Life is a great teacher if you have your ears opened to truth.Sayu despite you try to help others with good comments that might not happen all the time.Sometimes the view of the author is headed into something you wouldnt consider "perfect" .The only room for a comment of that kind it´s if the Author is not happy with what he//she pictured on the paper and it´s asking for help .
If he//she is compleatly happy with what he//she made even if to other eyes is not on the correct "context" you will probably have to support him/her or step aside.There are persons that dont like the constructive criticism,and others that will value greatly your comments (like me).
About the great fuss,remember that we dont know the people at the site face to face.Someone might be just a little kid with no sence of "ownership" or "Original Author" of an artwork.Always give your civilised side even to your worst enemy.Talk with him/her before going to a bad side.
1.- Personal try to comunicate 1 on 1.
2.- If 1 doesn´t work try using the oficial rules.
3.- If 2 doesn´t work then go public.
And for the final part of my story, I never been able to be Rens friends -_- .Yeah I kinda thought I was for a long time but then I discovered she never added me or visited me or anything X_x (for 1 year).So I stoped trying and continued foward.Even if you comment a lot someones artwork and be close for them,friendship need to have 2 persons with reciprocal (Interchanged, given, or owed to each other) feeling.I learned not to expect things,but to give my best to each of my friends.
*has just seen UnknowsRumors pic* Ah, I see. Well I can't imagine you were the one sending the threats. So don't get angry at yourself for wanting to help, 'k?
As I said, just report stuff and let the mods deal with it. *hugs*
It'll all blow over soon enough, some people should just watch their language...
I ditto that whole post you wrote XD
That was the the 1st time I ever snapped like that on theO and now I feel even more stupid than i aready am @A@; I tend to bring out my frustration by telling other ppl about it, luckily I've only talked to you and reenigrl about it tho, I didn't troll all over the net XD
I have had a terrible week as it is and that incident made my brain just explode OTL
I'm not really that bothered by it anymore tho. it's just something that happened pertaining to this theft that has made me depressed eAe;
*sigh*
I hope this issue goes away soon, I'm tired of hearing it. I srsly have a headache right now, it's not even funny. >_>
I feel like crap today OTL
I do wish the best for that art thief tho, I just wish she would understand how much it hurts to have your precious hard work stolen from you like the way she did.
TheOtaku is my most precious 2nd home and I don't want to ever lose it or my friends.
I will also pray for the hardships you're going thru Sayura, I hope you feel better! >A<
This week is honestly a terrible week for many of us @A@;
I'm sorry. I really don't know what to say to comfort you, but I'll be praying....:)
Haha that's one of the things I love so much about theO~ <3
I feel much more loved here than dA or TegakiE or youtube, you know? But I love it~
I honestly don't think you were one who was acting childish. I heard that some people were leaving death threats..now that's childish. I think standing up for your art and your friends' art shows strength and, like you said, close friendships as long as it doesn't go as far as death threats.
I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going your way. If you need to vent you can always come to me. I will listen (or perhaps read xD).
I'm glad to hear though that you got to see your close ties with artists here. -has to try to get those ties back- :D
xXxShiaxXx
Otaku Legend | Posted 07/29/09 | Reply
ah, *feels guilty*
me too. -,- suddenly I regret what i said.
maybe i shouldn't have been so mean. >x>;
um anywayz i'm working on your piccy k? hope that thought makes you feel just a little better. V~V
AngelBest Dream
Holy Knight (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/29/09 | Reply
Life is a great teacher if you have your ears opened to truth.Sayu despite you try to help others with good comments that might not happen all the time.Sometimes the view of the author is headed into something you wouldnt consider "perfect" .The only room for a comment of that kind it´s if the Author is not happy with what he//she pictured on the paper and it´s asking for help .
If he//she is compleatly happy with what he//she made even if to other eyes is not on the correct "context" you will probably have to support him/her or step aside.There are persons that dont like the constructive criticism,and others that will value greatly your comments (like me).
About the great fuss,remember that we dont know the people at the site face to face.Someone might be just a little kid with no sence of "ownership" or "Original Author" of an artwork.Always give your civilised side even to your worst enemy.Talk with him/her before going to a bad side.
1.- Personal try to comunicate 1 on 1.
2.- If 1 doesn´t work try using the oficial rules.
3.- If 2 doesn´t work then go public.
And for the final part of my story, I never been able to be Rens friends -_- .Yeah I kinda thought I was for a long time but then I discovered she never added me or visited me or anything X_x (for 1 year).So I stoped trying and continued foward.Even if you comment a lot someones artwork and be close for them,friendship need to have 2 persons with reciprocal (Interchanged, given, or owed to each other) feeling.I learned not to expect things,but to give my best to each of my friends.
Angel
AngelBest Dream
Holy Knight (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/29/09 | Reply
@RSRKingdomStars:
Ur a nice person :3 .
Angel
Kaerlyn
Tea pixie (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/29/09 | Reply
*has just seen UnknowsRumors pic* Ah, I see. Well I can't imagine you were the one sending the threats. So don't get angry at yourself for wanting to help, 'k?
As I said, just report stuff and let the mods deal with it. *hugs*
It'll all blow over soon enough, some people should just watch their language...
:3
Kaerlyn
Tea pixie (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/29/09 | Reply
*hugs* I hope everything gets sorted. And you didn't sound too angry, not without reason anyway, so don't go worrying yourself about it :3
RSRKingdomStars
Otaku Eternal | Posted 07/29/09 | Reply
I ditto that whole post you wrote XD
That was the the 1st time I ever snapped like that on theO and now I feel even more stupid than i aready am @A@; I tend to bring out my frustration by telling other ppl about it, luckily I've only talked to you and reenigrl about it tho, I didn't troll all over the net XD
I have had a terrible week as it is and that incident made my brain just explode OTL
I'm not really that bothered by it anymore tho. it's just something that happened pertaining to this theft that has made me depressed eAe;
*sigh*
I hope this issue goes away soon, I'm tired of hearing it. I srsly have a headache right now, it's not even funny. >_>
I feel like crap today OTL
I do wish the best for that art thief tho, I just wish she would understand how much it hurts to have your precious hard work stolen from you like the way she did.
TheOtaku is my most precious 2nd home and I don't want to ever lose it or my friends.
I will also pray for the hardships you're going thru Sayura, I hope you feel better! >A<
This week is honestly a terrible week for many of us @A@;
ily
*hugs*
harvestmoonluvr
HARVEST GODDESS (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/29/09 | Reply
I'm sorry. I really don't know what to say to comfort you, but I'll be praying....:)
Haha that's one of the things I love so much about theO~ <3
I feel much more loved here than dA or TegakiE or youtube, you know? But I love it~
Yay! Art! :D
Can't wait to see it :D
MerokoYui4
Otaku Legend | Posted 07/29/09 | Reply
You had a right to get mad, and apologizing for the things you said afterwards definately makes you mature.
I really hope you feel better, sounds like you have alot going on.
MewKittyCatChan54
Senior Otaku | Posted 07/29/09 | Reply
I honestly don't think you were one who was acting childish. I heard that some people were leaving death threats..now that's childish. I think standing up for your art and your friends' art shows strength and, like you said, close friendships as long as it doesn't go as far as death threats.
I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going your way. If you need to vent you can always come to me. I will listen (or perhaps read xD).
I'm glad to hear though that you got to see your close ties with artists here. -has to try to get those ties back- :D
Well ILY bffeae! :D