Sorry to read about the hard news Sayu ,it's really a hard experience to see someone of your family pass away. Seems the timing was not good at all and couldn't write you yesterday even thou I really liked your post and have a great day reading my answered random questions. There is no rest for me this week and also have a pile of exams to deal with.
I sympathize with you, and even though I've had several deaths in the family before, I can't say that I empathize with you because you probably feel much different than I have ever felt, so I'm sorry. Good luck on your exams and I hope you take the death well. I don't know how your grandmother is doing but I'm sure she'll be okay with whatever she's going through after death.
Oh no... I'm so sorry to hear this. *hugs* I've lost all but one of my grandparents, I understand how much of a shock this must be. Grief does affect people differently. I remember when I was very young our cat died, and that hit me harder than when my granddad died at first, but I suppose it was easier to accept that the cat had passed on than it was for my granddad...
I'll keep you in my prayers hunny, just try your best, i'm sure whatever happens that your grandma will be proud of you. I hope your mum can get to the funeral, I missed my granny's funeral because I was studying at uni at the time... But I know that my granny would have preferred me to keep at my studies.
Is there any way you could get your exams postponed? Some places let you do that in certain circumstances. I hope you and your family find time to mourn and celebrate the life your grandmother had. I don't really know what to say. Take care sweetie *hugs tight*
Oh sweetheart *hugs tightly* I am so sorry to hear this. It's hard to know what to say. I've lost all but one of my grandparents and it never really get's easier. That sort of surreal feeling, though, don't worry about it. When you're ready to grieve, you will. When my Grandpa and Grandma (on my dad's side) passed, I was sort of numb to it too. Everyone deals with these things in their own ways and at their own times. I'm just sorry to hear how busy you are on top of all this *hugs again*
And, I just want to say that even though I didn't know her, I think that she will be proud of you no matter how you do on your exams, so please try not to stress yourself out with it. My prayers are with you and your family. I love you so much too, so don't *you* forget that!
Music Fairy (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/10 | Reply
Ahww, I know what you're going through right now... And all I can say is, I completely agree with what everyone else has said already I just want you to know that there's lots of people here and all around you who love you and understand you. Don't be ashamed of what you feel! I wish you the best of luck on your exams, too<3
*huggles tightly*
You're such a strong person, Sayura-chan. I know your Gramma would be so proud of you no matter what happens tomorrow.
I've never experienced this, so I can't say I know how you feel...but I'm right here for all the virtual huggles you could ask for <333333
I like to think of the positives when someone passes away...think how happy she is in heaven right now <3
NOT THE COMPANY ;D (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/05/10 | Reply
*hugs*
Im so sorry Sayura-chan...I really wish I was there for you and your family. :( Please tell your mother that I'm praying for you guys.
I've never experienced a death in the family...and even so, I can't say "I know how you feel" or something...sicne everyone takes these kind of things differently.
And don't be worried about not feeling sad. Denial is the first step in the 5 steps of grief. Who knows when that wave a sadness may hit you. but whenever it happens, you have people all around you that you can turn to. just know that we'll be here for you whenever you need us, helping and supporting you. When you find yourself crying your heart out, let us comfort you. Time will heal wounds, even though sadness in between the time of the even and the time of acceptance.
You don't always have to explain exactly what is bothering you, just remember that if you need any hugs or anyone to just listen or talk to, you have your friends to help you smile. :)
Please take care Sayura-chan.
*hugs*
PM me whenever you need me. :) I'll be praying for you.
The Queen of Sweet (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/05/10 | Reply
I’m so sorry to hear about that. I’ve lost my grandma on my mom’s side when I was about 12 and I took it really hard. The whole process thing was just really bad…
I know people deal with death differently. I think its normal for it to feel surreal at first. I know it doesn’t take long it to sink in for me. Even when I try to dumb down the feelings, it usually catches up to me. I know I always try to reach out for others in times like this rather then keep everything inside. As well as laugh a lot and try not to let the sadness go on for too long.
I’m just at a lost of words but I know how it feels. It sucks bad. Even though you got your exams coming up don’t feel bad if you are feeling sad. You’re human and it’s natural to feel sad when a family member passes away. If you got to cry and let it out don’t be afraid to do that too.
I really feel for you and your family. I hope you feel better about all this soon, especially your mom. My mom took it hard too even though I don’t remember her being too emotional though it all. (Huge huggles for your family) If you ever need to talk you know we all are here for you. <:)
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Holy Knight (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/10 | Reply
Sorry to read about the hard news Sayu ,it's really a hard experience to see someone of your family pass away. Seems the timing was not good at all and couldn't write you yesterday even thou I really liked your post and have a great day reading my answered random questions. There is no rest for me this week and also have a pile of exams to deal with.
Big hugs and hope things go better!
Angel
Suerte
Otakuite+ | Posted 05/06/10 | Reply
I sympathize with you, and even though I've had several deaths in the family before, I can't say that I empathize with you because you probably feel much different than I have ever felt, so I'm sorry. Good luck on your exams and I hope you take the death well. I don't know how your grandmother is doing but I'm sure she'll be okay with whatever she's going through after death.
Kaerlyn
Tea pixie (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/10 | Reply
Oh no... I'm so sorry to hear this. *hugs* I've lost all but one of my grandparents, I understand how much of a shock this must be. Grief does affect people differently. I remember when I was very young our cat died, and that hit me harder than when my granddad died at first, but I suppose it was easier to accept that the cat had passed on than it was for my granddad...
I'll keep you in my prayers hunny, just try your best, i'm sure whatever happens that your grandma will be proud of you. I hope your mum can get to the funeral, I missed my granny's funeral because I was studying at uni at the time... But I know that my granny would have preferred me to keep at my studies.
Is there any way you could get your exams postponed? Some places let you do that in certain circumstances. I hope you and your family find time to mourn and celebrate the life your grandmother had. I don't really know what to say. Take care sweetie *hugs tight*
Kittenlark
Otaku Legend | Posted 05/06/10 | Reply
Oh sweetheart *hugs tightly* I am so sorry to hear this. It's hard to know what to say. I've lost all but one of my grandparents and it never really get's easier. That sort of surreal feeling, though, don't worry about it. When you're ready to grieve, you will. When my Grandpa and Grandma (on my dad's side) passed, I was sort of numb to it too. Everyone deals with these things in their own ways and at their own times. I'm just sorry to hear how busy you are on top of all this *hugs again*
And, I just want to say that even though I didn't know her, I think that she will be proud of you no matter how you do on your exams, so please try not to stress yourself out with it. My prayers are with you and your family. I love you so much too, so don't *you* forget that!
Take care, sweetheart <3
~Have a great day!
SaxGirl
Music Fairy (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/06/10 | Reply
Ahww, I know what you're going through right now... And all I can say is, I completely agree with what everyone else has said already
I just want you to know that there's lots of people here and all around you who love you and understand you. Don't be ashamed of what you feel! I wish you the best of luck on your exams, too<3
Take care Sayura-chan!<3 *huggles you*
~S.G~
harvestmoonluvr
HARVEST GODDESS (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/05/10 | Reply
*huggles tightly*
You're such a strong person, Sayura-chan. I know your Gramma would be so proud of you no matter what happens tomorrow.
I've never experienced this, so I can't say I know how you feel...but I'm right here for all the virtual huggles you could ask for <333333
I like to think of the positives when someone passes away...think how happy she is in heaven right now <3
Love you, Sayura-chan <3
FUNimation
NOT THE COMPANY ;D (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/05/10 | Reply
*hugs*
Im so sorry Sayura-chan...I really wish I was there for you and your family. :( Please tell your mother that I'm praying for you guys.
I've never experienced a death in the family...and even so, I can't say "I know how you feel" or something...sicne everyone takes these kind of things differently.
And don't be worried about not feeling sad. Denial is the first step in the 5 steps of grief. Who knows when that wave a sadness may hit you. but whenever it happens, you have people all around you that you can turn to. just know that we'll be here for you whenever you need us, helping and supporting you. When you find yourself crying your heart out, let us comfort you. Time will heal wounds, even though sadness in between the time of the even and the time of acceptance.
You don't always have to explain exactly what is bothering you, just remember that if you need any hugs or anyone to just listen or talk to, you have your friends to help you smile. :)
Please take care Sayura-chan.
*hugs*
PM me whenever you need me. :) I'll be praying for you.
Yours Truly
The Queen of Sweet (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 05/05/10 | Reply
I’m so sorry to hear about that. I’ve lost my grandma on my mom’s side when I was about 12 and I took it really hard. The whole process thing was just really bad…
I know people deal with death differently. I think its normal for it to feel surreal at first. I know it doesn’t take long it to sink in for me. Even when I try to dumb down the feelings, it usually catches up to me. I know I always try to reach out for others in times like this rather then keep everything inside. As well as laugh a lot and try not to let the sadness go on for too long.
I’m just at a lost of words but I know how it feels. It sucks bad. Even though you got your exams coming up don’t feel bad if you are feeling sad. You’re human and it’s natural to feel sad when a family member passes away. If you got to cry and let it out don’t be afraid to do that too.
I really feel for you and your family. I hope you feel better about all this soon, especially your mom. My mom took it hard too even though I don’t remember her being too emotional though it all. (Huge huggles for your family) If you ever need to talk you know we all are here for you. <:)