Yeah, people laugh at each other. They insult, mock, call names, etc etc. People who do that are NOT WORTH IT. 99% of the time, people who do that are usually very pathetic people who have to pick on others and bully them to make them feel better about themselves. Or they're jealous for some reason.
If it's like a skinny blonde teenage girl laughing at you, she's probably just a prep who think she's better than you. If it's a guy, it's because he's a guy, and they're horribly immature and they just tease everyone they can.
Whatever the case, people who laugh at others are just sad. Very, very sad. Don't let it bother you. Later on in life, you're gonna find people who will laugh at you over things that aren't as trivial as a big butt or a chubby belly, and if you can't deal with the mocking and the insults now over something like this, you won't be able to stand it when people mock you for things that really matter.
Don't take their words to heart. The best thing you can do for yourself is listen to words from people who actually LOVE you. People who don't care about you, don't care how you feel, thus, they'll say heartless things regardless of your feelings. They're the people you just ignore. Take their words with a grain of salt and move on. You'll be doing yourself a favor.
Oh jeeeez -___-
You better not start getting on this anoreix/bulimic crazy weight loss kick or else I'm gonna have to come to Texas and kick your ass good.
Listen, when a girl looks like that, there's usually two things behind it: 1) Incredibly good genes so they're naturally slim, and can tone up and get in shape easily and 2) Hours and hours, every single day of every week, of every month, of every year of exercise. and a constant depriving themselves of foods that they enjoy eating. If girls like her (which in her case, she probably has good genes because she's Asian..) don't have good genes, then they literally starve themselves and workout for hours a day. They don't get to eat chocolate, pizza, cookies, or anything yummy. Strictly lean means, fruits and vegetables. They deprive themselves and they cause a lot of stress and damage on their bodies to look that way. It's not worth it.
It's good if you want to exercise, get in shape and feel better about yourself. That's fine. But don't aim to lose any weight since your weight is so light now anyways. Aim to tone your muscles and burn whatever (itty bitty) tiny bit of fat you have. Don't stress it if your weight starts to go up; muscle weighs more than fat.
Make sure to give yourself at least 2 days off a week. Start slow with exercising so you don't hurt yourself. Don't do this to look "sexy" or anything for some guy. Remember that the mots attractive trait to any guy is confidence. Being confident in your own skin is more important to them than a flawless body.
Also, don't try to obtain her figure. Every single body is different. You can get in shape, be slim and all, but you can never have anyone's exact figure and it's foolish to try.
Also keep in mind that girls are supposed to have a small layer of fat on their tummy anyways, for child-birth. It's a fact. Look it up if you wish.
But most importantly, chill out. Love yourself for what you are. We all think you're gorgeous, inside and out. Don't forget that <3
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/07/11 | Reply
@Butterflykiss:
Yeah, people laugh at each other. They insult, mock, call names, etc etc. People who do that are NOT WORTH IT. 99% of the time, people who do that are usually very pathetic people who have to pick on others and bully them to make them feel better about themselves. Or they're jealous for some reason.
If it's like a skinny blonde teenage girl laughing at you, she's probably just a prep who think she's better than you. If it's a guy, it's because he's a guy, and they're horribly immature and they just tease everyone they can.
Whatever the case, people who laugh at others are just sad. Very, very sad. Don't let it bother you. Later on in life, you're gonna find people who will laugh at you over things that aren't as trivial as a big butt or a chubby belly, and if you can't deal with the mocking and the insults now over something like this, you won't be able to stand it when people mock you for things that really matter.
Don't take their words to heart. The best thing you can do for yourself is listen to words from people who actually LOVE you. People who don't care about you, don't care how you feel, thus, they'll say heartless things regardless of your feelings. They're the people you just ignore. Take their words with a grain of salt and move on. You'll be doing yourself a favor.
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
Butterflykiss
The assbutt (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/07/11 | Reply
@Morbid Dollie:
ok i wont forget that. it's just frustrating having all these people laugh at me
Morbid Dollie
Strawberry (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/06/11 | Reply
Oh jeeeez -___-
You better not start getting on this anoreix/bulimic crazy weight loss kick or else I'm gonna have to come to Texas and kick your ass good.
Listen, when a girl looks like that, there's usually two things behind it: 1) Incredibly good genes so they're naturally slim, and can tone up and get in shape easily and 2) Hours and hours, every single day of every week, of every month, of every year of exercise. and a constant depriving themselves of foods that they enjoy eating. If girls like her (which in her case, she probably has good genes because she's Asian..) don't have good genes, then they literally starve themselves and workout for hours a day. They don't get to eat chocolate, pizza, cookies, or anything yummy. Strictly lean means, fruits and vegetables. They deprive themselves and they cause a lot of stress and damage on their bodies to look that way. It's not worth it.
It's good if you want to exercise, get in shape and feel better about yourself. That's fine. But don't aim to lose any weight since your weight is so light now anyways. Aim to tone your muscles and burn whatever (itty bitty) tiny bit of fat you have. Don't stress it if your weight starts to go up; muscle weighs more than fat.
Make sure to give yourself at least 2 days off a week. Start slow with exercising so you don't hurt yourself. Don't do this to look "sexy" or anything for some guy. Remember that the mots attractive trait to any guy is confidence. Being confident in your own skin is more important to them than a flawless body.
Also, don't try to obtain her figure. Every single body is different. You can get in shape, be slim and all, but you can never have anyone's exact figure and it's foolish to try.
Also keep in mind that girls are supposed to have a small layer of fat on their tummy anyways, for child-birth. It's a fact. Look it up if you wish.
But most importantly, chill out. Love yourself for what you are. We all think you're gorgeous, inside and out. Don't forget that <3
-those with the biggest hearts hurt the most
XkeyofdestinyX
Psychopath (Grand Otaku) | Posted 09/03/11 | Reply
......your fine! >.>;
Ich such dich unter jedem Stein Wo bist du Ich schlaf mit einem Messer ein
grand baham
Grand Otaku*** | Posted 09/03/11 | Reply
>:( wtf ....... repeat after me.... YOU LOOK FINE!
Amestar
Pikachu Lover (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/02/11 | Reply
That's what's wrong with society today, it makes girls what to be anorexic and work out, so they fit in. I don't think you have to