. Later my parents were like "huh maybe she does know hat shes talking about after all." So don't give up hope. Just let him see things on his own and he will eventually understand.
MangaKid
Otaku Legend | Posted 08/01/13 | Reply
@LGA775:
Thanks Werner <3 I'm actually still struggling with it right now, but its ok and your post didn't make it worse.. It made me understand more tho I wish I could do more to help :( We just need to pray for each other <3
elricbrothersfan
Otaku Legend | Posted 07/31/13 | Reply
@LGA775:
No problem ^u^ Yeah, I guess it's more being stubborn. (Sorry for the late reply!)
SmallxLady
Grand Otaku | Posted 07/29/13 | Reply
@LGA775:
Aww thank you ^^
and that's good to hear. Giving up will get you no where. I hope everything turns around for you soon ^^
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/29/13 | Reply
@Hifsa:
Hehe If he stubs my bro in the back again i will kick his ass all over the place...Thank you again^^ You are a fantastic friend..Always remember that
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/29/13 | Reply
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Awwww that is so sweet of you thank you so much Ashley..I really appreciate it alot^^ What whould I do without friend like you..
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/29/13 | Reply
@MangaKid:
Awww thank you so much Jen^^ I didn't know you gone through the same stuff? wow I'm so sorry about that my friend..Hope my post didn't make anything worse for you..But I also know you are a strong person and a very caring and sweet one as well..Thnaks again for the advice Jen..Hugs..I'll take it^^...Hope your dad will start listening to you as well^^
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 07/29/13 | Reply
@LGA775:
Thats the spirit and yeah if he does something to you then it effects you directly, then you can kick his ass all you want :)
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/29/13 | Reply
@elricbrothersfan:
Oh wow^^ Thank you so so much for that my friend^^ I really appreciate it alot..Yeah if he wants to be stupid I'll just let him be then..All thou I think is more stubbon..
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/29/13 | Reply
@Kailith:
Awww thank you my friend^^ I think the say of you...^^
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/29/13 | Reply
@Hifsa:
Awww thank you so much my dear friend^^ I feel alot better then yesterday^^ I won't give up i promise...I will just leave him so he can do what he wants..His friend just better stay out of my way..If he knows whats good for him..
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/29/13 | Reply
@SmallxLady:
Awwww thank you so much my friend for all the nice and sweet things you said^^ I wont give up^^ I never do^^..You're a fantastic person..
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
MangaKid
Otaku Legend | Posted 07/28/13 | Reply
Hey man, me too. I understand. I just went through a little episode when trying to help my Dad with dealing with my brother and it just ended up making me upset and that was it. I don't expect my Dad to listen to me, I'm pretty bad with talking to people with authority anyway since I respect them too much to be persuasive =_= but I find it interesting that you made a post about the issue with your bro again today at the same time that I feel the exact same way with giving advice to people who don't listen. I'm sorry its like this, this time I don't know much to say to you cuz of how upset I am myself, but just don't give up. You are not anything other then a great person and friend! Sometimes, we care too much tho and people might take advantage of it or it makes us emotion about the problems which doesn't help us to see the issue in a different perspective.
I really hope your brother (and my brother and my Dad) will realize the issues at hand and be able to listen to our advice. It might take time tho and there is no reason for us to worry about it when they aren't even trying to do what we advise. At this time, like I said before, all we can do is pray and believe. If we dont believe, nothing will get any better :/
elricbrothersfan
Otaku Legend | Posted 07/28/13 | Reply
If you're trash, then I'm a rabbi. And fifteen years old Catholic girls can't be rabbis... So obviously you are NOT trash. If your brother wants to be stupid, then let him.
Don't let anyone make you think you're trash... Those kinds of people just bring you down and aren't good to be around. I understand he's your brother, but maybe you should just let him do what he will. When something happens, he'll learn to listen to you.
Kailith
Eternal Scout (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/28/13 | Reply
I don't know you all that well yet, but I definitely don't think you're trash. You seem like a wonderful, caring person and you're just trying to do what you can here in this situation.
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 07/28/13 | Reply
Werner, you are absolutely not the things that you wrote!!! It makes me sad to see that you think of your self that way :(
you are a wonderful person! you are always kind and funny and you have given me alot of great advice! and if your brother won't listen to you then thats his own problem...thats what i have made myself think because nobody listens to me either, because i'm apparently young and immature...so i just pray to God for them...
i hope your mood becomes alright, be strong my friend, we are all on your side :)
SmallxLady
Grand Otaku | Posted 07/28/13 | Reply
No! You're not a piece of trash! You're a sweet, awesome and kind person who cares about everyone close to you! I don't know why your brother won't listen to you, or why he tells you that you don't know anything...but I do know that you are a good person and you should never forget that. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
In my experiences in life sometimes it's better to let people see for themselves what's going on. I know I had to do that with my family before. They kept inviting shady people over, I said "hey you realize that's not a person we should have in our home right?" and it was always "what do you know? you're just a stupid kid." After about month of trying to warn them I stopped and thought to myself "you know what? if they wanna keep doing this, fine. They'll understand eventually." and sure enough not long after that they made off with about $300 dollars worth of our stuff. Later my parents were like "huh maybe she does know hat shes talking about after all." So don't give up hope. Just let him see things on his own and he will eventually understand.
Small Lady