WAHHHH okay I suggest you get popcorn and snacks because it’s like a lousy shop opera.
I know right?! Luckily the last few days have been cooler so it’s not deathly hot. Its going to be back up in the 90’s for as long as I know again so I’ll be a pest and torture my dad to get me one. I’ve been bumming off my sister’s for years and it’s not the same. ;_;
She’s isn’t sick like not eating or anything but she had the nose bleeds. I took her to the vet and she came out fine thank god. It could have been the heat because the last time she had a nose bleed it was warm then too. I put her up in my room so she can be cool and not in the humidly. She’s so cute and well behaved its nice to have a room mate but I’m concerned about the smell of a dirty cage XD.
Its okay, I haven’t been up to commenting at all till now. XD Thank you summer life. >:O
FFFF okay. It’s so cute and wonderfully colored. I just wish my damn gift bags would come in already so I can send you minds. >:T
Gah, it's just too hot everywhere to not have AC. I hope you guys can get it hooked up and everything.
;A;! Poor Caramel! She's not terribly sick is she?
;~; Sorry i haven't been commenting much. And that this one is so short... OTL
And don't worry about the ATC. XD You focus on other more important stuff right now mkay? :>
Yeah we are supposed to get rain and storms on Saturday but its going to be in the 90’s after that still. So I really need to drill this AC thing to my grave because this summer is too hot not to have one. Then the nose bleed caramel had today I’m totally feed up with it all.
Aww that’s nice to know *hugs*. It’s good to have people you can go to when problems arise. It’s hard keeping everything inside. Yeah I know how you feel about that as you can see haha! Yeah, he’s a great boost of energy for me.
Yeah, a lot of this has been building on to itself the last few months then about a week ago it blew up into all this. All of this has so many layers to it that it would take pages to explain it all.
Wow, that’s pretty bad. I’m glad that you and your mom found a great house to live in! :3
A lot needs to be worked on in the house. Slowly things have been getting bad like the basement. The walls are crumbling, water leaks and mold grows down there. We have a cat and he stays down there so I’m very concerned about him too. The shower leaked to the point the ceiling of the living room gave in a bit and there was water raining down. That started last year when I was working. It took over six months just to get that fixed.
My dad recently retired and my mom is working. Before that it would be just me, my older sister, and my mom and it would be a struggle to do anything because of money. Now that is not such an issue anymore it seems like things are even harder. I just don’t know what it is.
Yeah me and my sister started cleaning up before and my mom was so stubborn to that at first. The last time we was cleaning up the dinning room, my mom was drinking and we had a hard time dealing with her. Lately we wanted to clean up the basement but we needed gloves because there is years worth of stuff down there. A few nights ago I was talking to my dad about the whole family needs to come together so maybe we could get the ball rolling on some issues. My dad agreed with me on a lot of things so I was glad about that. When I told my mom that the family needs to talk all she did was moan and groan. So the “family” discussion was a complete fail. It’s so hard just to get the family together to talk about important issues without an argument breaking between my parents. Them two together is like water and oil. One always thinks that the other is wrong and I’m sick of the finger pointing. It’s just always an uphill battle for anything to work.
I’m not sure what’s going on with caramel. She doesn’t act sick like not eating or anything so I’m not sure what to think. She sneezed blood before and I took her to the ER in the downtown area where she checked out fine. I was suppose to take her to another appointment for tests but the vet is SO expensive plus I heard rodents discharge bloody looking deposits some times. My sister opened the middle door between our rooms so I can get caramel out of the heat and humidity. Last time I looked at her see was having a little nap. :)
Yeah he’s a great friend. He told me the same things you did. I’m glad we close enough that we are able to vent to each other. I usually don’t question my faith in friends either. It seems like everything has been going out of whack so I have been hesitant with everything I think and do.
Its okay and that’s really sweet of you to say! I’m glad that I have such awesome friends like you. I’ve been doing my best with trying to stay positive through all this. Thanks again for everything!
I know...the heat is just terrible. My goodness, I really hope it cools off soon. I don't know if it will!! ;__; We're supposed to get a storm this saturday, so maybe that will cool things off for us? I sure hope so. Especially for you. *hugs*
Friends do wonders. You guys are MY friends I go to. I don't really like talking about my problems to IRL friends. ^^; I'm glad that Brandon really helped you out.
Yes thank God for friends indeed. You always have friends here for you Truly and I hope you remember that. :) So feel free to rant whenever you want to^^ We're here to support you. ^_^ Please do not ever feel like your a burden either or any of that other nonsense. You're a dear friend of mine and others on here too, and we want to know what goes on in your life. After all, what are friends for? *hugs*
Hm I read your last post to get a better idea of what is going on. I'm sorry about your housing conditions right now Truly. I know exactly how you feel though. Before my Mom and I moved, we lived in a pretty cruddy house, although it held a ton of good memories. Anyway, the house was in a terrible condition. The carpets were all torn up and stained, smelled of pee from all the animals, our shower tiles were falling off, nothing seemed to work, etc. I remember how we sort of worried each day, afraid that something else would stop working. And sadly my Mom is s single parent so we couldn't afford much. So I know your feelings Truly and it does suck. When you live in a house you don't feel comfortable or happy living in, it does make you feel depressed. Absolutely. My Mom and I had to move into the townhouse we live in now, about 6 years ago, because we just couldn't keep up with the house anymore nor pay the bills. Thankfully everything is a lot better now and I love living hear. Sure it's smaller and such, but it's much more positive. I'm guessing your Father works? Does your Mother?
How about you and your sister take a few hours out of the week to clean some stuff out, even try to get your Mom involved too. You could even have a garage sale to sell some of the stuff or give it to Good Will. You could move stuff out of the basement and have that as your work area perhaps. Just try doing little stuff at a time to try and make the house better. Rearrange stuff, get rid of things, perhaps paint a room, plant some flowers, etc. I know there has to be some little things you could do, right? I know in this heat though it's not fun doing things like that, I know I don't feel like cleaning out my computer....which looks horrible^^;; Just try and come up with some ideas that you think can make the house more positive Truly and try to achieve some of those things. ^_^
As for your Mother and Father, they really do have a pessimistic attitude and I am very sorry for that my friend. When you live with people like that it's never any fun. Have you tried and sitting down and talking with your Mom about some things, like having a heart to heart chat? She needs to realize that she has two great daughters there for her. And as for your Father breaking promises, yeah, that's my Dad too. I wish I knew how to change those things too Truly, but I just don't know. I'm sorry. Maybe someday soon he will get some sense in head. As well as your Mom having a more positive attitude about things.
And your guinea pig too being sick? My God girl, you have been going through some hard times huh? *huge hugs* You know you can always message me if you want to talk more about things, I don't want you feeling too sad. Can you try putting your guinea pig close to the AC? I hope she starts to feel better though soon, I'm sure she will. She already sounds like she might be getting better. And mentioning the AC, your Mom does need to turn hers on because that isn't fair in this kind of heat. The heat is not good for anyone. Ugh how does anyone like this kind of weather?
I'm glad your friend Brandon was there to help you out Truly. But don't feel down or guilty that you told him your problems, I'm sure he was thankful for you to tell him all those things. Friends want to help each other out and be there for one another. So it's alright. Now since you shared all that with him, he knows he can share stuff with you too. So do not ever be afraid or ashamed to tell a friend how you feel, okay?
I'm sorry again for everything Truly and I wish I could make a wish come true happen for you. I wish I could come and give you a bunch of money and brand new, beautiful house. And a cute building to create your crafts in and have your own cute store. I honestly do wish I could help you with all of that. I will always keep you in my thoughts though, okay? I'm here for you. Things will get better for you, I'm sure of it. So you keep your head held high sweetie and keep doing your best. You're a great and beautiful person. ^_^
Yours Truly
The Queen of Sweet (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/12/10 | Reply
@Kirobug:
WAHHHH okay I suggest you get popcorn and snacks because it’s like a lousy shop opera.
I know right?! Luckily the last few days have been cooler so it’s not deathly hot. Its going to be back up in the 90’s for as long as I know again so I’ll be a pest and torture my dad to get me one. I’ve been bumming off my sister’s for years and it’s not the same. ;_;
She’s isn’t sick like not eating or anything but she had the nose bleeds. I took her to the vet and she came out fine thank god. It could have been the heat because the last time she had a nose bleed it was warm then too. I put her up in my room so she can be cool and not in the humidly. She’s so cute and well behaved its nice to have a room mate but I’m concerned about the smell of a dirty cage XD.
Its okay, I haven’t been up to commenting at all till now. XD Thank you summer life. >:O
FFFF okay. It’s so cute and wonderfully colored. I just wish my damn gift bags would come in already so I can send you minds. >:T
Kirobug
SuperBum (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/09/10 | Reply
;3; You can rant to me anytime bby~ <3
Gah, it's just too hot everywhere to not have AC. I hope you guys can get it hooked up and everything.
;A;! Poor Caramel! She's not terribly sick is she?
;~; Sorry i haven't been commenting much. And that this one is so short... OTL
And don't worry about the ATC. XD You focus on other more important stuff right now mkay? :>
Yours Truly
The Queen of Sweet (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/08/10 | Reply
@Angel Zakuro:
Its okay :3
Yeah we are supposed to get rain and storms on Saturday but its going to be in the 90’s after that still. So I really need to drill this AC thing to my grave because this summer is too hot not to have one. Then the nose bleed caramel had today I’m totally feed up with it all.
Aww that’s nice to know *hugs*. It’s good to have people you can go to when problems arise. It’s hard keeping everything inside. Yeah I know how you feel about that as you can see haha! Yeah, he’s a great boost of energy for me.
Thanks again!
Yours Truly
The Queen of Sweet (Otaku Eternal) | Posted 07/08/10 | Reply
@innocent heart:
Thanks for the comment it really means a lot.
Yeah, a lot of this has been building on to itself the last few months then about a week ago it blew up into all this. All of this has so many layers to it that it would take pages to explain it all.
Wow, that’s pretty bad. I’m glad that you and your mom found a great house to live in! :3
A lot needs to be worked on in the house. Slowly things have been getting bad like the basement. The walls are crumbling, water leaks and mold grows down there. We have a cat and he stays down there so I’m very concerned about him too. The shower leaked to the point the ceiling of the living room gave in a bit and there was water raining down. That started last year when I was working. It took over six months just to get that fixed.
My dad recently retired and my mom is working. Before that it would be just me, my older sister, and my mom and it would be a struggle to do anything because of money. Now that is not such an issue anymore it seems like things are even harder. I just don’t know what it is.
Yeah me and my sister started cleaning up before and my mom was so stubborn to that at first. The last time we was cleaning up the dinning room, my mom was drinking and we had a hard time dealing with her. Lately we wanted to clean up the basement but we needed gloves because there is years worth of stuff down there. A few nights ago I was talking to my dad about the whole family needs to come together so maybe we could get the ball rolling on some issues. My dad agreed with me on a lot of things so I was glad about that. When I told my mom that the family needs to talk all she did was moan and groan. So the “family” discussion was a complete fail. It’s so hard just to get the family together to talk about important issues without an argument breaking between my parents. Them two together is like water and oil. One always thinks that the other is wrong and I’m sick of the finger pointing. It’s just always an uphill battle for anything to work.
I’m not sure what’s going on with caramel. She doesn’t act sick like not eating or anything so I’m not sure what to think. She sneezed blood before and I took her to the ER in the downtown area where she checked out fine. I was suppose to take her to another appointment for tests but the vet is SO expensive plus I heard rodents discharge bloody looking deposits some times. My sister opened the middle door between our rooms so I can get caramel out of the heat and humidity. Last time I looked at her see was having a little nap. :)
Yeah he’s a great friend. He told me the same things you did. I’m glad we close enough that we are able to vent to each other. I usually don’t question my faith in friends either. It seems like everything has been going out of whack so I have been hesitant with everything I think and do.
Its okay and that’s really sweet of you to say! I’m glad that I have such awesome friends like you. I’ve been doing my best with trying to stay positive through all this. Thanks again for everything!
Angel Zakuro
bird nerd. (Otaku Angel) | Posted 07/08/10 | Reply
*hugs* Short comment right now, sorry. :(
I know...the heat is just terrible. My goodness, I really hope it cools off soon. I don't know if it will!! ;__; We're supposed to get a storm this saturday, so maybe that will cool things off for us? I sure hope so. Especially for you. *hugs*
Friends do wonders. You guys are MY friends I go to. I don't really like talking about my problems to IRL friends. ^^; I'm glad that Brandon really helped you out.
Take care!!
innocent heart
Otaku Eternal | Posted 07/08/10 | Reply
Hello there Truly-chan^^ *hugs*
Yes thank God for friends indeed. You always have friends here for you Truly and I hope you remember that. :) So feel free to rant whenever you want to^^ We're here to support you. ^_^ Please do not ever feel like your a burden either or any of that other nonsense. You're a dear friend of mine and others on here too, and we want to know what goes on in your life. After all, what are friends for? *hugs*
Hm I read your last post to get a better idea of what is going on. I'm sorry about your housing conditions right now Truly. I know exactly how you feel though. Before my Mom and I moved, we lived in a pretty cruddy house, although it held a ton of good memories. Anyway, the house was in a terrible condition. The carpets were all torn up and stained, smelled of pee from all the animals, our shower tiles were falling off, nothing seemed to work, etc. I remember how we sort of worried each day, afraid that something else would stop working. And sadly my Mom is s single parent so we couldn't afford much. So I know your feelings Truly and it does suck. When you live in a house you don't feel comfortable or happy living in, it does make you feel depressed. Absolutely. My Mom and I had to move into the townhouse we live in now, about 6 years ago, because we just couldn't keep up with the house anymore nor pay the bills. Thankfully everything is a lot better now and I love living hear. Sure it's smaller and such, but it's much more positive. I'm guessing your Father works? Does your Mother?
How about you and your sister take a few hours out of the week to clean some stuff out, even try to get your Mom involved too. You could even have a garage sale to sell some of the stuff or give it to Good Will. You could move stuff out of the basement and have that as your work area perhaps. Just try doing little stuff at a time to try and make the house better. Rearrange stuff, get rid of things, perhaps paint a room, plant some flowers, etc. I know there has to be some little things you could do, right? I know in this heat though it's not fun doing things like that, I know I don't feel like cleaning out my computer....which looks horrible^^;; Just try and come up with some ideas that you think can make the house more positive Truly and try to achieve some of those things. ^_^
As for your Mother and Father, they really do have a pessimistic attitude and I am very sorry for that my friend. When you live with people like that it's never any fun. Have you tried and sitting down and talking with your Mom about some things, like having a heart to heart chat? She needs to realize that she has two great daughters there for her. And as for your Father breaking promises, yeah, that's my Dad too. I wish I knew how to change those things too Truly, but I just don't know. I'm sorry. Maybe someday soon he will get some sense in head. As well as your Mom having a more positive attitude about things.
And your guinea pig too being sick? My God girl, you have been going through some hard times huh? *huge hugs* You know you can always message me if you want to talk more about things, I don't want you feeling too sad. Can you try putting your guinea pig close to the AC? I hope she starts to feel better though soon, I'm sure she will. She already sounds like she might be getting better. And mentioning the AC, your Mom does need to turn hers on because that isn't fair in this kind of heat. The heat is not good for anyone. Ugh how does anyone like this kind of weather?
I'm glad your friend Brandon was there to help you out Truly. But don't feel down or guilty that you told him your problems, I'm sure he was thankful for you to tell him all those things. Friends want to help each other out and be there for one another. So it's alright. Now since you shared all that with him, he knows he can share stuff with you too. So do not ever be afraid or ashamed to tell a friend how you feel, okay?
I'm sorry again for everything Truly and I wish I could make a wish come true happen for you. I wish I could come and give you a bunch of money and brand new, beautiful house. And a cute building to create your crafts in and have your own cute store. I honestly do wish I could help you with all of that. I will always keep you in my thoughts though, okay? I'm here for you. Things will get better for you, I'm sure of it. So you keep your head held high sweetie and keep doing your best. You're a great and beautiful person. ^_^
Love you very much! Take care~