Oh my heavens. That's seriously CREEPY. I feel really bad for you : ( Hang in there!! My first suggestion would be to tell her to BACK OFF, but it sounds like you have already tried to do that. And I'm with you on that one, it's not easy to tell someone to back off. But it doesn't have to be as difficult as it seems. Go back to the things they taught you when you were in elementary school. When I was in, like, 5'th grade, they told us that if someone won't leave us alone, then say, and I quote "STOP HARASSING ME NOW." Which I thought was pretty ridiculous, but seriously. Let her know that you feel like she is harassing you. And tell her, strait out, that you want her to LEAVE YOU ALONE. Like, I have a similar problem, that I don't want to hurt people's feelings, so even if I seriously don't want to do something, outright saying "No" if very hard for me. But some people are not savvy enough to pick up social cues, so you have to spell everything out for them. If you've already done all of this, sory for not being much help and just rambling. I would just stay away from her as much as possible, because if she's ignoring you saying no, then maybe she just needs a reality check, that you are serious about this. I hope I helped. Good luck!!
B'aww... Blue... that totally sucks. WAIT I know. It just happens that the only ones that have SHOWN you affection are women! You are totally beautiful. There's no way no guys like you. Not naming names but I've seen girls WAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY less attractive than you get boyfriends. And I'm like "......wtaf. How did THAT happen??"
I had a girl who was slightly crushing on me back in highschool, (thankfully I graduated before her so I could just run away and never have to see her again LOOOL) so I kiiiiiinda know how it is, I know it gets so creepy. We don't have the heart to be mean to them so we just act pleasant and then try to ignore them... but OH MAN IT IS SO AWKWARD. LIKE AGH.
And what, she BIT you?? How strange. Onna my mall friends has this thing where when he gets over-affectionate he just feels like biting people, once he bit me on the shoulder and IT ACTUALLY GREW A SCAB A DAY LATER. You gotta watch yourself around them. Actually don't go near them. Try and tell peeps THIS GIRL FREAKS ME THE EFF OUT PLEASE I DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND HER. IF SHE'S AT A PARTY PLEASE TELL ME SO I CAN PLAN ACCORDINGLY.
ponyochan
Otaku Eternal | Posted 06/13/12 | Reply
Oh my heavens. That's seriously CREEPY. I feel really bad for you : ( Hang in there!! My first suggestion would be to tell her to BACK OFF, but it sounds like you have already tried to do that. And I'm with you on that one, it's not easy to tell someone to back off. But it doesn't have to be as difficult as it seems. Go back to the things they taught you when you were in elementary school. When I was in, like, 5'th grade, they told us that if someone won't leave us alone, then say, and I quote "STOP HARASSING ME NOW." Which I thought was pretty ridiculous, but seriously. Let her know that you feel like she is harassing you. And tell her, strait out, that you want her to LEAVE YOU ALONE. Like, I have a similar problem, that I don't want to hurt people's feelings, so even if I seriously don't want to do something, outright saying "No" if very hard for me. But some people are not savvy enough to pick up social cues, so you have to spell everything out for them. If you've already done all of this, sory for not being much help and just rambling. I would just stay away from her as much as possible, because if she's ignoring you saying no, then maybe she just needs a reality check, that you are serious about this. I hope I helped. Good luck!!
Eneko
Val's chibi kitty (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 06/13/12 | Reply
B'aww... Blue... that totally sucks. WAIT I know. It just happens that the only ones that have SHOWN you affection are women! You are totally beautiful. There's no way no guys like you. Not naming names but I've seen girls WAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY less attractive than you get boyfriends. And I'm like "......wtaf. How did THAT happen??"
I had a girl who was slightly crushing on me back in highschool, (thankfully I graduated before her so I could just run away and never have to see her again LOOOL) so I kiiiiiinda know how it is, I know it gets so creepy. We don't have the heart to be mean to them so we just act pleasant and then try to ignore them... but OH MAN IT IS SO AWKWARD. LIKE AGH.
And what, she BIT you?? How strange. Onna my mall friends has this thing where when he gets over-affectionate he just feels like biting people, once he bit me on the shoulder and IT ACTUALLY GREW A SCAB A DAY LATER. You gotta watch yourself around them. Actually don't go near them. Try and tell peeps THIS GIRL FREAKS ME THE EFF OUT PLEASE I DON'T FEEL COMFORTABLE AROUND HER. IF SHE'S AT A PARTY PLEASE TELL ME SO I CAN PLAN ACCORDINGLY.
*shivers* I feel for you, man.
like a BOSS.