This is the first wedding I've ever been in, and the second I've ever been to. :3
As for the Joe comment, I completely understand what you're saying, and it's what all of my friends and family members have been saying. I see it, I really do, but I have such a hard time letting go. I really like this guy. And it's probably because he's my first love and whatever, but he shows his affections through other means. I know he cares about me. I mean, I'm the first woman he's pursued a relationship with in almost two years. And I just can't leave him because of the depression. I feel like I'd be abandoning him in a time where he needs all the support he can get. Also, I don't want to be like everyone else who's just up and left him when he got a little hard to handle. I want to be special to him in that way. I don't want to be like all the rest.
Glad everything's going well! :3
Wow, it sounds like a pretty eventful weekend. XD I’ve actually never been invited to a wedding, probably only to sing (as I sing in a cathedral choir), but that’s about it. *underprivileged child XD*
Probably the reason why I wanted to comment here is your situation with Joe. It seems like you’re trying really hard to make things work, but he doesn’t seem to be doing half as much. You said that he doesn’t ask about your life. Sorry, but if you’re in a relationship, how do you NOT ask about your significant other? Just even saying ‘how was your day’ once and a while wouldn’t hurt too much! And I apologize if I’m criticizing, I don’t want to judge, but this situation doesn’t seem fair to YOU. Also, who breaks up via text? That’s really immature and insensitive…D: What if something similar like that happens again, is he just going to keep blaming this all on his depression and such? The question probably is: how much are you willing to go for this guy and why? Maybe he’ll change, and I hope he does, but whatever happens, I hope it’s in the best interest for you, because stressful relationships are real energy consumers!
Nonetheless I'm doing well~ Thanks for asking! Just me and school and textbooks. No romance yet (thank goodness XD), I don't think I could handle both!
Take cares~~
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 11/10/12 | Reply
@ItachiSasuke:
This is the first wedding I've ever been in, and the second I've ever been to. :3
As for the Joe comment, I completely understand what you're saying, and it's what all of my friends and family members have been saying. I see it, I really do, but I have such a hard time letting go. I really like this guy. And it's probably because he's my first love and whatever, but he shows his affections through other means. I know he cares about me. I mean, I'm the first woman he's pursued a relationship with in almost two years. And I just can't leave him because of the depression. I feel like I'd be abandoning him in a time where he needs all the support he can get. Also, I don't want to be like everyone else who's just up and left him when he got a little hard to handle. I want to be special to him in that way. I don't want to be like all the rest.
Glad everything's going well! :3
ItachiSasuke
Administrator | Posted 11/10/12 | Reply
Wow, it sounds like a pretty eventful weekend. XD I’ve actually never been invited to a wedding, probably only to sing (as I sing in a cathedral choir), but that’s about it. *underprivileged child XD*
Probably the reason why I wanted to comment here is your situation with Joe. It seems like you’re trying really hard to make things work, but he doesn’t seem to be doing half as much. You said that he doesn’t ask about your life. Sorry, but if you’re in a relationship, how do you NOT ask about your significant other? Just even saying ‘how was your day’ once and a while wouldn’t hurt too much! And I apologize if I’m criticizing, I don’t want to judge, but this situation doesn’t seem fair to YOU. Also, who breaks up via text? That’s really immature and insensitive…D: What if something similar like that happens again, is he just going to keep blaming this all on his depression and such? The question probably is: how much are you willing to go for this guy and why? Maybe he’ll change, and I hope he does, but whatever happens, I hope it’s in the best interest for you, because stressful relationships are real energy consumers!
Nonetheless I'm doing well~ Thanks for asking! Just me and school and textbooks. No romance yet (thank goodness XD), I don't think I could handle both!
Take cares~~
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