love! i'm so sorry. i haven't been on i have had no idea this was happening! drinking? tis not the answer my dear. it keeps the pain away only for a bit and then it comes back full force. then after that you'll just be in worse shape. no giving up, love. i have. it's not a good place to be. you have a job opertunity, yes? and you truly want to do it? but you really want to be with this girl? tis a tough perdicament. follow your heart. sounds terribly corny, i know. but really... if she really loves you the way you love her she should support you in every way. she shouldn't be forcing you to move there. she should give you time to decide. really think it through. if she's demanding to know... i don't know. i'm not good at this. i've been in fairly the same situation myself once. just not bf/gfish wise. heh. you have us if you need us on here. if you need to talk just let me know. if you would like PM me or something :] i'm here for you, hun. just look out for yourself. don't do really reckless things. i don't want you hurt. i can't stand to see people hurt. so don't do anything stupid. drinking is really not the answer. makes things worse. so does cutting... O_o trust me. NOT A GOOD iDEA THAT ONE.... but really. you need to talk? i'm here for you, love. :]
No! No! Dont hurt! Even though I don't know the full history of you and this girl. I just know that you should not give in to feelings. Believe me I should know! I was suppose to get married to my last boy friend. But things went wrong and I had to learn to put my feelings aside. You can't give up! If this girl is willing to put your feelings under her shoe then get rid of her!!!! You deserve better.
Please don't drink. You'll only hurt yourself. And we all care too much about you to see that happen.
vampiergall
Drinking? I would not recommend that. Sorry I haven't been on what with all these requests and trades and even a job offer. I've been kind of busy kind of really busy. But hearing this about what's going on with you, I just hope the best for you man. You've stuck around for me and I'm sticking around for you. For your question, well you really seem to care about her, no, I shouldn't say seem you do care for her. So, if you care for her this much it is worth it.. All the pain it's just testing you to see if this is meant to be if it is you'll get through it and you'll see her again and it will be under happy occasions. I'm here man, you want to pm me go ahead.
zomg you're a drunk. but drinking alone is never good, that means you have a problem.
but lookit, it doesn't matter where she is-is a world away practically. so i don't know how it was going to work anyway. long distance relationships tend to never work. if you still love her and she still loves you than when you meet up again you can be in love together but until than just relax i guess.
mysterioushanyou
Otakuite++ | Posted 06/09/08 | Reply
love! i'm so sorry. i haven't been on i have had no idea this was happening! drinking? tis not the answer my dear. it keeps the pain away only for a bit and then it comes back full force. then after that you'll just be in worse shape. no giving up, love. i have. it's not a good place to be. you have a job opertunity, yes? and you truly want to do it? but you really want to be with this girl? tis a tough perdicament. follow your heart. sounds terribly corny, i know. but really... if she really loves you the way you love her she should support you in every way. she shouldn't be forcing you to move there. she should give you time to decide. really think it through. if she's demanding to know... i don't know. i'm not good at this. i've been in fairly the same situation myself once. just not bf/gfish wise. heh. you have us if you need us on here. if you need to talk just let me know. if you would like PM me or something :] i'm here for you, hun. just look out for yourself. don't do really reckless things. i don't want you hurt. i can't stand to see people hurt. so don't do anything stupid. drinking is really not the answer. makes things worse. so does cutting... O_o trust me. NOT A GOOD iDEA THAT ONE.... but really. you need to talk? i'm here for you, love. :]
vampiergall
Otaku Eternal | Posted 06/09/08 | Reply
No! No! Dont hurt! Even though I don't know the full history of you and this girl. I just know that you should not give in to feelings. Believe me I should know! I was suppose to get married to my last boy friend. But things went wrong and I had to learn to put my feelings aside. You can't give up! If this girl is willing to put your feelings under her shoe then get rid of her!!!! You deserve better.
Please don't drink. You'll only hurt yourself. And we all care too much about you to see that happen.
vampiergall
xaos
Burning Spirit (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 06/07/08 | Reply
Drinking? I would not recommend that. Sorry I haven't been on what with all these requests and trades and even a job offer. I've been kind of busy kind of really busy. But hearing this about what's going on with you, I just hope the best for you man. You've stuck around for me and I'm sticking around for you. For your question, well you really seem to care about her, no, I shouldn't say seem you do care for her. So, if you care for her this much it is worth it.. All the pain it's just testing you to see if this is meant to be if it is you'll get through it and you'll see her again and it will be under happy occasions. I'm here man, you want to pm me go ahead.
Zeit
Otaku Eternal | Posted 06/07/08 | Reply
zomg you're a drunk. but drinking alone is never good, that means you have a problem.
but lookit, it doesn't matter where she is-is a world away practically. so i don't know how it was going to work anyway. long distance relationships tend to never work. if you still love her and she still loves you than when you meet up again you can be in love together but until than just relax i guess.