The Hero of Time (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/11/13 | Reply
Awwwww
I hope your mom gets better soon. Sleep is very important for health, so at least she is getting plenty of it.
Hope everything simmers down in your house. Meanwhile, draw out the frustration!
I know how you feel...I won't go into detail but I've been in a similar situation. I'm very sorry all this is happening to you. Rest can be a good thing when you're sick. It could mean that her body is trying to heal itself through rest. I hope everything gets better for you soon. Just remember to keep your head held high and try to look on the bright side of things. Given whats going on I know it can be difficult, but just try. You'll find it if you look hard enough. I wish you the best of luck and for everyone's sake I hope they stop fighting like that...
No not at all my friend..i know everything does happen for a reason what it is we don't always know, but thank you so much for your support my friend..
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
Awww thank you so much my friend..I wish it was so simple to talk to my bro but he never listens to me at all..But i never gives up i'm always trying even thou I fail all the time..Thank you my friend i pray every night for her health and help her where i can..^^ I had to quit my job to help her more lol but thats old news...I'm just glad she is doing better now..A little thou
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
You need to pull your brother aside and tell him just what you think. He needs to know. And, as for your mother, all that can be done is that you pray for her and help as best as you can.
Awww you are such a strong person!!! wow i admire that my friend..I really hope everything will turn out for the best for you as well..I will pray for you my friend and for your mom and dad..Thank you so much for the encouragement and the support..i really appreciate it alot..And same for you..You will be in my thoughts esspecially becuase you are going through the same thing I am..Well almost...
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
I hear ya. I totally understand your situation. My pa just got out of the hospital and he's still going in for treatments but we almost lost him twice and it doesn't help that my younger sister isn't the most helpful. I actually have to look after her kids early in the day AND look after my mom who is ALWAYS sick. She'll never get better but we take each day slowly and I manage to look after everybody even though I can get stressed to the max at times. I just take a breather and find a moment or two to myself and just do what I want. Just step outside, take a walk, listen to music - anything that will provide ya some comfort.
Have a sit down with everybody and explain the situation. It takes a few tries but if it's important then that's what you ought to do. But people are just stubborn and have to go about their own ways.
But! Take care of yourself and then you can offer your mom the support she really needs.
Awww thank you so much for all your support my friend..Well unfortunately it isnt so easy for them to break up becuase they have a child together..But you didn't know that so dont worry hehe...My mom will be fine..As long as my brother stops his nonesence
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
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Your comment is all the help I need my friend^^ Thank you..Knowing i have friends like you and everyone els here is more encouragement I can ever ask for becuase no one can go through any type of problem alone..so thank you so much for your friendship and support..
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
Awww really? i hope your mom is better now my friend..I will pray for you..No offence taken my friend..^^ I know he is selfish and has no respect for our mother but that happens when he's drunk which was tonight..But thank you so much for your support my friend i really appcreciate it alot..
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
Aww thank you so much for your support my friend^^ I am always strong but have my breaking points too but recovers quickly..And you're not useless at all becuase your friendship means alot to me..About my finances lol well that is a completely diffrent story..I'm not worrying to much about that...But i know things will trun up eventually it always does
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
@:
Aww thank you so much Leslie..Yeah I guess it would be very wise to just stay out of it...My mom has some kind of muscle sickness I'm not sure whats its called thou...But thank you for your support my friend^^
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
Sounds bad :/ i hope your mother gets better soon because i know how worried you must be ! it's ok just ignore you brother and the girl they will eventually broke up because when you fight so much it's just innevitable . one day when your brother is not angry talk to him and explain to him that when he argues with his girlfriend he is doing bad to your mother, that way i think he might understand.
I hope he'll listen to you :)
I am so sorry!! I hope your mother will be okay! I know how you feel... my mom was once sick and had to go to the hospital. I was freaking out! but i couldn't display much emotion because i am the oldest and I have to take care of my siblings ^^;
And no offence but I think your brother is being childish and irresponsible as well as inconsiderate. He should be having your back and helping your mom just in case!! Not fighting with his girlfriend! at least he should put his fight to a halt until your mother is better! Stay strong! hope everything goes well! :)
Last edited by mangaandanimelove at 3:45:35 PM EDT on August 10, 2013.
:( I'm sad for you Werner! You should take your mom to the doctor, because that is an alarming sign! I hope your finances have got better :(....And your brother never gets it and its really terrible to not get support from family! And I'm really sorry I can't actually do anything for you, but all I can give you is some encouragement that you have to stay strong for your mom and think positively for her sake...Stay strong my dear friend! Ugh, I feel so useless :(
elricbrothersfan
Otaku Legend | Posted 08/11/13 | Reply
I hope things will get better for you, Werner, I really do. I'll be prayin for ya :)
wallpaperotaku
The Hero of Time (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/11/13 | Reply
Awwwww
I hope your mom gets better soon. Sleep is very important for health, so at least she is getting plenty of it.
Hope everything simmers down in your house. Meanwhile, draw out the frustration!
~Wall-iE
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 08/11/13 | Reply
@LGA775:
You're absolutely right, things always turn around soon, so keep at it :)
SmallxLady
Grand Otaku | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
I know how you feel...I won't go into detail but I've been in a similar situation. I'm very sorry all this is happening to you. Rest can be a good thing when you're sick. It could mean that her body is trying to heal itself through rest. I hope everything gets better for you soon. Just remember to keep your head held high and try to look on the bright side of things. Given whats going on I know it can be difficult, but just try. You'll find it if you look hard enough. I wish you the best of luck and for everyone's sake I hope they stop fighting like that...
Small Lady
DangerousTinkerer
Otaku Legend | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
Hope you mother gets better soon and that sucks to hear about you getting yelled at when all you want to do is help. Try and stay strong for your mom.
Kazamas-Keyblade
Otaku Legend | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
That's hard to hear, man.
I hope something changes for the better.
mangaandanimelove
Senior Otaku | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
@LGA775:
your welcome! stay strong!! ;)
AriaFlosh
Senior Otaku+ | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
@LGA775:
well yeah i didn't know that :P i hope everything will work out for you soon ^_^
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
@tigeatoray:
No not at all my friend..i know everything does happen for a reason what it is we don't always know, but thank you so much for your support my friend..
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
tigeatoray
Otakuite+ | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
I hope everything gets better soon. Remember, everything happens for a reason. I hope that doesn't offend you.
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
@Moka:
Awww thank you so much my friend..I wish it was so simple to talk to my bro but he never listens to me at all..But i never gives up i'm always trying even thou I fail all the time..Thank you my friend i pray every night for her health and help her where i can..^^ I had to quit my job to help her more lol but thats old news...I'm just glad she is doing better now..A little thou
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
Moka
Otaku Legend | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
You need to pull your brother aside and tell him just what you think. He needs to know. And, as for your mother, all that can be done is that you pray for her and help as best as you can.
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
@PerfectlyDamned:
Awww you are such a strong person!!! wow i admire that my friend..I really hope everything will turn out for the best for you as well..I will pray for you my friend and for your mom and dad..Thank you so much for the encouragement and the support..i really appreciate it alot..And same for you..You will be in my thoughts esspecially becuase you are going through the same thing I am..Well almost...
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
PerfectlyDamned
Bubble Tea Monster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
I hear ya. I totally understand your situation. My pa just got out of the hospital and he's still going in for treatments but we almost lost him twice and it doesn't help that my younger sister isn't the most helpful. I actually have to look after her kids early in the day AND look after my mom who is ALWAYS sick. She'll never get better but we take each day slowly and I manage to look after everybody even though I can get stressed to the max at times. I just take a breather and find a moment or two to myself and just do what I want. Just step outside, take a walk, listen to music - anything that will provide ya some comfort.
Have a sit down with everybody and explain the situation. It takes a few tries but if it's important then that's what you ought to do. But people are just stubborn and have to go about their own ways.
But! Take care of yourself and then you can offer your mom the support she really needs.
I hope things turn out better for you.
~Jae
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
@AriaFlosh:
Awww thank you so much for all your support my friend..Well unfortunately it isnt so easy for them to break up becuase they have a child together..But you didn't know that so dont worry hehe...My mom will be fine..As long as my brother stops his nonesence
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
@:
Your comment is all the help I need my friend^^ Thank you..Knowing i have friends like you and everyone els here is more encouragement I can ever ask for becuase no one can go through any type of problem alone..so thank you so much for your friendship and support..
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
@mangaandanimelove:
Awww really? i hope your mom is better now my friend..I will pray for you..No offence taken my friend..^^ I know he is selfish and has no respect for our mother but that happens when he's drunk which was tonight..But thank you so much for your support my friend i really appcreciate it alot..
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
@Hifsa:
Aww thank you so much for your support my friend^^ I am always strong but have my breaking points too but recovers quickly..And you're not useless at all becuase your friendship means alot to me..About my finances lol well that is a completely diffrent story..I'm not worrying to much about that...But i know things will trun up eventually it always does
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
@:
Aww thank you so much Leslie..Yeah I guess it would be very wise to just stay out of it...My mom has some kind of muscle sickness I'm not sure whats its called thou...But thank you for your support my friend^^
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
AriaFlosh
Senior Otaku+ | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
Sounds bad :/ i hope your mother gets better soon because i know how worried you must be ! it's ok just ignore you brother and the girl they will eventually broke up because when you fight so much it's just innevitable . one day when your brother is not angry talk to him and explain to him that when he argues with his girlfriend he is doing bad to your mother, that way i think he might understand.
I hope he'll listen to you :)
mangaandanimelove
Senior Otaku | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
I am so sorry!! I hope your mother will be okay! I know how you feel... my mom was once sick and had to go to the hospital. I was freaking out! but i couldn't display much emotion because i am the oldest and I have to take care of my siblings ^^;
And no offence but I think your brother is being childish and irresponsible as well as inconsiderate. He should be having your back and helping your mom just in case!! Not fighting with his girlfriend! at least he should put his fight to a halt until your mother is better! Stay strong! hope everything goes well! :)
Last edited by mangaandanimelove at 3:45:35 PM EDT on August 10, 2013.
Hifsa
Otaku Legend | Posted 08/10/13 | Reply
:( I'm sad for you Werner! You should take your mom to the doctor, because that is an alarming sign! I hope your finances have got better :(....And your brother never gets it and its really terrible to not get support from family! And I'm really sorry I can't actually do anything for you, but all I can give you is some encouragement that you have to stay strong for your mom and think positively for her sake...Stay strong my dear friend!
Ugh, I feel so useless :(