On the one hand I want to advice you to make a temporary clean break from him, with no contact whatsoever, to gouge (sp?) his reaction to being devoid of your awesome company.

But then again he shouldn't be able to walk away like that without including you fully into what's going on between his ears.

It must be really heartbreaking for you to go through this, Mollers, but we're here to do whatever we can for you and it's great to hear you can lean on your geographically close friends, as well as family members, too.

Mega-loads of love *squeeze*