Argh. That does sound frustrating, jerry! *hugs* I can't say I've been in the middle of 2 friends' quarrels before...really...but uh, I can say that it must feel horrible that you'd have to side one way or the other. I see your point though! It doesn't make sense why he wouldn't just ask Ralf himself about why he was moving. Just assuming things will get him nowhere. :/ Being broke isn't any fun...and so he's moving to the best place possible for him. I'm glad his wife's family is helping out. That's really good.
I'm sure Jeff was being concerned and maybe a little hurt that his friend wouldn't live with him instead, but you're right; he should've just asked to find out, instead of assuming negative things! *hugs* I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. :( Will you get to see Ralf very much then?
I congratulate you on remaining calm throughout the whole thing though. That's a tough thing to do...
Sounds like Jeff just needs a little reality check. Or at least some facts, then things should be ok.
Sorry about the mess. But at least you are venting it out on words and not actions. Try not to hurt yourself again okay. Well it sounds like your friend Jeff needs to comprehend or get the facts straight before he starts venting out to you because then he would know your other friend's postion and not be angry. But i am sorry for your friend Ralph. And you for that matter. I hope and will pray for the both of you to find a well paid job. Its just hard to find one these days.... I hope something great will happen down in Florida for him. Hopefully this will be resolved soon. I like the comic at the end though! Well try to have a better day and take care
Angel Zakuro
bird nerd. (Otaku Angel) | Posted 08/05/09 | Reply
Argh. That does sound frustrating, jerry! *hugs* I can't say I've been in the middle of 2 friends' quarrels before...really...but uh, I can say that it must feel horrible that you'd have to side one way or the other. I see your point though! It doesn't make sense why he wouldn't just ask Ralf himself about why he was moving. Just assuming things will get him nowhere. :/ Being broke isn't any fun...and so he's moving to the best place possible for him. I'm glad his wife's family is helping out. That's really good.
I'm sure Jeff was being concerned and maybe a little hurt that his friend wouldn't live with him instead, but you're right; he should've just asked to find out, instead of assuming negative things! *hugs* I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. :( Will you get to see Ralf very much then?
I congratulate you on remaining calm throughout the whole thing though. That's a tough thing to do...
Sounds like Jeff just needs a little reality check. Or at least some facts, then things should be ok.
Hahaha...funny...
Take care!
fma17
Otaku Eternal | Posted 08/04/09 | Reply
Sorry about the mess. But at least you are venting it out on words and not actions. Try not to hurt yourself again okay. Well it sounds like your friend Jeff needs to comprehend or get the facts straight before he starts venting out to you because then he would know your other friend's postion and not be angry. But i am sorry for your friend Ralph. And you for that matter. I hope and will pray for the both of you to find a well paid job. Its just hard to find one these days.... I hope something great will happen down in Florida for him. Hopefully this will be resolved soon.
I like the comic at the end though! Well try to have a better day and take care
fma17
