You're right..You desurves an explination..Good luck my friend^^ I'm done preaching..Follow your heart its never wrong..Good luck and you're in my thoughts I know how you feel believe it
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
I'm not even going to give him a month of space. If he needs that long to figure out whether he wants to be with me, I don't want to be here. A week is as long as I will go with no contact. He's 30 years old, and he should be getting to the point of knowing what he wants, and if I'm not it, I want to know. But, I can't put my whole life on hold waiting for an answer.
I understand..well give him 2 no 3 months sould be more then enough space if he doesn't contacted you or come back to make things right when Its better to break up..It better to rather break up then to be in a relationship that's not really going anywhere..Rather be in a week's pain and sorrow then in a relationship build on confusion and all the what ifs...It hurts more that way my friend..I know it's easy for me to say becuase I'm not in your shoes but remember good advice is only good if you take it..You cn choose to take it or you can choose not to..At the end it is your decision and yours alone
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
I do give him him space. But, he always ends up saying how he never wants to be around people and that he's better off alone. I wait for him to contact me because I don't want to push. I'm always there for him when he needs me, but he's not always there when I need him.
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/10/13 | Reply
We all gets confused sometime in our lives my friend but sometimes we just have to face our demons and cope with it..In a relationship times like this is where 2 people should usually stand together no matter what and not give up so easily...Sounds like he have some problems in his life but we can't always deal with it alone he needs you now more then ever but maybe he knows it but are to afraid to admitt it..Men can sometimes be hard headed and very stubborn
A little space is sometimes a good thing and sometimes it's not..What do they say..? "Absence makes the heart grows fonder"..If you and Joe are really meant to be togther my friend everything will work out..And no man is worth your tears even know it's hard to except but it's true..I've had my heart broken more times then I can count and usually with someone i know i can never have and it really hurts like a knive through the heart..Even If Joe does break up with you remember my friend it does gets better but you never forgets your true love but it sure as hell gets better...There are plenty of guys out there that is dying to be your boyfriend but i also know that at this point you will probably and most likely say you don't want anyone els...Give him some space becuase Love is also about sacrifices If you comes back to you, you'll now he truely loves you..if not well lets hope it's the positive way and not the other way around,for your case
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
If he wants to continue like it is he will have to, how they say, man-up, gather his strength and accept his fate.
If he can't do that, then the relationship might be just something that is stressing him some more.
I know that it is not easy for him as it is not for you.. Sometimes you just want to escape, but you can't always escape things. Sometimes you have to turn around and face them.
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/10/13 | Reply
@LGA775:
Thank you. Appreciate it!
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/10/13 | Reply
@DemonsandAngels:
You're right..You desurves an explination..Good luck my friend^^ I'm done preaching..Follow your heart its never wrong..Good luck and you're in my thoughts I know how you feel believe it
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/10/13 | Reply
@LGA775:
I'm not even going to give him a month of space. If he needs that long to figure out whether he wants to be with me, I don't want to be here. A week is as long as I will go with no contact. He's 30 years old, and he should be getting to the point of knowing what he wants, and if I'm not it, I want to know. But, I can't put my whole life on hold waiting for an answer.
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/10/13 | Reply
@DemonsandAngels:
I understand..well give him 2 no 3 months sould be more then enough space if he doesn't contacted you or come back to make things right when Its better to break up..It better to rather break up then to be in a relationship that's not really going anywhere..Rather be in a week's pain and sorrow then in a relationship build on confusion and all the what ifs...It hurts more that way my friend..I know it's easy for me to say becuase I'm not in your shoes but remember good advice is only good if you take it..You cn choose to take it or you can choose not to..At the end it is your decision and yours alone
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/10/13 | Reply
@LGA775:
I do give him him space. But, he always ends up saying how he never wants to be around people and that he's better off alone. I wait for him to contact me because I don't want to push. I'm always there for him when he needs me, but he's not always there when I need him.
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/10/13 | Reply
We all gets confused sometime in our lives my friend but sometimes we just have to face our demons and cope with it..In a relationship times like this is where 2 people should usually stand together no matter what and not give up so easily...Sounds like he have some problems in his life but we can't always deal with it alone he needs you now more then ever but maybe he knows it but are to afraid to admitt it..Men can sometimes be hard headed and very stubborn
A little space is sometimes a good thing and sometimes it's not..What do they say..? "Absence makes the heart grows fonder"..If you and Joe are really meant to be togther my friend everything will work out..And no man is worth your tears even know it's hard to except but it's true..I've had my heart broken more times then I can count and usually with someone i know i can never have and it really hurts like a knive through the heart..Even If Joe does break up with you remember my friend it does gets better but you never forgets your true love but it sure as hell gets better...There are plenty of guys out there that is dying to be your boyfriend but i also know that at this point you will probably and most likely say you don't want anyone els...Give him some space becuase Love is also about sacrifices If you comes back to you, you'll now he truely loves you..if not well lets hope it's the positive way and not the other way around,for your case
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/10/13 | Reply
@LightFykki:
The only thing left for me to do to face this is to break up with him myself. Everything else is on him and what he thinks he can do.
LightFykki
Drachen Herz (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 04/10/13 | Reply
If he wants to continue like it is he will have to, how they say, man-up, gather his strength and accept his fate.
If he can't do that, then the relationship might be just something that is stressing him some more.
I know that it is not easy for him as it is not for you.. Sometimes you just want to escape, but you can't always escape things. Sometimes you have to turn around and face them.