To be honest with you Ducky, I don't very much like people who are mean. I think the fact that you're nice is a good thing. I don't think you should want to be mean. I mean.. Maybe if you wanted to, you could be more assertive, but you wouldn't need to be a total ass about it, you know? 'Cause some people do that, and it just makes them really unapproachable and not fun to be around. I'm not saying you'd be an ass though. ._. Ha.. >_<
I know how you feel when it comes to telling someone things like that. I remember when I told my "friend" something she'd always say, "cool." and that's it. It made me feel like crap, and if she told me something I'd at least put some enthusiasm into it. I totally know where you're coming from when you say that though.
You do need to stand up for your opinions. Especially if they're right. If your friend's opinion happens to be totally bogus, you should stand up for your own. I know everyone doesn't like to get into arguments with their friends, but it happens. And if it means you need to stand up for your own opinions then you should do it.
Hmm... Well, I think you could tell people the honest to God truth, but I think you have to do it in a certain way. In a way that won't insult them or put them down. 'Cause the truth is always good to say, and trying to sugar coat things isn't always the best thing to do.
Whoa boy. I can't believe I'm actually saying this stuff. ._. It's so hypocritical. ._. But really.. I think you're a really nice girl, and I enjoy talking to you. ^^ I don't want you to turn into a big mean, meanie head. D: 'Cause there's too many of those people in this world. But I also don't want you to get mad at yourself for not doing what you thought you should have done. So... I guess you should go with your gut feeling, and if it has a bad effect in the end, you'll learn from it.
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Otaku Legend | Posted 08/07/08 | Reply
Yesh, you are the brunette. You's is pretty. ^^
To be honest with you Ducky, I don't very much like people who are mean. I think the fact that you're nice is a good thing. I don't think you should want to be mean. I mean.. Maybe if you wanted to, you could be more assertive, but you wouldn't need to be a total ass about it, you know? 'Cause some people do that, and it just makes them really unapproachable and not fun to be around. I'm not saying you'd be an ass though. ._. Ha.. >_<
I know how you feel when it comes to telling someone things like that. I remember when I told my "friend" something she'd always say, "cool." and that's it. It made me feel like crap, and if she told me something I'd at least put some enthusiasm into it. I totally know where you're coming from when you say that though.
You do need to stand up for your opinions. Especially if they're right. If your friend's opinion happens to be totally bogus, you should stand up for your own. I know everyone doesn't like to get into arguments with their friends, but it happens. And if it means you need to stand up for your own opinions then you should do it.
Hmm... Well, I think you could tell people the honest to God truth, but I think you have to do it in a certain way. In a way that won't insult them or put them down. 'Cause the truth is always good to say, and trying to sugar coat things isn't always the best thing to do.
Whoa boy. I can't believe I'm actually saying this stuff. ._. It's so hypocritical. ._. But really.. I think you're a really nice girl, and I enjoy talking to you. ^^ I don't want you to turn into a big mean, meanie head. D: 'Cause there's too many of those people in this world. But I also don't want you to get mad at yourself for not doing what you thought you should have done. So... I guess you should go with your gut feeling, and if it has a bad effect in the end, you'll learn from it.
Anyway, sorry this made no sense. >_<
I loves ya Ducky! *Huggles*
xoxo,
Britty