well i'v tried to have a calm conversation with her, but it just turnes into a BIG fight and i end up crying in the end and she might end up leaving anyway!!!

I agree with Heatkruez but it's ok to be pissed at your parents like that, it happens everyday of a teenagers life lol but if u don't want her to leave, then just calmly have a conversation about her leaving......explain how u feel (omg i sound like a therapist lol) but it's what u have to do......(well, that's your choice to do it or not)

thx, but i got in a big fight with my parents and they think i'm hiding something, i am, but i can't tell them, because, my it's my friends secret and i'm never going to tell anyone unless she lets me tell, my parents want me to go see some shrink, i don't want to, and they keep telling me to go, and i get mad, and i yell, it's terible, and i hate it, but oh well i guess i'll get over it sooner or later...............thx for the support anyway!!