I guess, you shouldn't even be worrying so much about the future as much as you should be about the present. I mean, you haven't even told the guy how you feel. After you do that, then you can start worrying-together- about the future. If you choose to tell him, which I think you should go for it! :)
exactly! i have found myself in those moments where i convince myself that he doesn't like me like that, then i guess i kinda push away my emotions and just forget about them for a while. As far as i know, he's not moving after he gets out of high school. He plans on having a couple of gap years to save money, then going to college for nursing. we both took the same biomedical class, he definitely does a lot better than me. XD lol barely passed that class.
I guess i'm mostly just worried about drifting apart after he graduates. I'm not super worried, but still. lol
on an off note, my sisters fiance(they're both named daniel, but my sisters daniel goes by Dan and he's a marine, and my daniel either goes by that, or i call him danny) has the same name as the guy i like, and they couldn't be more different. lol at least in my dream they were getting along. lol
I guess I'm not sure on what advice you need?
What you're feeling isn't all that weird. It's not that you forget you like him, per-say, but you've just pushed it out of your mind. Or if you really do forget you like him, you don't really like him that much to begin with. But I think that's a normal feeling. I had a crush on a guy in high school, and I'd go through periods where I wanted to flirt and for him to like me back, but then I'd talk myself into there being no chance in hell he'd actually like me, so I pushed all thoughts aside and things would be normal for awhile until he'd do something that reminded me that hey, yes, I did actually like him. Looking back, I realize those feelings didn't really amount to much, and I never did anything about it, which was fine by me.
You have to decide whether or not doing anything about it would be worth it considering he's graduating soon. Will he be moving away?
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/24/14 | Reply
@AnimeGal816:
I guess, you shouldn't even be worrying so much about the future as much as you should be about the present. I mean, you haven't even told the guy how you feel. After you do that, then you can start worrying-together- about the future. If you choose to tell him, which I think you should go for it! :)
AnimeGal816
Dovahkiin (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/23/14 | Reply
@DemonsandAngels:
exactly! i have found myself in those moments where i convince myself that he doesn't like me like that, then i guess i kinda push away my emotions and just forget about them for a while. As far as i know, he's not moving after he gets out of high school. He plans on having a couple of gap years to save money, then going to college for nursing. we both took the same biomedical class, he definitely does a lot better than me. XD lol barely passed that class.
I guess i'm mostly just worried about drifting apart after he graduates. I'm not super worried, but still. lol
on an off note, my sisters fiance(they're both named daniel, but my sisters daniel goes by Dan and he's a marine, and my daniel either goes by that, or i call him danny) has the same name as the guy i like, and they couldn't be more different. lol at least in my dream they were getting along. lol
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/22/14 | Reply
I guess I'm not sure on what advice you need?
What you're feeling isn't all that weird. It's not that you forget you like him, per-say, but you've just pushed it out of your mind. Or if you really do forget you like him, you don't really like him that much to begin with. But I think that's a normal feeling. I had a crush on a guy in high school, and I'd go through periods where I wanted to flirt and for him to like me back, but then I'd talk myself into there being no chance in hell he'd actually like me, so I pushed all thoughts aside and things would be normal for awhile until he'd do something that reminded me that hey, yes, I did actually like him. Looking back, I realize those feelings didn't really amount to much, and I never did anything about it, which was fine by me.
You have to decide whether or not doing anything about it would be worth it considering he's graduating soon. Will he be moving away?