Seriously? :/ Man... it's gotten this out of hand? People need to mind their damn business >[ But I love you <3 and you need to AIM me like... every day. :D
I think I shall be a bit frank here. Unless you really are doing something wildly inappropriate, that kind of thing is just gossip and rather petty to boot. Plus, even if she was your girlfriend the only time it might be acceptable is if you were doing something that could really hurt her. Otherwise it's just pointless gossip and not very polite.
I also think that kind of tattling is rather immature. If someone is trying to have a relationship it doesn't help if people jump in and try to be a part of it. The idea is for the two people involved to get to know one another, not to rely on gossip from their friends.
If they can't trust you to tell them what's going on then what does that say about the relationship if there is one? It says it's going nowhere and that you don't even trust the person you're with.
Anyway since I know there are a lot of younger members on the site, yes I am going to go there, I'm going to pin some of this down on the immaturity of youth and hope they grow out if it.
That kind of behavior is pretty harmful and will do nothing but get in the way of any true lasting relationships once they get older. I just hope they see that once they mature a bit.
As for staying out of chat, if you need a break take one, and if you need to ignore certain people when you do, by all means feel free to do so. I certainly don't expect everyone to get along after all.
Felix the Cat
Senior Otaku+ | Posted 01/22/11 | Reply
@Ducky:
Well what can I say, then it would have gone on forever.
Ducky
Imaginary Duck (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 01/20/11 | Reply
You are handling this better than I would. I probably would've started acting inappropriately on purpose just to give 'em something to gossip about...
Gossip hurts, kids. Don't do it.
Puppet Mistress
Mistress (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 01/20/11 | Reply
@Felix the Cat:
I'll try sweetums~
Felix the Cat
Senior Otaku+ | Posted 01/20/11 | Reply
@Puppet Mistress:
Well you'll just have to get on more, then~
Puppet Mistress
Mistress (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 01/20/11 | Reply
Seriously? :/ Man... it's gotten this out of hand? People need to mind their damn business >[ But I love you <3 and you need to AIM me like... every day. :D
xoxo Alex~
Felix the Cat
Senior Otaku+ | Posted 01/20/11 | Reply
@Miracle Star19:
Some stuff happened, you'll probably find it out soon :)
SunfallE
Nyaa~ (ZE MEANIE) | Posted 01/20/11 | Reply
I think I shall be a bit frank here. Unless you really are doing something wildly inappropriate, that kind of thing is just gossip and rather petty to boot. Plus, even if she was your girlfriend the only time it might be acceptable is if you were doing something that could really hurt her. Otherwise it's just pointless gossip and not very polite.
I also think that kind of tattling is rather immature. If someone is trying to have a relationship it doesn't help if people jump in and try to be a part of it. The idea is for the two people involved to get to know one another, not to rely on gossip from their friends.
If they can't trust you to tell them what's going on then what does that say about the relationship if there is one? It says it's going nowhere and that you don't even trust the person you're with.
Anyway since I know there are a lot of younger members on the site, yes I am going to go there, I'm going to pin some of this down on the immaturity of youth and hope they grow out if it.
That kind of behavior is pretty harmful and will do nothing but get in the way of any true lasting relationships once they get older. I just hope they see that once they mature a bit.
As for staying out of chat, if you need a break take one, and if you need to ignore certain people when you do, by all means feel free to do so. I certainly don't expect everyone to get along after all.
Anyway, enjoy your break. :p
In the name of the tune I will punish you!
Miracle Star19
Otaku Eternal | Posted 01/20/11 | Reply
o.O woah what huh? What happen? ._.?