I understand how you feel completely. I was brought up Catholic. No sex till marriage. However, I don't believe that if I have sex and am smart about it and use protection and all that that I am going to hell. There are a lot of things in my own religion I don't necessarily believe in (How can gay people be wrong?). Sometimes, you can make your own adaptions of your religion and still be right. I don't necessarily think there is one correct answer because there is so many different religions out there. How is one religion right but the rest are wrong?
But as for behind, if that's what you believe and you are going to wait, then yes, you will be behind. But, that isn't a bad thing. I didn't do it until I was 21 because I didn't feel that way towards any of my ex boyfriends. It takes someone special to make you really want to do those things sometimes.
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Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 01/26/13 | Reply
I understand how you feel completely. I was brought up Catholic. No sex till marriage. However, I don't believe that if I have sex and am smart about it and use protection and all that that I am going to hell. There are a lot of things in my own religion I don't necessarily believe in (How can gay people be wrong?). Sometimes, you can make your own adaptions of your religion and still be right. I don't necessarily think there is one correct answer because there is so many different religions out there. How is one religion right but the rest are wrong?
But as for behind, if that's what you believe and you are going to wait, then yes, you will be behind. But, that isn't a bad thing. I didn't do it until I was 21 because I didn't feel that way towards any of my ex boyfriends. It takes someone special to make you really want to do those things sometimes.