*HUGS* No problem! (And boy do I understand the desire to be mean, seriously, the things I want to say to my extended family... *cough* Anyway, it's a very normal feeling. XD)
your not being stupid. Your a really caring person, who is over aware of the feelings of the people around you (and probably afraid of disapointing them); Its part of your personality. I realize how hard it will be for you to take the advice people are giving you; its not easy to change. Mind you don't have to change compeletly, you can still be the caring person that you are, just make sure to take care of yourself too XD
Thank you very much...you don't know how much better it makes me feel reading that... >//< I'm glad that someone understands. Thanks for the advice; it's really good, I just need to stop being stupid and follow it!! ^^;
Its ok to be a jerk sometimes; everyone has those days where they just wanna bite everyone's head off. And besides, acting on how you truely feel once in awhile probably won't make you a jerk (you seem like a really nice person).
Just remember that it should go both ways. If your constantly worrying about how others around you are feeling, whose worrying about how you feel? Its ok to take some time for yourself; its ok to do things that you enjoy. Its great that your such a caring person, but try not to negelect yourself, it only causes pain, and seems to only distance you from the people you do these things for.
I'm the exact same way, going out of my way for people, I've been walked all over. You can't let the fear of hurting someone's feelings get in the way of you expressing how you feel all the time.
Your allowed to be grumpy and have a bad day; you've more than earned the right XD
umchan649
Senior Otaku+ | Posted 01/10/12 | Reply
@jellydonut:
(hugs back) Okay cool, as long as I'm not the only one! XD
jellydonut
Otakuite+ | Posted 01/10/12 | Reply
*HUGS* No problem! (And boy do I understand the desire to be mean, seriously, the things I want to say to my extended family... *cough* Anyway, it's a very normal feeling. XD)
umchan649
Senior Otaku+ | Posted 01/10/12 | Reply
@IyamiNaHamusutaa:
Yeah, thanks for that XD I'll be trying my hardest!!
IyamiNaHamusutaa
Otaku Eternal | Posted 01/10/12 | Reply
@umchan649:
Glad I could help ^^
And,
your not being stupid. Your a really caring person, who is over aware of the feelings of the people around you (and probably afraid of disapointing them); Its part of your personality. I realize how hard it will be for you to take the advice people are giving you; its not easy to change. Mind you don't have to change compeletly, you can still be the caring person that you are, just make sure to take care of yourself too XD
umchan649
Senior Otaku+ | Posted 01/10/12 | Reply
@IyamiNaHamusutaa:
Thank you very much...you don't know how much better it makes me feel reading that... >//< I'm glad that someone understands. Thanks for the advice; it's really good, I just need to stop being stupid and follow it!! ^^;
Thanks again for everything!!
IyamiNaHamusutaa
Otaku Eternal | Posted 01/10/12 | Reply
Its ok to be a jerk sometimes; everyone has those days where they just wanna bite everyone's head off. And besides, acting on how you truely feel once in awhile probably won't make you a jerk (you seem like a really nice person).
Just remember that it should go both ways. If your constantly worrying about how others around you are feeling, whose worrying about how you feel? Its ok to take some time for yourself; its ok to do things that you enjoy. Its great that your such a caring person, but try not to negelect yourself, it only causes pain, and seems to only distance you from the people you do these things for.
I'm the exact same way, going out of my way for people, I've been walked all over. You can't let the fear of hurting someone's feelings get in the way of you expressing how you feel all the time.
Your allowed to be grumpy and have a bad day; you've more than earned the right XD
umchan649
Senior Otaku+ | Posted 01/10/12 | Reply
@kisskiss-bangbang:
D'oh! >///< Thanks...I'm going to try my best, I guess... ^^;
kisskiss-bangbang
Otaku Eternal | Posted 01/09/12 | Reply
@umchan649:
*pokes nose* Start by being honest with yourself, and stop trying to live up to others expectations. Like you said mate, start with YOU.
matt
umchan649
Senior Otaku+ | Posted 01/09/12 | Reply
@kisskiss-bangbang:
Thanks...I guess, I was just finally able to figure it out... I'm not sure where to go from here, but I've taken the first step!! :D
kisskiss-bangbang
Otaku Eternal | Posted 01/09/12 | Reply
Get it out girl. *pats back and smiles* Wot I tell yea about keeping t'ings in eh?
matt