I'm glad you're grandmother is doing better. I hope she keeps improving and can leave the nursing home soon!
Aw, a kitten?! Yes! You must take pictures!!! I love seeing those little balls of fur. They're so cute you just want to glomp them all...mine just walked over my lap. His way of saying, PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!
I think we tend to have dreams about them more-so when we've cut them out of our lives. I had a best friend that stabbed me in the back and I no longer speak to her. I have dreams about her all the time. I had another friend who was also my best friend, kinda go off the wall and is with a dude twice her age who is on drugs and very controlling. She had come to me for help and I did and suddenly, she moved back with him, married him and she hasn't spoken to me since. I'm convinced this dude is forcing her to not call me because I'm the one that talked her into leaving him. I dream about her all the time too. They're not usually pleasant dreams either.
I wouldn't recommend contacting all this girl's relatives because I think you'd scare/drive her off more-so than help the situation. If the girl wants to get in touch with you, she has the means to so let her be the one in control. As frustrating as it is but you don't want to come across as a stalker and than you wont get anywhere with her.
Hello there Jerry Bro! *hugs* Gosh it has been such a long time hasn't it? Been busy with school again^^; I hope you have been doing good!
I remember you talking about your Grandma before. So she had to get therapy and go to a nursing home? Aw I see...well that is good though that she is doing better. I'm sure she will be feeling great in no time, so no worries okay? *hugs*
oh my!! A kitten? How adorable! X3 Kittens are sooo cute! She will be luck to have you as an owner! Yes please do take pictures! :3
Hmm I don't know much about this girl you're having dreams about or why you want to avoid her, but how do you think you really feel about her? You could possibly still like her in a way Jerry. Dreams have a way of telling us what our subconscious is trying to say and if you try to force yourself not to dream about that stuff or not to think of her, your mind is only going to think of her more. When you try too hard to focus on not thinking about someone, your mind does the opposite. So you must keep yourself distracted by whatever means necessary. Listen to positive music, draw, read, play video games, watch anime, etc. By doing this your mind will be occupied on other things and won't focus so much on this girl.
When your about to go to sleep at night, think of positive things when going to bed. Think of a story and keep on repeating it in your mind, make up new characters, think of the color green, etc. Just think calmly and peacefully, do NOT worry about this girl or what your dreams will be when you go to sleep, it will be no help at all. Think positive.
Also you're having anxiety about this girl and anxiety is not nice at all. It takes control over you. So to get over this anxiety Jerry you should talk to this girl.
You can never truly forget someone, its just not that possible. I don't know your past with her, but I think you should see her or just at least talk to her a little. This will I know help ease your mind and the dreams. Because I think your dreams are trying to tell you that you need to see this girl and tell her how you feel or something. Get it off your chest because you're keeping it inside and its just haunting you.
You're a very good guy Jerry so please don't be scared about this okay? I know you're not a stalker or an obsessed person over this girl. Lol no where near it, so don't think like that. I know how it feels to be confused...to have a battle with yourself. It hurts. But you must try your best to think positive and pray. Also find a way to solve this problem. Even if it might be scary, you must do it.
I know you can overcome this Jerry^^ Like I said, you're a very good guy. If you ever want to talk more about this, please message me okay? ^_^ I am here for you.
Take care Jerry! I love you bunches. ^_^ Happy V-Day! *hugs*
ElvesAteMyRamen
Otaku Eternal | Posted 02/21/09 | Reply
I'm glad you're grandmother is doing better. I hope she keeps improving and can leave the nursing home soon!
Aw, a kitten?! Yes! You must take pictures!!! I love seeing those little balls of fur. They're so cute you just want to glomp them all...mine just walked over my lap. His way of saying, PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!
I think we tend to have dreams about them more-so when we've cut them out of our lives. I had a best friend that stabbed me in the back and I no longer speak to her. I have dreams about her all the time. I had another friend who was also my best friend, kinda go off the wall and is with a dude twice her age who is on drugs and very controlling. She had come to me for help and I did and suddenly, she moved back with him, married him and she hasn't spoken to me since. I'm convinced this dude is forcing her to not call me because I'm the one that talked her into leaving him. I dream about her all the time too. They're not usually pleasant dreams either.
I wouldn't recommend contacting all this girl's relatives because I think you'd scare/drive her off more-so than help the situation. If the girl wants to get in touch with you, she has the means to so let her be the one in control. As frustrating as it is but you don't want to come across as a stalker and than you wont get anywhere with her.
I wish you the best!
~*Elves and Jenks
innocent heart
Otaku Eternal | Posted 02/14/09 | Reply
Hello there Jerry Bro! *hugs* Gosh it has been such a long time hasn't it? Been busy with school again^^; I hope you have been doing good!
I remember you talking about your Grandma before. So she had to get therapy and go to a nursing home? Aw I see...well that is good though that she is doing better. I'm sure she will be feeling great in no time, so no worries okay? *hugs*
oh my!! A kitten? How adorable! X3 Kittens are sooo cute! She will be luck to have you as an owner! Yes please do take pictures! :3
Hmm I don't know much about this girl you're having dreams about or why you want to avoid her, but how do you think you really feel about her? You could possibly still like her in a way Jerry. Dreams have a way of telling us what our subconscious is trying to say and if you try to force yourself not to dream about that stuff or not to think of her, your mind is only going to think of her more. When you try too hard to focus on not thinking about someone, your mind does the opposite. So you must keep yourself distracted by whatever means necessary. Listen to positive music, draw, read, play video games, watch anime, etc. By doing this your mind will be occupied on other things and won't focus so much on this girl.
When your about to go to sleep at night, think of positive things when going to bed. Think of a story and keep on repeating it in your mind, make up new characters, think of the color green, etc. Just think calmly and peacefully, do NOT worry about this girl or what your dreams will be when you go to sleep, it will be no help at all. Think positive.
Also you're having anxiety about this girl and anxiety is not nice at all. It takes control over you. So to get over this anxiety Jerry you should talk to this girl.
You can never truly forget someone, its just not that possible. I don't know your past with her, but I think you should see her or just at least talk to her a little. This will I know help ease your mind and the dreams. Because I think your dreams are trying to tell you that you need to see this girl and tell her how you feel or something. Get it off your chest because you're keeping it inside and its just haunting you.
You're a very good guy Jerry so please don't be scared about this okay? I know you're not a stalker or an obsessed person over this girl. Lol no where near it, so don't think like that. I know how it feels to be confused...to have a battle with yourself. It hurts. But you must try your best to think positive and pray. Also find a way to solve this problem. Even if it might be scary, you must do it.
I know you can overcome this Jerry^^ Like I said, you're a very good guy. If you ever want to talk more about this, please message me okay? ^_^ I am here for you.
Take care Jerry! I love you bunches. ^_^ Happy V-Day! *hugs*
Much Love,
Meagan