I'm sorry you're lonely. I may not be alone anymore...but I do remember the feeling. I know how much it sucked. I do think you getting your feelings sorted first is best...and then maybe you can look for someone else? I do hope you find someone. I am clingy too so don't feel bad. I hope you find a clingy guy to shower you with love.
I know you aren't trying to push advice on me. I thank you for giving your input and thoughts on the topic. I need to hear other people's perspectives other than my own.
I know I don't need a man to be happy, which is why I know I'll be okay. But I have been alone most all of my life. Joe was my first serious relationship. And even though we've been together for almost 3 years, 2 of those years was me being very much alone in that relationship. I know how to be alone. And I know that's not what I want, which is why I probably cling to others so easily. I don't want to be left alone. I'm tired of it.
I do need to get my feelings figured out, though. And I'll get back to a place where I can look at something and not think of Joe or see him in everything I do. It'll just take awhile.
Except it's only one guy interested in me since the other one decided he wasn't interested anymore. And the one that is interested isn't good for me and I need to move on. But yes, very hectic.
I wouldn't give the other guy a second chance. You are right and he will just revert back to how he was. Which is not good for you. However you shouldn't wait for this other guy cause that is not good for you either. Maybe you should take some time to be alone. You need to sort yourself out. You don't need a guy to be happy...and there is nothing wrong with you. I just feel maybe you haven't found the right one yet? I definitely feel you need to find yourself before you look for your other half. Or else you won't know what to look for.
Also I am not trying to be mean...or push advice on you. I am trying to put myself ib your position. And this is honestly what I would do.
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/02/15 | Reply
@LGA775:
It is complicated. And thanks.
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/02/15 | Reply
@DemonsandAngels:
Sounds complicated lol well strongs my friend I wish you all the best....
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/02/15 | Reply
@Eiri Yuki s Lover:
Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate it.
Eiri Yuki s Lover
YukiFangirlSupreme (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/01/15 | Reply
@DemonsandAngels:
I'm sorry you're lonely. I may not be alone anymore...but I do remember the feeling. I know how much it sucked. I do think you getting your feelings sorted first is best...and then maybe you can look for someone else? I do hope you find someone. I am clingy too so don't feel bad. I hope you find a clingy guy to shower you with love.
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/01/15 | Reply
@clueless101:
They are all so adorable!!
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/01/15 | Reply
@Eiri Yuki s Lover:
I know you aren't trying to push advice on me. I thank you for giving your input and thoughts on the topic. I need to hear other people's perspectives other than my own.
I know I don't need a man to be happy, which is why I know I'll be okay. But I have been alone most all of my life. Joe was my first serious relationship. And even though we've been together for almost 3 years, 2 of those years was me being very much alone in that relationship. I know how to be alone. And I know that's not what I want, which is why I probably cling to others so easily. I don't want to be left alone. I'm tired of it.
I do need to get my feelings figured out, though. And I'll get back to a place where I can look at something and not think of Joe or see him in everything I do. It'll just take awhile.
DemonsandAngels
Beautiful Disaster (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/01/15 | Reply
@LGA775:
Except it's only one guy interested in me since the other one decided he wasn't interested anymore. And the one that is interested isn't good for me and I need to move on. But yes, very hectic.
clueless101
Keyblade Master (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/01/15 | Reply
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If you want to be happy, be. ~Leo Tolstoy
Eiri Yuki s Lover
YukiFangirlSupreme (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/01/15 | Reply
I wouldn't give the other guy a second chance. You are right and he will just revert back to how he was. Which is not good for you. However you shouldn't wait for this other guy cause that is not good for you either. Maybe you should take some time to be alone. You need to sort yourself out. You don't need a guy to be happy...and there is nothing wrong with you. I just feel maybe you haven't found the right one yet? I definitely feel you need to find yourself before you look for your other half. Or else you won't know what to look for.
Also I am not trying to be mean...or push advice on you. I am trying to put myself ib your position. And this is honestly what I would do.
LGA775
Traditional Artist (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 02/01/15 | Reply
Wow good luck with everything my friend that sounds hectic...Two guys interested in you...Tough place to be in...
Good things comes 2 those who wait, The things you lost will always replace something better..