Dr. Mama Cat. (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/06/10 | Reply
The others already said it Mew. Yes what that girl did isn't very nice but if he doesn't like you in the same way, hanging around will only lead to more pain for you.
It's not easy but try to not do that. I can tell you from personal experience that there are more guys out there and wasting time hovering around one who doesn't like you that way in return, will only rob you of opportunities to meet others.
I wish there was some easy answer or solution but there isn't. Don't be afraid to come here when you're feeling down. We'll always do our best to cheer you up.
*hugs*
Mew! *HUGS* I hope you're doing better and things work out. I agree with what the others said. I'm sure it will be hard but move on. There are lots of nice cute guys out there for you to meet! ^^
First off, I would move on from him. If he isn't giving any interest and flirting with another girl, it's best to look in the sea for that one goldfish who will be your number one. Him not returning your feelings will be for the best. It takes two to be in a relationship.
As for the girl, I wouldn't really associate with her anymore and tell her that it did hurt you from her reckless/selfish behavior. Explain the situation and hope she tries to understand. Try avoid being catty with her. Honestly, I want to tell her to grow up because if you're unfaithful to your partner, it makes a person seem completely self-centered. She seems to be someone you should try to be careful around due to the fact she is flirting with others while having a boyfriend and throws away your trust.
If you know he doesn't like you in the same way, try to move on instead of letting what's going on hurt you so much. I know what this other girl is doing isn't very nice since she's apparently seeing someone else, but that kind of doesn't change that he doesn't like you like you like him. I just wish I was there to give you a good hug since it sounds like you really need one.
Indi
Dr. Mama Cat. (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/06/10 | Reply
The others already said it Mew. Yes what that girl did isn't very nice but if he doesn't like you in the same way, hanging around will only lead to more pain for you.
It's not easy but try to not do that. I can tell you from personal experience that there are more guys out there and wasting time hovering around one who doesn't like you that way in return, will only rob you of opportunities to meet others.
I wish there was some easy answer or solution but there isn't. Don't be afraid to come here when you're feeling down. We'll always do our best to cheer you up.
*hugs*
~Crystia
Selene Shri
Grand Otaku | Posted 10/05/10 | Reply
Mew! *HUGS* I hope you're doing better and things work out. I agree with what the others said. I'm sure it will be hard but move on. There are lots of nice cute guys out there for you to meet! ^^
~Sarah
MewMew
Master of Kittehs (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/03/10 | Reply
@jeweloflife:
yeahh agreed. but i think i'm doing better now and have more of a grasp on what is going on . but thank u *huggles* ur advice is so true
MewMew
Master of Kittehs (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/03/10 | Reply
@SunfallE:
i'm doing much better now to some degree.. thanks beth ;w; <3
jeweloflife
Afrofantastic (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 10/02/10 | Reply
First off, I would move on from him. If he isn't giving any interest and flirting with another girl, it's best to look in the sea for that one goldfish who will be your number one. Him not returning your feelings will be for the best. It takes two to be in a relationship.
As for the girl, I wouldn't really associate with her anymore and tell her that it did hurt you from her reckless/selfish behavior. Explain the situation and hope she tries to understand. Try avoid being catty with her. Honestly, I want to tell her to grow up because if you're unfaithful to your partner, it makes a person seem completely self-centered. She seems to be someone you should try to be careful around due to the fact she is flirting with others while having a boyfriend and throws away your trust.
SunfallE
Nyaa~ (ZE MEANIE) | Posted 10/02/10 | Reply
Good gosh Mew.
*huggles*
If you know he doesn't like you in the same way, try to move on instead of letting what's going on hurt you so much. I know what this other girl is doing isn't very nice since she's apparently seeing someone else, but that kind of doesn't change that he doesn't like you like you like him. I just wish I was there to give you a good hug since it sounds like you really need one.
*huggles again*
In the name of the tune I will punish you!