Honestly, I have no idea how him and his cousin are. He won't answer any of my messages or texts. I don't really know why because I haven't done anything to anger him and so I don't know..But thank you for that anyways. If he ever talks to me I'll be sure to tell him
He is not entirely wrong to think that way... but if you may, please do correct him.. His cousin is not the only family left to him.. you are still there for him, right? All the best you could do is be with him, be close to him.. and do that not because of pity, but because you love him.. show him and make him feel that he is loved..
I understand his feelings very well.. I lost my best friend twice as well.. because of death. I feel hopeless, and sad... I can't do anything... anything at all... I don't want him to end up that way.. so, please.. do give him comfort as much as you can, and do not lose patience...
and if its possible, I want you to pass this message to him-- "My Dear fellow, you must not look for something you lack, but instead, you must look at those things that you already has. Try not to count your loss but try to count your gains.. can't you see how much your life is worth for the others, isn't it better to look at life that way??.. please, don't forget that you are blessed!"
sorry for the VERY late reply... hope that he is doing fine now... I'm not much help this time, but I did my best.. ^.~ better late than never~
Oh, and also, please do inform me what happened.. I am very concern about this..
have a wonderful night..
-yoru
Last edited by howayoru at 9:45:46 AM CDT on July 31, 2010.
Like what Yammy Riyalgo said he does need to focuse on what he does have. But if he starts saying lifes not worth it then ask him what is death worth, I actually have an emotional friend, two really one was suisidle (sp?) the other was a cutter, the suisidle one is in tharipy (sp?) and the cutter well I got her to stop so yeah.
Sorry about spelling I'm really bad. Hope it helps.
It's tough when life throws a bunch of difficulty in your face. But that IS life. Remember, and it's hard to see this at times, but you could have it much worse than you do. Instead of focusing on how life is miserable, he should be grateful for what he DOES have. People with WORSE situations or circumstances would give up their own lives to have a life like his, as difficult or as bad as he sees it...
Well from personal experince, I too happen to have bad things happen when I think everything is alright EX: My great grandmother who was pretty close to me died when I was happy in life and I never cried at her funeral, I was the only one who didn't cry.
All I have to say is: Sometimes you can't help much, But just being there for them shows them they care. So thats all you can do, From my knowledge...
howayoru
Grand Otaku | Posted 08/05/10 | Reply
@angelsu:
if it stays like that... I think you should confront him... otherwise, who knows what might happen... so do your best!
-yoru
angelsu
Eternal Angel (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/31/10 | Reply
@howayoru:
Honestly, I have no idea how him and his cousin are. He won't answer any of my messages or texts. I don't really know why because I haven't done anything to anger him and so I don't know..But thank you for that anyways. If he ever talks to me I'll be sure to tell him
howayoru
Grand Otaku | Posted 07/31/10 | Reply
He is not entirely wrong to think that way... but if you may, please do correct him.. His cousin is not the only family left to him.. you are still there for him, right? All the best you could do is be with him, be close to him.. and do that not because of pity, but because you love him.. show him and make him feel that he is loved..
I understand his feelings very well.. I lost my best friend twice as well.. because of death. I feel hopeless, and sad... I can't do anything... anything at all... I don't want him to end up that way.. so, please.. do give him comfort as much as you can, and do not lose patience...
and if its possible, I want you to pass this message to him-- "My Dear fellow, you must not look for something you lack, but instead, you must look at those things that you already has. Try not to count your loss but try to count your gains.. can't you see how much your life is worth for the others, isn't it better to look at life that way??.. please, don't forget that you are blessed!"
sorry for the VERY late reply... hope that he is doing fine now... I'm not much help this time, but I did my best.. ^.~ better late than never~
Oh, and also, please do inform me what happened.. I am very concern about this..
have a wonderful night..
-yoru
Last edited by howayoru at 9:45:46 AM CDT on July 31, 2010.
ForgottenAngel1
Otaku Legend | Posted 07/11/10 | Reply
Like what Yammy Riyalgo said he does need to focuse on what he does have. But if he starts saying lifes not worth it then ask him what is death worth, I actually have an emotional friend, two really one was suisidle (sp?) the other was a cutter, the suisidle one is in tharipy (sp?) and the cutter well I got her to stop so yeah.
Sorry about spelling I'm really bad. Hope it helps.
~Alice
Yammy Riyalgo
Otaku Legend | Posted 06/21/10 | Reply
@angelsu:
You are quite welcome. I hope the best for your friend. Any time he needs advice, come to Yammy! *grins*
angelsu
Eternal Angel (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 06/21/10 | Reply
@Yammy Riyalgo:
Thank you. You know you're really good with advice.
Yammy Riyalgo
Otaku Legend | Posted 06/20/10 | Reply
It's tough when life throws a bunch of difficulty in your face. But that IS life. Remember, and it's hard to see this at times, but you could have it much worse than you do. Instead of focusing on how life is miserable, he should be grateful for what he DOES have. People with WORSE situations or circumstances would give up their own lives to have a life like his, as difficult or as bad as he sees it...
Blood Moon Wolf
Bloody (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 06/19/10 | Reply
@angelsu:
Yeah Same here, Its just the same, I like to be alone alot.
angelsu
Eternal Angel (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 06/19/10 | Reply
@Blood Moon Wolf:
I don't cry because I don't like people seeing me cry. I wait until I'm alone then I cry
Blood Moon Wolf
Bloody (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 06/19/10 | Reply
@angelsu:
Well the reason I didnt is because I hate showing weakness and I wanted to show my brother that: Its alright to cry but be strong.
angelsu
Eternal Angel (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 06/19/10 | Reply
@Blood Moon Wolf:
I've tried...Thanks and i'm sorry about your great grandmother. If it makes you feel better I was the only one who didn't cry at my aunt's funeral
Last edited by angelsu at 9:10:08 AM CDT on June 19, 2010.
Blood Moon Wolf
Bloody (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 06/19/10 | Reply
Well from personal experince, I too happen to have bad things happen when I think everything is alright EX: My great grandmother who was pretty close to me died when I was happy in life and I never cried at her funeral, I was the only one who didn't cry.
All I have to say is: Sometimes you can't help much, But just being there for them shows them they care. So thats all you can do, From my knowledge...