@DemonsandAngels:

That works too. Everyone has a method.

@Kazamas-Keyblade:

I just stop thinking about it.

@DemonsandAngels:

Yeah, but I take matters like that seriously.
It's the things that you hold that break your hands.

@Kazamas-Keyblade:

There was something that happened to me when I was little that was very traumatizing that I repressed, but I didn't remember it until I was like 21.
But, this wasn't so bad.

@DemonsandAngels:

Well for me, it depends on what exactly it is.
Some things I just laugh at and go "I did this thing one time and this happened."

@Kazamas-Keyblade:

I have done that, and I don't like it. I prefer to remember. No matter how painful.

@DemonsandAngels:

Repression.
Usually whenever something terrible happens I can't think about anything else. So to cope with that I twist what my mind is constantly reeling about to ease the stress.

@Kazamas-Keyblade:

Try explaining it?

@DemonsandAngels:

Maybe it was just a type-o, my laptop keyboard is driving me crazy.

@Kazamas-Keyblade:

Not sure what you meant that last comment?

@DemonsandAngels:

Whatever to take from mistakes.
That's what my dad always told me.

@Kazamas-Keyblade:

I don't really want to do that. I need to learn from this.

@DemonsandAngels:

(Trying to explain it)
It's like repressing a bad memory...Warping the perception to ease the trauma.

@DuArMittAllt:

Ya. I won't if it happens again. Though, not sure I'd allow there to be a next time.

@Sarasface:

That's a good idea.

@Kazamas-Keyblade:

Change the perspective?

@DemonsandAngels:

This just occurred to me, too. If you want to continue to have a relationship with him, ask him exactly what he wants to do beforehand and then tell him what you're willing to do. That way he can't claim miscommunication or any other excuse.

@DemonsandAngels:

*If this seems crazy let me know*
If trauma is a problem try to change the perspective.
Otherwise....

@Kazamas-Keyblade:

Ya, it was.

@:

Thank you, and I do plan on talking to him. We'll see how that goes.

@cheriblosomchibi:

Yes, I consider myself very lucky indeed.

@Soulanime14:

I definitely will.

@Sarasface:

You're right. I should have done that from the get go.

That sounds totally f'd up.

(I know that I never comment on your posts, but I always read them, and I got worried.)

Like the others below me, I also believe that it wasn't acceptable of him to do that. But I'm really glad that you're going to talk to him about it. You're a woman, not a sexdoll. You have feelings, which should always be respected no matter what. I'm really glad that you're okay, though and not seriously hurt because of what he did.

@DemonsandAngels:

Exactly and you should make sure and talk to him about it.

@DemonsandAngels:

Good. I'm glad that you have enough respect for yourself to do what's right. And this next part is entirely your decision, but I think if he ever tries to do that again you should just get up and walk out.

@Sarasface:

My friend told me I need to talk to him. And I will. This was not okay to me. I am lucky he didn't hurt me.

@Soulanime14:

That's what my friend made me realize. And no, it was not okay. At all. He was the only one enjoying himself.

In my opinion that is not okay, if I were you I'd have a serious talk with him about that. If he thinks what he did is okay/excusable, that says something about the kind of person he is.

I think he went too far especially if you told him to stop. If you told him not to then he should have respected that and stopped but that's my opinion.

@DemonsandAngels:

I know you did... but I didn't think it would be like that.

@elricbrothersfan:

I gave a warning in the beginning. But, I'll go back and add them.

But ya. I don't know what to do about it.

Methinks spoiler tags might've been a good idea...

But yes, your friend's right. That was waay wrong of him to do (not to mention the ewww factor, but maybe that's just the fifteen-year-old me talking), and he had no right. Absolutely NO right.