Old Chicken Nugget (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/17/10 | Reply
I know I haven't been talking to you lately but I kinda went ahead and read your little rant and I have to say it's alright to be frustrated especially at weight issues. Every one deals with it and its just a part of life. But I think its okay for you to spurge just a little, I mean you said you lost 25 pounds! Thats a lot of weight right there, plus your ideal weight depends on your body type and height. Everybody has different bodies who's ideal weights differ. The whole point of being healthy is about feeling good about yourself. :D
And if you ask me 150 isn't all that bad. I mean I'm 150, and people tell me I look fine and healthy, but I suggest work out to feel better not to lose wight, cause that helps me get motivated :D
And don't forget, everybody is beautiful! We all have our own way o expressing it! :D
*hug*
Absentminded One (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/17/10 | Reply
Awww, sweetie, I'm so sorry I haven't been on too much lately, otherwise I would have commented on your previous post. =(
Gosh, you must have been going through loads of crappyness. *::*huggles*::*
Everyone is allowed to rant sometimes! Plus, this is your world! You can write what you want on it! I'm really sorry I wasn't there for you to talk to.
Don't worry, we all love you! In fact it's a good thing you ranted like that; otherwise you would have had all that bottled up inside you with no where to go! And that could have been really bad. Talking or typing out your troubles is very good.
*::*huggles again*::*
I missed saying this before becuase I was kinda tired and it was getting late so let me add to my comment.
I support you in loseing your weight but honey please do not starve yourself in any way. It reall dones't help anything. Just try to make more healthy choices, and there are more healthy things to eat then just salad. There are tons of websites, books, and even your doctor I'm sure can help you get on a heathly diet that doesn't include starving yourself.
And for the consistancy thing, thats hard for all of us. I heard that it actully takes about 20 days of makeing yourself do something before it becomes your ruinte. I know that sounds aweful hard but I know you can do it. I have actully been trying to lose a few pounds myself. I know that if you looked at me you would gasp and say I have nothing to lose I'm so skinny. But I have a bad habit of eating when I'm bored and being lazy, so I actully have gained some extra tummy fat. I'm trying to lose it but your right its hard to stay consistant. What I do though, when I actully do work out, is I just keep telling myself to keep going, and how proud I am of myself for doing this, and I think about the results I'll get if I keep it up and how happy that will make me. And make goals for yourself like if your jogging down the street say you'll keep going till you get to a certain house, and then when you reach theat house maybe push yourself to go a little bit furter. I find that really helps too.
I love when people post things like these because then I see how many people come here to comment and give support and it makes me really happy to see all the love being spread around. I hope that after reading all these comments that you feel much better Sayura. We are all here to help and support you, you should know that you are very loved. Keep smileing. <3
well I skimmed your last post nad I have to say Sayura you are a strong person.
I want you to be proud of the weight you have lost. I am very very proud of you for all that. Don't be so hard on yourself you are doing a great great job. I'll support you here, I'm here for you, if you want to lose the rest of this wieght then I believe you can. You can do this.
And rants are good by the way. They help us relieve stress and make us feel alot better. So this is all okay. We all do it.
Sayura I want you to know that you have so many people supporting you. You have your friends and family and you have us here too. We all care about you Sayura and we are here for you.
You really are a beautiful person Sayura. Don't convince yourself other wise. I'm glad you let this all out, and if you ever need to talk you can always talk to me, I'm here for you. ^^
Take care, ily <3
In your last post, when I read something about not having a diary and posting on here instead and asking people not to read, I knew there would be people that would read it and I expected there to be comments there. Why did that happen? Because people love you and support you, Sayura. This has little to do with anything, but just know that even if you beg people to do/not do something, it'll still happen (and that's not always a bad thing). If anything, even the slightest chance says that perhaps you actually did want somebody to hear you.
Again, my comments probably don't really help much, but please try to keep your energy positive. This does not mean to appear so on the inside, but to believe with your heart that everything will be okay and that nothing will backfire. Affirm it if you have to.
I see less and less of you, but I still think of you everyday. I don't want to give you any trouble in letting you know that I miss you and do dread it when you feel horrible. I don't know how to prevent it, as I do feel anger, frustration, depression and doubt sometimes. Well, quite too often. But stick with things, because it looks like that you have much more commitment than I do, believe it or not. Don't overwork yourself, though.
In no way can I apply it to myself.
I just kind of explode sometimes.
I try ways to vent, but it really doesn't work. I'm a loudmouth and stubborn, but can't hold a grudge for crap. : |
I argue too much with my mom. It was a New Year's resolution to attempt to stop it, and it's only gone... semi-ok. LOL;;
wow thats true for me right now..how weird that u just posted that when im feeling so much pain and denial...i hate it so much...and just when u think it cant get any worse it does......and now im like crying my freaking eyes out cause noone helps me or offers me help..they dont understand and it makes me feel all alone...sorry im like saying this but its like how i feel right now and it sucks..all of it i wanna get rid of this feeling forever
and we all love yuew tuew..
XxXKingdom_KiyomiXxX
XxXSnow_QueenXxX
Last edited by XKingdomxKiyomiX at 9:30:24 PM EST on February 16, 2010.
Yeah, it's true DX( Most situations I'm in I end up getting upset(sometimes to the point I start crying, or just want to leave, no matter how much I wish it wasn't happening), probably the only situation I didn't really get upset was when I confessed to a guy I had a crush on and got dumped(and I didn't realize he was taken at the time)
Baww, I love you, too, Sayura-chan~
KungPowChicken
Old Chicken Nugget (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/17/10 | Reply
I know I haven't been talking to you lately but I kinda went ahead and read your little rant and I have to say it's alright to be frustrated especially at weight issues. Every one deals with it and its just a part of life. But I think its okay for you to spurge just a little, I mean you said you lost 25 pounds! Thats a lot of weight right there, plus your ideal weight depends on your body type and height. Everybody has different bodies who's ideal weights differ. The whole point of being healthy is about feeling good about yourself. :D
And if you ask me 150 isn't all that bad. I mean I'm 150, and people tell me I look fine and healthy, but I suggest work out to feel better not to lose wight, cause that helps me get motivated :D
And don't forget, everybody is beautiful! We all have our own way o expressing it! :D
*hug*
Driffter
Absentminded One (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/17/10 | Reply
Awww, sweetie, I'm so sorry I haven't been on too much lately, otherwise I would have commented on your previous post. =(
Gosh, you must have been going through loads of crappyness. *::*huggles*::*
Everyone is allowed to rant sometimes! Plus, this is your world! You can write what you want on it! I'm really sorry I wasn't there for you to talk to.
Don't worry, we all love you! In fact it's a good thing you ranted like that; otherwise you would have had all that bottled up inside you with no where to go! And that could have been really bad. Talking or typing out your troubles is very good.
*::*huggles again*::*
Take care,
Drift
khismylife
Otaku Legend | Posted 02/17/10 | Reply
I missed saying this before becuase I was kinda tired and it was getting late so let me add to my comment.
I support you in loseing your weight but honey please do not starve yourself in any way. It reall dones't help anything. Just try to make more healthy choices, and there are more healthy things to eat then just salad. There are tons of websites, books, and even your doctor I'm sure can help you get on a heathly diet that doesn't include starving yourself.
And for the consistancy thing, thats hard for all of us. I heard that it actully takes about 20 days of makeing yourself do something before it becomes your ruinte. I know that sounds aweful hard but I know you can do it. I have actully been trying to lose a few pounds myself. I know that if you looked at me you would gasp and say I have nothing to lose I'm so skinny. But I have a bad habit of eating when I'm bored and being lazy, so I actully have gained some extra tummy fat. I'm trying to lose it but your right its hard to stay consistant. What I do though, when I actully do work out, is I just keep telling myself to keep going, and how proud I am of myself for doing this, and I think about the results I'll get if I keep it up and how happy that will make me. And make goals for yourself like if your jogging down the street say you'll keep going till you get to a certain house, and then when you reach theat house maybe push yourself to go a little bit furter. I find that really helps too.
I love when people post things like these because then I see how many people come here to comment and give support and it makes me really happy to see all the love being spread around. I hope that after reading all these comments that you feel much better Sayura. We are all here to help and support you, you should know that you are very loved. Keep smileing. <3
khismylife
Otaku Legend | Posted 02/17/10 | Reply
well I skimmed your last post nad I have to say Sayura you are a strong person.
I want you to be proud of the weight you have lost. I am very very proud of you for all that. Don't be so hard on yourself you are doing a great great job. I'll support you here, I'm here for you, if you want to lose the rest of this wieght then I believe you can. You can do this.
And rants are good by the way. They help us relieve stress and make us feel alot better. So this is all okay. We all do it.
Sayura I want you to know that you have so many people supporting you. You have your friends and family and you have us here too. We all care about you Sayura and we are here for you.
You really are a beautiful person Sayura. Don't convince yourself other wise. I'm glad you let this all out, and if you ever need to talk you can always talk to me, I'm here for you. ^^
Take care, ily <3
Suerte
Otakuite+ | Posted 02/16/10 | Reply
In your last post, when I read something about not having a diary and posting on here instead and asking people not to read, I knew there would be people that would read it and I expected there to be comments there. Why did that happen? Because people love you and support you, Sayura. This has little to do with anything, but just know that even if you beg people to do/not do something, it'll still happen (and that's not always a bad thing). If anything, even the slightest chance says that perhaps you actually did want somebody to hear you.
Again, my comments probably don't really help much, but please try to keep your energy positive. This does not mean to appear so on the inside, but to believe with your heart that everything will be okay and that nothing will backfire. Affirm it if you have to.
I see less and less of you, but I still think of you everyday. I don't want to give you any trouble in letting you know that I miss you and do dread it when you feel horrible. I don't know how to prevent it, as I do feel anger, frustration, depression and doubt sometimes. Well, quite too often. But stick with things, because it looks like that you have much more commitment than I do, believe it or not. Don't overwork yourself, though.
And no, you're not a hypocrite.
mewmewpudding
Otaku Eternal | Posted 02/16/10 | Reply
That tip... LMFAO
In no way can I apply it to myself.
I just kind of explode sometimes.
I try ways to vent, but it really doesn't work. I'm a loudmouth and stubborn, but can't hold a grudge for crap. : |
I argue too much with my mom. It was a New Year's resolution to attempt to stop it, and it's only gone... semi-ok. LOL;;
WELL ILU MOAR.
XKingdomxKiyomiX
Otaku Eternal | Posted 02/16/10 | Reply
wow thats true for me right now..how weird that u just posted that when im feeling so much pain and denial...i hate it so much...and just when u think it cant get any worse it does......and now im like crying my freaking eyes out cause noone helps me or offers me help..they dont understand and it makes me feel all alone...sorry im like saying this but its like how i feel right now and it sucks..all of it i wanna get rid of this feeling forever
and we all love yuew tuew..
XxXKingdom_KiyomiXxX
XxXSnow_QueenXxX
Last edited by XKingdomxKiyomiX at 9:30:24 PM EST on February 16, 2010.
icefoxchan
Otaku Eternal | Posted 02/16/10 | Reply
Yeah, it's true DX( Most situations I'm in I end up getting upset(sometimes to the point I start crying, or just want to leave, no matter how much I wish it wasn't happening), probably the only situation I didn't really get upset was when I confessed to a guy I had a crush on and got dumped(and I didn't realize he was taken at the time)
Baww, I love you, too, Sayura-chan~