Our look doesn't matter that much. Each of us is born differently and while some may not look as good as the others, they are beautiful in the eyes of someone and that's what it is important. There is a central law for beauty actually and what it is, but also there is personal view and each of us has a different one.
What makes someone different is not the look, because we can't choose what God gives us from the start. But we can choose our way of life and how we shall behave. Living and thinking as everyone else is what makes you let's say "normal". It is a huge fact, but actually I have been studying and thinking about that a lot. But in short, if anyone calls someone weird, that one should be proud. Because it is just of jealous and of those people that the normal ones manage to keep on with their life.
Remember one thing! Whatever you do, don't let others (bad people) control your way of living. Choose what your heart tells you to do. I know that you are on the right way and that you will stay that. Unlike mostly who fell on that...
Exactly! We use the words "normal" but since we're all different, none of us can be "normal". Either that, or one specific person is "normal" and the rest of us are not.
On a related note, since the standards for beauty change so drastically over the centuries and throughout the world, I've decided that the "beauty" humans have invented does not exist, because even we can't decide exactly what it is. I think everyone is beautiful if you know what to look for.
"weird" "different" "ugly" "stupid" "useless".....these are all things that WE have invented, and they mean nothing to me, I've decided. Especially since I believe that God made us all. If we didn't invent standards for how we're supposed to be, then no one would be what ultimately amounts to "wrong". And none of my friends are "wrong". They are amazing. We all have flaws, but they are part of what makes us who we are. So why should one person's flaws go unmentioned while another person, for their flaws, are constantly told that they are "weird"? So, yeah. I've decided that everyone is beautiful, and that's how I'm going to try to see them.
Last edited by Sarasface at 4:04:08 PM CDT on May 6, 2011.
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
Normal people... I wonder what you have to be to actual get that title. There isn't any law for that or anything written. There are only codex for life and they don't show that.
But I know this. If they say that you are weird or your friends... Then that is better. Just say "Thank you". Because, what is special being normal in that way. Nothing... Just nothing. Being special, why the call weird is actual unique and much better.
Thank you. I always say that I'll try to help anyone and be anyone's friend. I try not to judge anyone, and I try to give them a chance the way I wish people would give me a chance. Because of this, a lot of my friends are poeple who have been labeled "weird"...and they are among the best friends I could have. I've decided that having a standard for normalcy is dumb.
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
I know, that's why I tried to make you to think more positive. I remember how you always wrote those huge comments to Sunhollow trying to help her. You were always there for others and always stay like that.
No, you don't sound rude. And really, I'm not always so bitter. I was just in a really bad mood because my friend was so hurt. And I usually do try to think positively.
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
That's true, living in a nature and having a nice life there is the best. I like that as well. BUT have you ever thought would that be possible without all the other achievements that people did? Do you think that you could live there freely just by that? The world changed, while it suffered a little, for the freedom of people and their lives it grew better. Before people lived in natures, but their lives were much more terrible, shorter, harder and always in war, while they didn't have time to enjoy something nice as that.
I know that you don't want anything bad and that it is not in your plan. But I would like that you also see positive things, not only negative. People are always just complaining, but what I would like to see is something positive and nice for a change. Because the world really is like that. Even if it may seem like it is all bad and that people are evil and so, actually it is a more way around. We see what we want and what our minds tell us. If you want to see bad and negative things, you will see them. If you want to see good you will see those as well. Try to find a balance and believe me, you will enjoy your life and definitely accomplish something.
Sorry if I sound rude, but I don't know in which other way to say it. I would normally just ignore it, but because I see that you are a thoughtful person and nice, I know that you can do this and change a lot in the world.
Sorry. Really, I just get mad sometimes...and for the life of me I don't understand why people have to ruin things. I grew up in the middle of flipping nowhere, and it's AMAZING. No highways and constant yelling and honking. No endless gray buildings. No condos that are super expensive just so you can have the privilege of seeing the view.
I guess I don't hate anyone specifically, I just don't understand how a person can be so destructive to the world that sustains them.
But I agree there are some positive things. Not everyone is like that, I know.
Last edited by Sarasface at 2:59:38 PM CDT on May 5, 2011.
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
I don't like the way some things did went in that way. Many things were build in that regard and made it worse.
I understand that you don't like that Earth is more polluted today, but you shouldn't hate people. You shouldn't even use word "hate". I know that you look at the world on that way, but try looking at it more positive too. If you compare world now to what it was one hundred years before, you would see that it is much nicer and beautiful. Why is that? Because it is getting more cleaner, people watch out on the gasses in factories, cars, everything is being made to protect the nature. And if there are some people that don't like wind turbines (which I don't see a reason why they wouldn't) it doesn't matter. Because today they are replacing many other ways of getting energy. Even with cars. It is getting more and more organic. Today also many national parks are being build to protect the nature. The world is not all that grim. It is getting better and that's the most important thing. :)
Sarasface
Ethereal Wanderer (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/11 | Reply
@LightFykki:
Thanks. I try not to let others' opinions affect me too much...
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
LightFykki
Drachen Herz (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/11 | Reply
@Sarasface:
Our look doesn't matter that much. Each of us is born differently and while some may not look as good as the others, they are beautiful in the eyes of someone and that's what it is important. There is a central law for beauty actually and what it is, but also there is personal view and each of us has a different one.
What makes someone different is not the look, because we can't choose what God gives us from the start. But we can choose our way of life and how we shall behave. Living and thinking as everyone else is what makes you let's say "normal". It is a huge fact, but actually I have been studying and thinking about that a lot. But in short, if anyone calls someone weird, that one should be proud. Because it is just of jealous and of those people that the normal ones manage to keep on with their life.
Remember one thing! Whatever you do, don't let others (bad people) control your way of living. Choose what your heart tells you to do. I know that you are on the right way and that you will stay that. Unlike mostly who fell on that...
Sarasface
Ethereal Wanderer (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/11 | Reply
@LightFykki:
Exactly! We use the words "normal" but since we're all different, none of us can be "normal". Either that, or one specific person is "normal" and the rest of us are not.
On a related note, since the standards for beauty change so drastically over the centuries and throughout the world, I've decided that the "beauty" humans have invented does not exist, because even we can't decide exactly what it is. I think everyone is beautiful if you know what to look for.
"weird" "different" "ugly" "stupid" "useless".....these are all things that WE have invented, and they mean nothing to me, I've decided. Especially since I believe that God made us all. If we didn't invent standards for how we're supposed to be, then no one would be what ultimately amounts to "wrong". And none of my friends are "wrong". They are amazing. We all have flaws, but they are part of what makes us who we are. So why should one person's flaws go unmentioned while another person, for their flaws, are constantly told that they are "weird"? So, yeah. I've decided that everyone is beautiful, and that's how I'm going to try to see them.
Last edited by Sarasface at 4:04:08 PM CDT on May 6, 2011.
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
LightFykki
Drachen Herz (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/11 | Reply
@Sarasface:
Normal people... I wonder what you have to be to actual get that title. There isn't any law for that or anything written. There are only codex for life and they don't show that.
But I know this. If they say that you are weird or your friends... Then that is better. Just say "Thank you". Because, what is special being normal in that way. Nothing... Just nothing. Being special, why the call weird is actual unique and much better.
Sarasface
Ethereal Wanderer (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/11 | Reply
@LightFykki:
Thank you. I always say that I'll try to help anyone and be anyone's friend. I try not to judge anyone, and I try to give them a chance the way I wish people would give me a chance. Because of this, a lot of my friends are poeple who have been labeled "weird"...and they are among the best friends I could have. I've decided that having a standard for normalcy is dumb.
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
LightFykki
Drachen Herz (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/11 | Reply
@Sarasface:
I know, that's why I tried to make you to think more positive. I remember how you always wrote those huge comments to Sunhollow trying to help her. You were always there for others and always stay like that.
Sarasface
Ethereal Wanderer (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/05/11 | Reply
@LightFykki:
No, you don't sound rude. And really, I'm not always so bitter. I was just in a really bad mood because my friend was so hurt. And I usually do try to think positively.
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
LightFykki
Drachen Herz (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/05/11 | Reply
@Sarasface:
That's true, living in a nature and having a nice life there is the best. I like that as well. BUT have you ever thought would that be possible without all the other achievements that people did? Do you think that you could live there freely just by that? The world changed, while it suffered a little, for the freedom of people and their lives it grew better. Before people lived in natures, but their lives were much more terrible, shorter, harder and always in war, while they didn't have time to enjoy something nice as that.
I know that you don't want anything bad and that it is not in your plan. But I would like that you also see positive things, not only negative. People are always just complaining, but what I would like to see is something positive and nice for a change. Because the world really is like that. Even if it may seem like it is all bad and that people are evil and so, actually it is a more way around. We see what we want and what our minds tell us. If you want to see bad and negative things, you will see them. If you want to see good you will see those as well. Try to find a balance and believe me, you will enjoy your life and definitely accomplish something.
Sorry if I sound rude, but I don't know in which other way to say it. I would normally just ignore it, but because I see that you are a thoughtful person and nice, I know that you can do this and change a lot in the world.
Sarasface
Ethereal Wanderer (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/05/11 | Reply
@LightFykki:
Sorry. Really, I just get mad sometimes...and for the life of me I don't understand why people have to ruin things. I grew up in the middle of flipping nowhere, and it's AMAZING. No highways and constant yelling and honking. No endless gray buildings. No condos that are super expensive just so you can have the privilege of seeing the view.
I guess I don't hate anyone specifically, I just don't understand how a person can be so destructive to the world that sustains them.
But I agree there are some positive things. Not everyone is like that, I know.
Last edited by Sarasface at 2:59:38 PM CDT on May 5, 2011.
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
LightFykki
Drachen Herz (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/05/11 | Reply
I don't like the way some things did went in that way. Many things were build in that regard and made it worse.
I understand that you don't like that Earth is more polluted today, but you shouldn't hate people. You shouldn't even use word "hate". I know that you look at the world on that way, but try looking at it more positive too. If you compare world now to what it was one hundred years before, you would see that it is much nicer and beautiful. Why is that? Because it is getting more cleaner, people watch out on the gasses in factories, cars, everything is being made to protect the nature. And if there are some people that don't like wind turbines (which I don't see a reason why they wouldn't) it doesn't matter. Because today they are replacing many other ways of getting energy. Even with cars. It is getting more and more organic. Today also many national parks are being build to protect the nature. The world is not all that grim. It is getting better and that's the most important thing. :)