Wow. You did what you had to do. At least now she'll think twice about pulling crap like that on you. But I agree with everyone. Avoid contact with her and definitely another confrontation with her. Staying within view of faculty and staff is a good idea. Take care.
I'm still sorry I hit her though. It bothers me since I don't like hurting other people even if they might deserve it. I'm not sure if that makes any sense though. ^^
Tveiter Tot (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/08/10 | Reply
Aw no, I'm so sorry Selene! *hugs*
I don't think there's really anything I can say that hasn't been said already. I just want to reiterate the ignoring thing, because I went through bullying two years ago and whenever I tried to say something back, he would just keep doing it. Once I was finally able to ignore him, he stopped after a while. So try to ignore this girl the best you can, even though I know it's really a hard thing to do. It really makes me mad that someone would do that to such a nice girl like you.
But, yeah. I hope your injures get better, and I really hope this girl leaves you alone. Bullying isn't fun, and it's not fair to you at all. *hugs*
The others already covered it pretty well. Just do your best to avoid her in the future and definitely avoid fighting back. That will just cause more trouble than it's worth.
A good way to do that is to try and stick near teachers or close to where the people serving the food are. That makes it harder for someone like that to pull anything.
I'm really sorry you had such a rotten day though. *hugs you again*
Madman With a Box (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/08/10 | Reply
I often say kids can be some of the cruelest people in the world. She's either just twisted or she's bullying to compensate for her own failings. Either way, it sucks when people like that choose to make other people suffer just for their own pathetic amusement. -3-
I fully understand your anger. If I could have struck back physically against the people who tortured me during my school days I would have. It's the ideal to take the high road and not let them get to you, but there's also only so much a person should be expected to take before they can retaliate. I'm glad you're not in too much trouble for punching her, and I hope she's hurting from your blow a lot more than you're hurting from the bump on your head.
I figured I'd come here to comment rather than raise a ruckus in the Chat.
Anyways, while I do applaud you for standing up for yourself and not taking anything from a bully, your approach towards handling your problem wasn't the best one. You are a very mature munchkin, and it'd be a shame to let that fly out the window because of a school bully. I'm sure you'll handle the situation with a more level head the next time it comes around (heaven forbid).
And next time, please please PLEASE don't punch her again. I can understand your frustration and wanting to clock her in the face, but if that becomes a habit, it's going to cause more problems than it will to solve them. Trust me.
I don't plan on it. I don't know why I did it either. I only know that I've never been that mad before. >_< I kind of acting without thinking and I wish I hadn't done that. And not because it hurt my hand but because it's wrong to hit other people.
Selene Shri
Grand Otaku | Posted 09/10/10 | Reply
@Knowmad:
I plan on avoiding her. ^^ And you take care too.
~Sarah
Selene Shri
Grand Otaku | Posted 09/10/10 | Reply
@MewMew:
*hugs back*
~Sarah
Knowmad
Scarecrow (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/10/10 | Reply
Wow. You did what you had to do. At least now she'll think twice about pulling crap like that on you. But I agree with everyone. Avoid contact with her and definitely another confrontation with her. Staying within view of faculty and staff is a good idea. Take care.
MewMew
Master of Kittehs (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/09/10 | Reply
DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD': *tackles* omg i swear i will fly over there and beat her up D8
Selene Shri
Grand Otaku | Posted 09/09/10 | Reply
@AnimeArchAngel:
*hugs back*
That's good to know that ignoring can work. I plan on doing that. ^^
~Sarah
Selene Shri
Grand Otaku | Posted 09/09/10 | Reply
@Miss Anonymous:
Thanks. *hugs*
~Sarah
Selene Shri
Grand Otaku | Posted 09/09/10 | Reply
@SunfallE:
*hugs back*
I was planning on staying near teachers and other people so they can't do stuff. I just hope it works. ^^
~Sarah
Selene Shri
Grand Otaku | Posted 09/09/10 | Reply
@TimeChaser:
I'm still sorry I hit her though. It bothers me since I don't like hurting other people even if they might deserve it. I'm not sure if that makes any sense though. ^^
~Sarah
Selene Shri
Grand Otaku | Posted 09/09/10 | Reply
@:
I just hope they don't bother me again. I'm not holding my breath though since usually bullies don't give up that easily.
~Sarah
AnimeArchAngel
Tveiter Tot (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/08/10 | Reply
Aw no, I'm so sorry Selene! *hugs*
I don't think there's really anything I can say that hasn't been said already. I just want to reiterate the ignoring thing, because I went through bullying two years ago and whenever I tried to say something back, he would just keep doing it. Once I was finally able to ignore him, he stopped after a while. So try to ignore this girl the best you can, even though I know it's really a hard thing to do. It really makes me mad that someone would do that to such a nice girl like you.
But, yeah. I hope your injures get better, and I really hope this girl leaves you alone. Bullying isn't fun, and it's not fair to you at all. *hugs*
Miss Anonymous
Vagrant AI (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/08/10 | Reply
Wow. Just wow.
I guess my advice would be to keep in mind what everyone else has already said. I hope you can avoid any such confrontations in the future. *pats*
SunfallE
Nyaa~ (ZE MEANIE) | Posted 09/08/10 | Reply
Good gosh Selene... *hugs*
The others already covered it pretty well. Just do your best to avoid her in the future and definitely avoid fighting back. That will just cause more trouble than it's worth.
A good way to do that is to try and stick near teachers or close to where the people serving the food are. That makes it harder for someone like that to pull anything.
I'm really sorry you had such a rotten day though. *hugs you again*
In the name of the tune I will punish you!
TimeChaser
Madman With a Box (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/08/10 | Reply
I often say kids can be some of the cruelest people in the world. She's either just twisted or she's bullying to compensate for her own failings. Either way, it sucks when people like that choose to make other people suffer just for their own pathetic amusement. -3-
I fully understand your anger. If I could have struck back physically against the people who tortured me during my school days I would have. It's the ideal to take the high road and not let them get to you, but there's also only so much a person should be expected to take before they can retaliate. I'm glad you're not in too much trouble for punching her, and I hope she's hurting from your blow a lot more than you're hurting from the bump on your head.
Bazinga!
Selene Shri
Grand Otaku | Posted 09/08/10 | Reply
@Korey:
I'm unhappy that I did that too. I've never done that before and I never want to do it again. >_<
~Sarah
Korey
Gambino (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 09/08/10 | Reply
I figured I'd come here to comment rather than raise a ruckus in the Chat.
Anyways, while I do applaud you for standing up for yourself and not taking anything from a bully, your approach towards handling your problem wasn't the best one. You are a very mature munchkin, and it'd be a shame to let that fly out the window because of a school bully. I'm sure you'll handle the situation with a more level head the next time it comes around (heaven forbid).
~Korey
Selene Shri
Grand Otaku | Posted 09/08/10 | Reply
@:
And next time, please please PLEASE don't punch her again. I can understand your frustration and wanting to clock her in the face, but if that becomes a habit, it's going to cause more problems than it will to solve them. Trust me.
I don't plan on it. I don't know why I did it either. I only know that I've never been that mad before. >_< I kind of acting without thinking and I wish I hadn't done that. And not because it hurt my hand but because it's wrong to hit other people.
~Sarah